Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

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I know this quick gems on women but rant...

Don't let a woman get you into a nikka moment. :snoop:

I'm at a day party and I know half the people in the section. I sit down next to a chick idk. She calls a nikka over and start whispering in his ear now he want to ask me if I know people in the section starting a nikka moment.

So me and the nikka going back and forth and the bytch looking ahead like she didn't start some shyt. :why:

Wasn't nobody choosing on your ass you were shaped like a boy, just because you rolling with your homegirl with a fake ass you want to feel yourself.
U shouldn’t have sat next to her. And if u must learn to master the art of speaking without feelings. One of the things I hate is giving a worthless chick who isn’t a nice person, the honor of being acknowledged by me.
 

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I’m stuck y’all I can’t focus on any of these girls till I’m over my crush and I can’t get over her cuz she keeps giving me mixed signals.
She's giving you mixed signals because either

A. she is playing games to get you obsessing over her just for the ego boost

B. Your actions are a mix of strength and weakness which she is reacting to.

C. There are other dude(s) in the picture and she is testing to see who is the strongest and at the same time to keep you hooked so you stay in back up position.

D. She doesn't want to hurt your feelings.

E. All of the above.

Either way, the way to look at it is, anything other than a clear yes through her actions is a no and move accordingly. Women are masters at talking their way in and out of stuff. They will apologize, they will say i would love too blabla with you but... I can't because blablabla but we definitely need to do it soon... Etc. Shift your focus from her mouth to her feet. Is she walking towards you or away from you? regardless of what her mouth is saying. I've said it before but always apply the Drake test. Would she cancel for the same reason if it was Drake? Would she give him the run around. Would she be giving him mixed signals? Then act accordingly. Get back to doing things for you. Get back to living in the present moment. Stop trying to comvince a girl to be attracted to you. No amount of convincing will do it. No amount of verbal logic will do it either. How you expect her to respect your time and energy when she sees how easy it is for her to play with it? and the worst part is the way you're acting, she's kinda right... :francis:


Sorry for the long post but I'd rather give you the real...
 

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What's your thoughts on women giving you $$, gift cards? When is it good sign or bad sign?
 

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I’m stuck y’all I can’t focus on any of these girls till I’m over my crush and I can’t get over her cuz she keeps giving me mixed signals.

We texted it out. We’ll hang out soon. I’m different or tired of hook ups. I want a gf that’s where my head at. Thanks for your words. I’m late with women so I feel like I’m playing catch up in terms of dating and hooking up. Starved and simped as a teen. Didn’t lose my virginity til 19.

Breh, i'm still not over my ex.

There's a lot more to my story since i last gave y'all the low downs.

Any who... i'm hoping this will end by summer (that's wishful thinking, as I really deem her my kindred soul flame).

We'll be alright fam.
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These unstable creatures got the brehs out here frustrated as hell :mjcry:
 

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I was going back & forth with a girl yesterday about when we were gonna link. All day she was adamant about linking today. So around 7 I say ok cool lets link Tuesday.

She really tried to hit me with the “I’ll let you know” by tonight:gucci:


No the fukk you won’t. Between my #1 girl, My career, & My business nobody not about to “let me know” shyt. I told her nah, We can just catch up another time.

She didn’t respond back for like 3 hours but was posting stories on IG, So she got blocked. :camby: Then she started blowing up my phone from different numbers around like 11.


Chicks really just be thinking they can play with you and put you on their time and you supposed to just go with it :what:

:camby: Hell Nah
 

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I was going back & forth with a girl yesterday about when we were gonna link. All day she was adamant about linking today. So around 7 I say ok cool lets link Tuesday.

She really tried to hit me with the “I’ll let you know” by tonight:gucci:


No the fukk you won’t. Between my #1 girl, My career, & My business nobody not about to “let me know” shyt. I told her nah, We can just catch up another time.

She didn’t respond back for like 3 hours but was posting stories on IG, So she got blocked. :camby: Then she started blowing up my phone from different numbers around like 11.


Chicks really just be thinking they can play with you and put you on their time and you supposed to just go with it :what:

:camby: Hell Nah

well played :obama:
 

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I was going back & forth with a girl yesterday about when we were gonna link. All day she was adamant about linking today. So around 7 I say ok cool lets link Tuesday.

She really tried to hit me with the “I’ll let you know” by tonight:gucci:


No the fukk you won’t. Between my #1 girl, My career, & My business nobody not about to “let me know” shyt. I told her nah, We can just catch up another time.

She didn’t respond back for like 3 hours but was posting stories on IG, So she got blocked. :camby: Then she started blowing up my phone from different numbers around like 11.


Chicks really just be thinking they can play with you and put you on their time and you supposed to just go with it :what:

:camby: Hell Nah
I don't know all the details but from my limited perspective, yall did the exact same thing to each other.

Her: *tries to link Monday*
You don't/can't make time and she feels like 'nikkas thinking they can play with you and put you on their time and you supposed to just go with it"
You: *tries to link Tuesday*
Her: "Imma let you know"

If her not being free to kick it on Tuesday is an issue, then shouldn't she feel some type of way in the beginning when you not free to kick it on Monday?

Not saying either of you are right or moving in the best way, but it's really not as simple as 'chicks be on bullshyt' IMO. The energy you are putting out is being reflected back to you.
 

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I don't know all the details but from my limited perspective, yall did the exact same thing to each other.

Her: *tries to link Monday*
You don't/can't make time and she feels like 'nikkas thinking they can play with you and put you on their time and you supposed to just go with it"
You: *tries to link Tuesday*
Her: "Imma let you know"

Because she can't kick it on Tuesday, it's an issue, but with that reasoning, shouldn't she feel some type of way about Monday? Not saying either of you are right or moving in the best way, but it's really not as simple as 'chicks be on bullshyt' IMO. The energy you are putting out is being reflected back to you.
She was the one that wanted to link Tuesday/Today.
 

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She was the one that wanted to link Tuesday/Today.
Oh my bad then. In my head, yall were tryina link up yesterday.

Yeah it doesn't sound like she would move properly if she was a part of the team.
 

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Oh my bad then. In my head, yall were tryina link up yesterday.

Yeah it doesn't sound like she would move properly if she was a part of the team.
She’s cool and the box is good. But she lives like 2.5 hours away so it’s already hard enough to get up with her and then add the bs on top of that, Nahhh. Not right now.
 

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When im bored at work...i go on apps...get matches....these bytches are 6s at best...single mom...etc

They be havn that trash ass attitudes lol

"I dont send nudes"

"I dont talk about sex"


bytch eat a dikk blocked!! Cant stand these virgin ass bytches
 

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When im bored at work...i go on apps...get matches....these bytches are 6s at best...single mom...etc

They be havn that trash ass attitudes lol

"I dont send nudes"

"I dont talk about sex"


bytch eat a dikk blocked!! Cant stand these virgin ass bytches
how soon into the convo are you talking nudes and sex?
 

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These unstable creatures got the brehs out here frustrated as hell :mjcry:
My biggest L is givin a girl I should have just fukked a vday gift when I knew she was lying bout bein single and shyt. This new girl is cool af and I’m into her but I’m still flirt with more and get new p*ssy with her or without her in my life. Idgaf
 
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