Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

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Honestly, this could be a couple things. My main concern is make sure you aren't the backup dude and now her main prospect has bailed, she thinks she can summon you. If not, well, you liked her enough to be serious so maybe you can entertain her again but I would cut the cord at additional indecision.

We talked this week for a bit. Pretty light convos for the most part. I honestly was kind of checked out so I let her do all the talking. Seems like she wanted to ask something or get to something in our convo earlier this week but didn’t get a chance to because I had to leave abruptly.

So today I revisited it. Just asked her if she got everything she wanted from that call. She said she just wanted to “catch up”.

I think I’ve done what I need to. No need for too much talking. I’ve put my cards on the table so to speak.
 

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Yall know alot of these chicks are gonna use Covid as a excuse to not really meet up. Don't let that stop you either. History tells you that these heffas would risk it all for somebody they feeling. These chicks would literally skip work for some dyck. If AIDS, Herpes, or STDs didn't stop them from linking up with guys they feeling yall think Covid will? :mjlol:
Crazy how factual this statement is :dead:
 

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You have to be firm with her and let her know that you’re on a date with her, not her friends. If she’s not comfortable with that, then walk away.

Great answer....

fukk i look like tryna jump thru a hoola hoop in front of her hating ass friends who will most likely talk shyt about me when i leave..thus clouding her already stupid judgement
 

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How do you guys feel about meeting a chick for the first time and she wants you to go to a spot with her friends instead of one on one?

Depends on how well you perform in social venues. You have to be extremely honest with and about yourself. Are you socially inept? Don't go. Are you charming? Then go on ahead. Your market value is increased when people see you mingling with everyone. Everybody wants to be around the cool/funny guy. If you feel like it'll just be awkward and you're not good at performing, don't go and make it a more private date.
 

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Have y’all noticed women with no ass or t*ts act extra bytchy?


Plenty of white girls are like that in the club here in NYC. I just laugh em off and wait till they ask for a cig outside. Those bytches are usually the easiest to manipulate and talk to. Make fun em a few times and they're puddy in your hands.
 

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She cant think much of you if this is her move.

One on one is supposed to be time to get to know one another. Hanging with her friends etc can come later after a few hang out.

For a first meet? She's outta her mind.


I hit her up and she was cool with one on one. She actually apologized for asking me to do that but turns out one of her friends had a big party at this bar but nobody showed up and she just needed more bodies to not feel bad. Lol
 

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I was about to smash tonight. It was going to be her first time. That shyt was wetter than the ocean but I was too drunk and my dikk didn’t work. she even let me go to the store and buy a pill waited and that shyt never kicked in. Fml
 

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Plenty of white girls are like that in the club here in NYC. I just laugh em off and wait till they ask for a cig outside. Those bytches are usually the easiest to manipulate and talk to. Make fun em a few times and they're puddy in your hands.

well I was talking black chicks that fit that description lol. White girls are the easiest women in the world and so slutty especially in nyc so that don’t count. But in regards to what I said the contradiction is so interesting...cause the young short dark skinned dime at my job I mentioned a couple posts back She is super down to earth and still hood and friendly with people but I got a few skinny busted chicks at the same place that are just straight up bytches :mjlol:

I dropped the page for the og mack lessons and I remember Tariq even saying this before how it’s a lot of average and below average acting this way but the dimes will act nicer than them. shyt makes no sense :pachaha:

has to be all that anger that no man goes for them so they pretend to be dykes
 

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I was about to smash tonight. It was going to be her first time. That shyt was wetter than the ocean but I was too drunk and my dikk didn’t work. she even let me go to the store and buy a pill waited and that shyt never kicked in. Fml
Did she give you head?
 

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well I was talking black chicks that fit that description lol. White girls are the easiest women in the world and so slutty especially in nyc so that don’t count. But in regards to what I said the contradiction is so interesting...cause the young short dark skinned dime at my job I mentioned a couple posts back She is super down to earth and still hood and friendly with people but I got a few skinny busted chicks at the same place that are just straight up bytches :mjlol:

I dropped the page for the og mack lessons and I remember Tariq even saying this before how it’s a lot of average and below average acting this way but the dimes will act nicer than them. shyt makes no sense :pachaha:

has to be all that anger that no man goes for them so they pretend to be dykes
This is the truth.
 

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well I was talking black chicks that fit that description lol. White girls are the easiest women in the world and so slutty especially in nyc so that don’t count. But in regards to what I said the contradiction is so interesting...cause the young short dark skinned dime at my job I mentioned a couple posts back She is super down to earth and still hood and friendly with people but I got a few skinny busted chicks at the same place that are just straight up bytches :mjlol:

I dropped the page for the og mack lessons and I remember Tariq even saying this before how it’s a lot of average and below average acting this way but the dimes will act nicer than them. shyt makes no sense :pachaha:

has to be all that anger that no man goes for them so they pretend to be dykes


Ugly women get approached more often, because we men know that they're gonna give it up consistently...however, they're getting played more as well, since you can always just get another ugo to fukk. Pretty girls aren't getting dropped for a 2-4, maybe cheated on sure, but completely dropped? No.

Pretty women are natural born losers. Genetically, they look great, but they learn to lean on that too much, and I realize they aren't of much substance, dopey, and really don't have to struggle as hard as other females. So...they're easily manipulated as well. You can sound like a scholar and a prince due to the fact they don't reach or care much about being smart/funny. Even if she is cute and smart, she's more than likely been bounced off a couple walls or on some kind of drug. Its all easy once you know the game.
 
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