VertigoKnight
Veteran
When a woman says you intimidated them is that a bad thing?
I have a cold/blank face and when people are talking to me I look them in the eyes.
I ask this because I was at my boys apartment yesterday and was talking to this girl his girlfriend is friends with(I’m not really interested in, she’s a skinny asian) and she said that she thought I was intimidating when she first met me a few months ago and that I looked mean but realized now I’m cool. Gave me her Snapchat and said we should chill.
I asked my boy about it and he said just take it at surface level but I’ve never heard this from anybody before. It’s been bothering me cause I’m wondering if I’m out here scaring people. Might be the reason I’m in a drought if I’m out here scaring women
Black men by default make a lot of people scared. If you're tall and built as well. It's expected.
A lot of Asian women find black men intimidating especially at first. A lot of them have never really socialized with black men so they're unsure. Which is why a lot of brehs think they don't mess with them.