Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[Thurgood Thurston III]

I’m off that. It’s been days where I go out with grime on my hands from working on my motorcycle, days where I walked out in my pants with 1 back packet ripped off, etc and still been noticed. Just have to play my field instead of wanting to hit these away gamesquestion, y’all really change ya wardrobe/fashion tastes for the hoes? I’m curious, and besides I’m gonna adopt the grown man style soon, I got a suit and I like wearing em, feeling top notch

Guys like me have to get fly in order to compete with you prettyboys. My point is that it doesn't hurt to take any advantage you can get. Especially since you claimed you want to fukk as much women as possible in your 20s. I've never changed how I dressed for hoes. I just happened to grow up in the subculture that produces the style some hoes like to see.

It's like if you live in an area where all the chicks want a guy with dreads. You may already be eating with a flat top, but if your goal is to maximize the amount of bytches you smash, getting dreads wouldn't be a bad idea. Look at the beard trend. I know guys who had some girls, but became kings when they grew out their beards.

I'm not saying to change who you are for these hoes, but if something doesn't define you, does it really matter if you change it?

For example, if you think dancing goes against your core beliefs, then don't do it. But if it's something that you don't have any feelings about, why not take dance lessons to meet bytches? You get what I mean?

I used to cuff broads a week after meeting them in order to guarantee the kill. Then I'd break up with them. That's what they wanted me to do in order to get the p*ssy, so that's what I did. It cost me nothing except having to hear a few broads cry about dumping them. But that didn't go against my core beliefs at the time so I sleep well at night.

Do whatever makes you comfortable, though. I know you already understand how the game works. Just giving some perspective.

 

[Sinnerman]

I've been going ham on getting rid of these cc debts, paid off 2 cards last year and have 2 more to go

Yep

Over quarantine I've paid off all my credit cards, lost 25 pounds, and I've paid off my car

 

[Noriega]

I told shorty I fw now she look better without makeup and she been ignoring me the last few days

but it’s true, shorty FaceTime gang with just a bare face


She be getting in my car with a full face of makeup I be hitting the in my head

 

[Doctor Doom]

I told shorty I fw now she look better without makeup and she been ignoring me the last few days

but it’s true, shorty FaceTime gang with just a bare face


She be getting in my car with a full face of makeup I be hitting the in my head

A lot of girls be doing the most with their makeup, looking like a completely different person, or worse, clownish. You might have been wrong to tell her that so frankly, but I'd have done the same breh.

Quickest way to get what you want is by going to it in a straight line. Imo, honesty works the same way

 

[Noriega]

A lot of girls be doing the most with their makeup, looking like a completely different person, or worse, clownish. You might have been wrong to tell her that so frankly, but I'd have done the same breh.

Quickest way to get what you want is by going to it in a straight line. Imo, honesty works the same way

Shorty look like a fool with that shyt on and be thinking that shyt cute, thats what be blowing me.

She has nice natural hair and a baby face, the makeup ruin her whole vibe/look.

she texted me this morning saying I was rude asl and I was like you know it’s true

 

[Everything Zen]

she's actually gone... always knew this little thing had an expiration date but damn, she actually gone.

 

[Ahadi]

Became platonic friends with a non-practicing hijabi woman in the last month. She is very open with me. Telling me about her awful home life (lives with brother and another family member). Parents live overseas. Told me she has been sexually assaulted several times as recently as Thanksgiving, and it was by someone she knows but didn't go into anymore detail. Feel bad for the girl to be real. She's got a very unique personality. I gave her words of encouragement and asked if she wanted to meet for coffee since she's a Starbucks stan, but she has a board exam in two weeks and wants to focus on studying. And has since decided to isolate herself from ppl due to the trauma. How would ya'll go about checking in on her if at all?

I kinda don’t see a point. Especially since you’re not trying to get at her. (Which it seems like you low key are)

From my point of view, you seem like you’re taking on the emotional tampon / good guy angle. I’d say, just keep plates spinning talk to multiple women, and when she’s ready to link she will.

She also sounds like the type that enjoys toxic / traumatic relationships anyways, it’s already printed in her.

 

[Ahadi]

exactly. Dudes need to stop tryna play therapist.

dude need to tell chick to see a doctor and leave it at that, if she doesnt want to then thats on her

He’s gona end up losing and be tight when he sees her with a guy who beats her ass.

 

[Ahadi]

I been stopped caring what women are saying. Heal and work on yourself and get the necessary professional help, or shut the fukk up.

I've come a long way and I'm still a work in progress. I had a VERY rough 2020 like a lot of people and even then some family were still on some petty shyt at a time where you'd think we would stick together. I had to fight through it, all the while studying, working and doing whatever to get myself through. I didn't moan and complain or cry on anyone's shoulder and if I tried who would have gave a fukk at a time like this?

Some of these chicks bring a lot of their problems on themselves. I ain't trying to be Mr Nice Guy Counselor. Been there, done that only to feel embarassed and played when I realised I was just being used. It will be a cold day in hell before that happens again. I'm not Montel.

Women will cry tears with all kinds of sob stories, then be posting an hour later on social media cheesing. I've seen this happen. If you have a roof over your head and you're relatively healthy, I don't wanna hear shyt.

Just like how I've had to drag myself through the mud and self improve, any chick I deal with would have had to work on herself too. I don't fukk with broken chicks who ain't even trying to be fixed.

Don't be anyone's fool.

You realize this a lot when you get older. Whenever I get the sad story or the blah blah blah, I walk alway cause I don’t want that negative energy to rub off on me.

When you get older, you have a better understanding of what kind of things you want to enter your space physically and mentally. I have no problem walking away, if I feel like that woman is bringing depression or negativity.

 

[Ahadi]

I’m getting 1s, tats, ice. Besides gettin in shape. What else can a breh do?

Depends on the type of woman you want. 1s & ice only targets a small market of women.

Best thing you can do now during quarantine is work out and getting your mind right.

 

[Ahadi]

Ayo brehs, now I’m no Carlton Banks but I was fukking with Yubo live and some girls from L.A. said I looked like I was white washed but fine nonetheless . a$$holes dragged that topic into a whole ass convo about meshyt got me heated for some reason, so I ask...Do I gotta change my whole look,start listening to the latest rappers, and act belligerent just to fw girls my age? I’m tryna run from this shyt, they were kinda immature and acted hood but if they think that I’m curious to know how other girls feel

No. Keep being you and broaden your market. There are plenty of women out here who appreciate your look. Environment is everything.

What you encountered was an extremely small sample size of women.

I’d say go for older. Get some practice with them. Cause the women around your age group aren’t checking for you.

They’re either dealing with:

The “fun guys” = drug dealer, SoundCloud rapper, party promoter, or DJ.

Older guys = Older, established, guys who come back to scoop a younger joint,

Future prospects = The sports player who is about to be drafted, or the fraternity guys.

 

[Rozay Oro]

Depends on the type of woman you want. 1s & ice only targets a small market of women.

Best thing you can do now during quarantine is work out and getting your mind right.

May be silly but i only want brehettes and I got “good hair” (hate that phrase) and feel insecure bout not bein “hood enough”. Try to understand my manic posts and thread my nikka.

 

[Straw Hat Luffy]

When you got feelings for another man girl


Don’t be responding to my snap stories so often. I don’t if you just view us as friends but damn woman I’m attracted to you don’t know if her man knows I exist or not



but Now I get why cheating happens so often between people who work, go to class, or even being a regular for a bartender etc.


All that time around another adds up and the attraction builds up over time and next thing you know someone’s cheating


But don’t worry brehs I’m not gonna make any moves I’m not ending up on not murder doc

 

[Tug life]

I need advice on this situation brehs. So I was at this block party in Florida with my sisters the other night for one of their father in laws coming home party. they had fire multiple fire pits spread out in a large area with people at each one. The one I was at had about 12 people. Long story short this bad joint and her friend comes to our fire and is just chilling at some point me and her lock eyes for what felt like five seconds but I didn't say anything at the time because my brother in law was drunk talking about stocks aggressively to me lol. Anyway me and her kept looking at each other from a distance but I but I never spoke to her or tried to holla mainly because she was standing with 3 other girls at the time and to be honest I don't have the confidence to go up to 4 girls alone by myself to try to holla. I was waiting to see if I can get a chance if got by herself but it never happened and she left shortly after.

One thing to mention is I'm from New York and I was in Florida for the party in the south so I knew nobody but my sisters and their husbands. Any way it's kind of like a small town where everybody knows everybody and my sister said that the girl came to her hair salon and she knows her.

Long story shorter my sister had her on IG and gave me the girls @ my question is would it seem weird if I just pop up in her dm even though I can honestly tell her my sister gave it to me? Would it also seem weird that I didn't say anything in person but hit her up on IG? I had nobody to wingman for me and in hindsight I could've motioned for her to come to my side so I'll take that L especially because she was showing all the signs that she was interested. So what so y'all think would be the best approach?

 

[TRUEST]

I need advice on this situation brehs. So I was at this block party in Florida with my sisters the other night for one of their father in laws coming home party. they had fire multiple fire pits spread out in a large area with people at each one. The one I was at had about 12 people. Long story short this bad joint and her friend comes to our fire and is just chilling at some point me and her lock eyes for what felt like five seconds but I didn't say anything at the time because my brother in law was drunk talking about stocks aggressively to me lol. Anyway me and her kept looking at each other from a distance but I but I never spoke to her or tried to holla mainly because she was standing with 3 other girls at the time and to be honest I don't have the confidence to go up to 4 girls alone by myself to try to holla. I was waiting to see if I can get a chance if got by herself but it never happened and she left shortly after.

One thing to mention is I'm from New York and I was in Florida for the party in the south so I knew nobody but my sisters and their husbands. Any way it's kind of like a small town where everybody knows everybody and my sister said that the girl came to her hair salon and she knows her.

Long story shorter my sister had her on IG and gave me the girls @ my question is would it seem weird if I just pop up in her dm even though I can honestly tell her my sister gave it to me? Would it also seem weird that I didn't say anything in person but hit her up on IG? I had nobody to wingman for me and in hindsight I could've motioned for her to come to my side so I'll take that L especially because she was showing all the signs that she was interested. So what so y'all think would be the best approach?

It’s worth a shot. Just dont allude to being puccy as the reason u didn’t talk to her at the party. Just be like “hi there. I didn’t get the chance to talk to you the other night. I must admit, I’m quite intrigued. Can we chat?” - since u puccied out the first time, u gotta go straight to the point in asking her out now.

If she gives u her phone number, call her and set up a date as quickly as possible. Either that day or night or the next day. None of that next week bullsh1t.