I hear women say the same shyt about dudes all the time...
Look someone can be quality, but not compatible with you. And that's something people need to understand and accept.
For example, I'm more laid back, easy going and a home body type. So instinctively I know I wouldn't click with a woman that constantly needs to be outside or going to events. I accept that, and I've come across women who are great, but because of that major difference in personality we weren't compatible.
I know a lot cats, who think they're quality dudes, but they aren't
I'm like breh, how you expecting a dyme at 30, when you're working an entry level job, balding / bald, out of shape, dress like shyt, come off like a misogynistic, only have a high school diploma, have no financial discipline, in excessive debt and have no idea about how to boss up / better your situation.
It's like give me a break, I see this far too often.
I see the same from women, where they'll be overweight(huge turn off to most men right off the bat), have a child or two(maybe not as big of a deal breaker after a certain age, just depends on the situation), too emotionally guarded( past baggage makes it hard for them to open up), in crazy debt, have no financial discipline, and come off like they care more about their "wedding day" rather than their actual wedding.
The point is, a lot of people need to look in the mirror and be realistic.
If you don't look like prime denzel or prime beyonce then you can't have unrealistic expectations for a partner, especially look wise.
Also it's way more quality women out here than men. Not even close, women collectively play their own type of superficial game, but they instinctively want marriage, kids or at least some type of relationships.
A lot of dudes just want sex from different women they find attractive.
Almost any dude, that wants a relationship can get into one, it may not be with your dream girl but you can definitely get into one.
You my dude and I always appreciate your posts but see... I was going to take that devils advocate perspective too. Then I thought about it and nah it isnt the same
Women are just pickier and less accepting/patient than men. They are also less compromising because they know that what you wont do or wont accept from them...there is a weak simp out there that will. The ironic thing is that they can find that simp but wouldnt respect him because he is spineless. That's the paradox that is dating in 2020. Don't kid yourself.
Why? Women have this idea that they should be loved and accepted for who they are. Men are taught that in order to get love and acceptance and deserve a quality woman that we must work on ourselves. its a VERY VERY VERY big difference fam. If you wanna believe what these girls are telling you about not being able to find quality men though go ahead. Maybe for ugly women it's true but for attractive ones it's an absolute lie. Their standards are just too unrealistic.
PS: I'm saying this as somebody who has a high body count, six figure job, his own place, has written a book, is starting a business, is 6 foot 1, 200 lbs, six pack. Supposedly good looking. Has his own place etc.
I say that to say that I am not coming from an incel point of view. I get women. But finding a quality woman who actually understands the hard work, compromise and effort it takes to build a relationship is nearly impossible...let alone finding a black one, and one who appreciates what you bring to the table and isnt holding out for a millionaire simp. I got countless stories I could tell you breh. Trust me.
Lastly, compatibility dont mean shyt. Compatibility fluctuates in that peoples moods, values, opinions and wants/needs are everchanging. So you could be compatible with a girl/guy one day only to become incompatible a year or two later. Cause even what you said in your example, that difference can be complimentary in that it could help you ground the woman, and she could help you learn to be more exploratory.
The only thing that matters is commitment. Love is a choice above all else. All that compatible, soul mate shyt is fickle. Commitment is the only thing that can help two people sustain a long lasting relationship.
breh, we must live in alternate realities. What city do you live in?
when they meet the women here and learn about how they move
