bytches say shyt like that so they don’t get thirsty dudes spamming them asking if they’re dtf or want friends with benefits. Which makes sense I get it.
I said it before on here- when you first match with a bytch you eventually want to establish that you’re really busy (school, work, both) and “don’t have time” + don’t want to meet up with a bunch of hos and that ideally you meet one and delete the app
What this does is puts it in their bird brains that youre “serious” and got your shyt together and aren’t on the app just trying to pipe every bytch. But you didn’t actually say it explicitly
Next thing i do is ask how long they’ve been single. I always say under one year, in order for me to follow up with “I’m not looking to rush into a relationship right away”
Women are stupid and want to come off as understanding and I’ve never had a negative response to that. After that it’s basically maneuvering to get a bytch to your crib. They will ask “well what are you looking for then” - say some goofy shyt like “someone who I can vibe with/ have a connection with” and say that ur goal is to delete the app
I also exaggerate how seriously I’m taking corona in order to avoid going anywhere even if it’s outdoor dining or bars and get shyt back to the crib