Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

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I dont make promises. I said this in the beginning.

she was ok with it at first but couldnt handle it over nachos. She wanted me to promise to make nachos when i planned to make em anyway.


Am i being a hard ass here to sticking to my principles?
 

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It's crazy how easily a woman will go cold on you after you make ONE mistake or you do something they don't like.

I gotta remember that we're disposable to them, I'm just one of hundreds

Its cuz they don’t have a scarcity mindset like some men do. The abundance of simps and weak men have conditioned them to view us as beneath them or disposable.

I guarantee if men harness the power of restraint and stop giving into these hoes, some form of parity and equilibrium can be restored in the dating world.
 

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A lot of guys rushing things out here. Covid has some of these guys feeling like they have to lock down women asap.

Met up with a female friend of mine. She was telling me a guy she was seeing asked her to be his GF Friday night after they smashed for the 2nd time. After only 5 dates.

She was taken aback as whilst she's been enjoying his company she wasn't feeling him 100% like that, she gave him the I'm not ready for a relationship speech this morning and is probably going to end hanging out with him.

Even in my simp days, I knew better than to ask a woman that question, let her say it to you.
 

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Its cuz they don’t have a scarcity mindset like some men do. The abundance of simps and weak men have conditioned them to view us as beneath them or disposable.

Not only that, but men don't bush them nearly enough for their bullshyt. They will show all the red flags in the world, but a dude will be happy just to get some form of female attention that they let it slide and continue on. Men need to have an abundance mindset and also have stuff going for themselves in all aspects of life. Once you have that, your life will pretty much speak for itself and you wouldn't even have to tell a chick to cooperate, she will just KNOW and act accordingly. You see how loyal and supportive Idris Elba's young wife has been from the jump? That's for a reason.
 

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A lot of guys rushing things out here. Covid has some of these guys feeling like they have to lock down women asap.

Met up with a female friend of mine. She was telling me a guy she was seeing asked her to be his GF Friday night after they smashed for the 2nd time. After only 5 dates.

She was taken aback as whilst she's been enjoying his company she wasn't feeling him 100% like that, she gave him the I'm not ready for a relationship speech this morning and is probably going to end hanging out with him.

Even in my simp days, I knew better than to ask a woman that question, let her say it to you.

I've never asked a woman to be my girl ever in my life :pachaha: If she hasn't asked she almost certainly not ready.
 
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Its cuz they don’t have a scarcity mindset like some men do. The abundance of simps and weak men have conditioned them to view us as beneath them or disposable.

I mean this is great if you are trying to live the bachelors life or trying to be single forever, but you can't build anything with anyone by bouncing to the next once you go through one shaky moment.

This is the reason why there are sooo many single older women now. Yes there will always be another, but doesn't mean you are going to connect with them or they will take you serious.
Women don't seem to make the distinction. They just think because there is interest she must be of value, but 90% of men are just trying to smash and those are the cold facts :yeshrug:
 

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There's this girl at work, she basically started the conversation off with me and eventually she dropped me home and I got the number. I barely text her and she went cold on a brotha :dwillhuh: left the baffled. Barely says hello now

Come to find out she's given her number out to HELLA brehs at work :deadmanny: she gives off the vibe she's a hoe, rejected dudes tryna give her some dikk and when we were in the car she was tryna say she looking for a relationship :dahell:


Make it make sense to me please coli brehs. I know I should just move on which I have but sometimes I still overanalyze these situations in in head.
 

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There's this girl at work, she basically started the conversation off with me and eventually she dropped me home and I got the number. I barely text her and she went cold on a brotha :dwillhuh: left the baffled. Barely says hello now

Come to find out she's given her number out to HELLA brehs at work :deadmanny: she gives off the vibe she's a hoe, rejected dudes tryna give her some dikk and when we were in the car she was tryna say she looking for a relationship :dahell:


Make it make sense to me please coli brehs. I know I should just move on which I have but sometimes I still overanalyze these situations in in head.

I'll help you with it...

Stay CLEAR...:mjgrin:

She is trouble and isnt worth the brainpower
 

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There's this girl at work, she basically started the conversation off with me and eventually she dropped me home and I got the number. I barely text her and she went cold on a brotha :dwillhuh: left the baffled. Barely says hello now

Come to find out she's given her number out to HELLA brehs at work :deadmanny: she gives off the vibe she's a hoe, rejected dudes tryna give her some dikk and when we were in the car she was tryna say she looking for a relationship :dahell:


Make it make sense to me please coli brehs. I know I should just move on which I have but sometimes I still overanalyze these situations in in head.

There you go.

It's illogical and doesn't make sense, therefore no point trying to figure it out.

It's not good to mess with women you work with anyway.
 

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I'll help you with it...

Stay CLEAR...:mjgrin:

She is trouble and isnt worth the brainpower
There you go.

It's illogical and doesn't make sense, therefore no point trying to figure it out.

It's not good to mess with women you work with anyway.


Thank you my brehs

I have moved on but I just over analyse in general. And you right, the girls at work thing just ain't really worth it. But with this pandemic shyt is kinda difficult

Girl only been here for about 3 months and got her name ringing around the warehouse already got damn :what:
 

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Thank you my brehs

I have moved on but I just over analyse in general. And you right, the girls at work thing just ain't really worth it. But with this pandemic shyt is kinda difficult

Girl only been here for about 3 months and got her name ringing around the warehouse already got damn :what:

She gonna have nikkas fighting....its inevitable..

I do feel you about this pandemic shyt tho..
 

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Its cuz they don’t have a scarcity mindset like some men do. The abundance of simps and weak men have conditioned them to view us as beneath them or disposable.

I guarantee if men harness the power of restraint and stop giving into these hoes, some form of parity and equilibrium can be restored in the dating world.

and thats the issue. When a breh finally shows discipline there are 2 simps in the cut waiting
 

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A lot of guys rushing things out here. Covid has some of these guys feeling like they have to lock down women asap.

Met up with a female friend of mine. She was telling me a guy she was seeing asked her to be his GF Friday night after they smashed for the 2nd time. After only 5 dates.

She was taken aback as whilst she's been enjoying his company she wasn't feeling him 100% like that, she gave him the I'm not ready for a relationship speech this morning and is probably going to end hanging out with him.

Even in my simp days, I knew better than to ask a woman that question, let her say it to you.

how old is she?

main issue right now is if you lost your roster in covid/newly single without a roster under covid the normal options to add new members to your roster have dried up/are gone so dudes have a scarcity mindset just for general companionship.
 
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