Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

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No offense, but what makes you think you're gonna get the same results as him? Have you done this before?

I've approached far more women than him, yet I'm not knocking down milfs of any kind.

Is there something special about him?
do you approach milfs? i rarely do it , but the times i have its actually been a decent success rate. long as they single
 

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Is it a red flag for a woman to be in her mid 30s (34 & up) to not have kids?

There’s this older female I know who is in her 30s. She live by herself no kids and 2 small dogs. I was taken by that shyt when she told me :ohhh:
Hell no.

Maybe she just aint met the right guy and has consciously delayed having kids so she can live her life and focus on her career.

When it comes to settling down I wanna be with a woman with no kids tbh, I want my first to be their first.
 

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Being honest may have fumbled some p*ssy for me.

Been chatting to a chick on/off for the past month or so, meant to be meet up like last month but didnt end up doing so.
Then and now we both been mad flirty and p*ssy was on the cards we already talked about it etc.
So we been chatting then UK went into lockdown again delaying plans.

In the midst of it all felt like we both on different pages, kinda felt like she was going into this expecting too much.
Just wanna chill and fukk not looking for a relationship, which I expressed but sometimes some of the things she said kinda felt she misunderstood.
So clarified it like look Im willing to see where it goes but right now not looking for a relationship...

She got a bit annoyed as she felt I kept bringing it up but that just to make sure she knew what it is.
Stopped speaking for a day and now speaking again but energy bit different.

Suggested seeing her this weekend just to chill as weve never met she said yeah but at the same time it was kinda flakey.

So unsure if I've fumbled it completely, as the original plan was to get a hotel booked once they reopened.
Either way I cant say im that bothered but when you notice the shift in energy its like:picard:
I just like being 100 when it comes to women, I'll tell you what im interested in I wont paint you a fairytale in order to get p*ssy :yeshrug:

I got backup p*ssy from a friend who I've been sexing over the past few months but admittedly this girl is a lot badder

Will see If I do see her this weekend or if its a dead end.
 

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I’m 28 short not ugly ugly gang ya kno...overweight
Get in shape.
Speak to more women and build your confidence.
Identify why you feel you dont get women and try work on it.
Is it your personality? Do you miss the signs? Dress sense? Low self esteem? etc

Either way best investment is ALWAYS yourself - With balance though.
Everything else will follow.

I aint ever had a girl lmao - well seriously anyway, early to late teen days I was ugly gang in my eyes at least and for that reason I wasn't confident.

Now I've had girls wanting relationships but I avoid them one because a lot of the time they're white women and I'm not interested in being with a white woman long term personally and 2 I dont feel ready for one I still got a lot of shyt in my life to sort out and do before I can feel comfortable getting in one.

You good one dont stress it bro.
 

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Being honest may have fumbled some p*ssy for me.

Been chatting to a chick on/off for the past month or so, meant to be meet up like last month but didnt end up doing so.
Then and now we both been mad flirty and p*ssy was on the cards we already talked about it etc.
So we been chatting then UK went into lockdown again delaying plans.

In the midst of it all felt like we both on different pages, kinda felt like she was going into this expecting too much.
Just wanna chill and fukk not looking for a relationship, which I expressed but sometimes some of the things she said kinda felt she misunderstood.
So clarified it like look Im willing to see where it goes but right now not looking for a relationship...

She got a bit annoyed as she felt I kept bringing it up but that just to make sure she knew what it is.
Stopped speaking for a day and now speaking again but energy bit different.

Suggested seeing her this weekend just to chill as weve never met she said yeah but at the same time it was kinda flakey.

So unsure if I've fumbled it completely, as the original plan was to get a hotel booked once they reopened.
Either way I cant say im that bothered but when you notice the shift in energy its like:picard:
I just like being 100 when it comes to women, I'll tell you what im interested in I wont paint you a fairytale in order to get p*ssy :yeshrug:

I got backup p*ssy from a friend who I've been sexing over the past few months but admittedly this girl is a lot badder

Will see If I do see her this weekend or if its a dead end.
The energy shift is real. Enthusiasm be flat. Nonetheless, let it breathe, if she feeling it, she’ll re-emerge. Girls be having attention withdrawals, she can cave
 

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The energy shift is real. Enthusiasm be flat. Nonetheless, let it breathe, if she feeling it, she’ll re-emerge. Girls be having attention withdrawals, she can cave
Yeah lmao the energy shift have you feeling different even when you not into a chick like that.
One minute youre like I've got the juice and now its gone lmao.

Yeah shes being a bit off with me today, so Ima leave it unless she pop up to me.

If I dont hear from her Ima just phone Friday/Saturday and see what shes got to say, because the plan was to potentially meet up saturday so...Ima do a rain check Friday night.

Anyhow she come with the "You aint messaged me all week" ima hit her with the receipts.

0 energy charge to the game and move on

Aint finna be doing the most for a chick I aint interested in having nothing serious with, so ima let whatever other due she got hitting her up do her thing.

She was on the kid though so even If not now we may start talking again in the new year if she still single meh, we been chatting on Snap so she still gonna see when I post and shyt.
 
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Some good advice just for dealing with people in general, particularly the point about having some type of mystery to yourself.

No one respects a person who talks too much. Even your dreams and goals should be kept to yourself until after you achieve the results. Give people a general idea but don't get into specifics. I learned this lesson over time.
 

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Yeah lmao the energy shift have you feeling different even when you not into a chick like that.
One minute youre like I've got the juice and now its gone lmao.

Yeah shes being a bit off with me today, so Ima leave it unless she pop up to me.

If I dont hear from her Ima just phone Friday/Saturday and see what shes got to say, because the plan was to potentially meet up saturday so...Ima do a rain check Friday night.

Anyhow she come with the "You aint messaged me all week" ima hit her with the receipts.

0 energy charge to the game and move on

Aint finna be doing the most for a chick I aint interested in having nothing serious with, so ima let whatever other due she got hitting her up do her thing.

She was on the kid though so even If not now we may start talking again in the new year if she still single meh, we been chatting on Snap so she still gonna see when I post and shyt.

This is the problem right here. Women always go cold when they think there isn't a chance you'll ever commit.

Even when you tell them what it is from the beginning, they'll still hold out until it's clear you want nothing serious.

Until she's invested a lot, you have to inspire some hope if you want to keep it going. It's dirty, but that's the game.

Sometimes, however, going cold is a tactic they use to try and get you to chase. If she comes back, then you'll know what it is
 

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Brehs should I just fold and get a gf for quarantine life? I’m 20 and never had a gf but I wanna keep my sex game fresh. Hit tinder and these women still wasting time, so no hookups or fuxkbuddies lately. I got 2 girls in mind, one of em was already calling herself my gf after the 1st meet up:huhldup:
 

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Brehs should I just fold and get a gf for quarantine life? I’m 20 and never had a gf but I wanna keep my sex game fresh. Hit tinder and these women still wasting time, so no hookups or fuxkbuddies lately. I got 2 girls in mind, one of em was already calling herself my gf after the 1st meet up:huhldup:

Cuffin season is going to be strong this year.
 

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Brehs help a young nikka out :yeshrug:


I’m 20 but theres a 16 yr old thats fukking w me heavy. Bare in mind, Age of consent is 16 over here but I’m still not 100%:hubie:

My older bro said to run it but idk I want more opinions :lupe:

@Hennessypapi @360dagod @Krisrunner2049 @DaRealness

Do you young breh :manny: If you was any older though I would tell you to leave it alone.

Just be aware though at that age she is going to be completely sprung on you once you lay the pipe, just be prepared for that.
 
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