Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

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@FIVE 6 MAFIA did the Asian chick turn up?
She did. She's the shyest woman I've ever met, I can not read her at all. I tried flirting but it went right over her head. The loud noises of the band seemed to bother her. Maybe she has Asperger's I don't know.

We danced to a few songs then took a break to cool off. A guy asked her to dance so she danced with him. I was still cooling off so I was just chilling watching the dancers. The guy she was dancing with tried to get close, and he put his hand on the small of her back, and she pushed him off and left him standing there on the dance floor. I pretended not to see what just happened, like I was looking in another direction, and I asked her how the dance went. She said it was weird but okay. Then she went and got her sweater, and tied it around her waist. I think she wanted to cover up her azz, she didn't seem to like the attention and looks she was getting.

Then another song came on and I danced with a different chick for that song. She was watching me the whole time, then halfway through the song I looked over and she was not there. I didn't know where she had gone. She sent a text saying she got tired so she left. But no one gets tired 45 minutes into an event...

Even though we hadn't officially made it a date, and I didn't get a chance to let her know that I was into her, it seems like she got jealous and left when I danced with the new chick. Or maybe she's introverted and can't handle those loud environments. She was more comfortable and open when we were at dance class. A lot of guys were asking her to dance, and she said no to a lot of people but danced with me.

She's an attorney with a Juris Doctor degree. She is very logical and seems introverted. I'm thinking that with this woman, it may be more beneficial to simply tell her that I'm into her and that I'd like to take her on a date.

It's almost like she's so intelligent and logical, that the usual game doesn't work on her.
 

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She did. She's the shyest woman I've ever met, I can not read her at all. I tried flirting but it went right over her head. The loud noises of the band seemed to bother her. Maybe she has Asperger's I don't know.

We danced to a few songs then took a break to cool off. A guy asked her to dance so she danced with him. I was still cooling off so I was just chilling watching the dancers. The guy she was dancing with tried to get close, and he put his hand on the small of her back, and she pushed him off and left him standing there on the dance floor. I pretended not to see what just happened, like I was looking in another direction, and I asked her how the dance went. She said it was weird but okay. Then she went and got her sweater, and tied it around her waist. I think she wanted to cover up her azz, she didn't seem to like the attention and looks she was getting.

Then another song came on and I danced with a different chick for that song. She was watching me the whole time, then halfway through the song I looked over and she was not there. I didn't know where she had gone. She sent a text saying she got tired so she left. But no one gets tired 45 minutes into an event...

Even though we hadn't officially made it a date, and I didn't get a chance to let her know that I was into her, it seems like she got jealous and left when I danced with the new chick. Or maybe she's introverted and can't handle those loud environments. She was more comfortable and open when we were at dance class. A lot of guys were asking her to dance, and she said no to a lot of people but danced with me.

She's an attorney with a Juris Doctor degree. She is very logical and seems introverted. I'm thinking that with this woman, it may be more beneficial to simply tell her that I'm into her and that I'd like to take her on a date.

It's almost like she's so intelligent and logical, that the usual game doesn't work on her.

And too, being that she's an introvert n saw you dancing with another shorty, she prolly put you in the player category of a guy tryna dance (n sleep) with multiple woman.... based on how you've described her I think to open her up I would've focused solely on her that night, dancing with her, tryna make her feel comfortable with me, before employing any type of dread game like dancing with another female. She's the submissive type which is why she didn't necessarily decline the other dude who asked to dance with her, but she definitely wasn't about to put him before you having more comfort with u n being as reserved as she is.... n anyways, what type of dancing are we talking about lol cause there's casual shyt n then there's all out grinding n sensual borderline sex groovin.....

I think you nailed it on the head though. With her type I woulda just been direct with her off top n let her know I'm feeling her, 'specially since you already got her to meet up with u outside of the dance classes.... prolly woulda threw in how you described her at dance class the time she came dressed up n how that's what sealed the deal for u, tried to make a move. Idk just rambling
 

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And too, being that she's an introvert n saw you dancing with another shorty, she prolly put you in the player category of a guy tryna dance (n sleep) with multiple woman.... based on how you've described her I think to open her up I would've focused solely on her that night, dancing with her, tryna make her feel comfortable with me, before employing any type of dread game like dancing with another female. She's the submissive type which is why she didn't necessarily decline the other dude who asked to dance with her, but she definitely wasn't about to put him before you having more comfort with u n being as reserved as she is.... n anyways, what type of dancing are we talking about lol cause there's casual shyt n then there's all out grinding n sensual borderline sex groovin.....

I think you nailed it on the head though. With her type I woulda just been direct with her off top n let her know I'm feeling her, 'specially since you already got her to meet up with u outside of the dance classes.... prolly woulda threw in how you described her at dance class the time she came dressed up n how that's what sealed the deal for u, tried to make a move. Idk just rambling
It was salsa dance, so no grinding or anything sexy. Just dancing for fun, for the sake of dancing.
 

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Quick question: how do I get one of my side chicks who thinks we're in a relationship to give me more head?
 

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I like two. First can be feeling out and then second spot touchy feely can begin and see where her attraction is at. If it aint youre crib for 3 you fukking up. Byrds nowadays fukking on date 2 or 3 easy. You very shrewdly speed that up on date one going to several places

Yea I like the 2 spot approach. 1st place drinks, 2nd place an intimate dancing club/lounge.
 

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Broke it off with my girl of 4 years last Saturday. described the relationship in another thread and how she was setting ultimatums on marriage by a certain time etc. I broke it off cause I didn't want to be forced into something, couldn't see a good future with her due to a lot of red flags and overall didn't have positive a good gut feel about it. Looking back on it thought the relationship was toxic as hell and can't believe i settled for that shyt for so long.


Smart never let anyone make ultimatums or force you to do anything.
 

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Idk if you guys remember but I knew this was gonna happen smh .


Chick I’ve been seeing for these past 2 months , ( dates , spending time together, raw sex ) hmu the other night after she left my house and asked me if I’m still on tinder , I told her yea I swipe here & there when I’m bored . But I haven’t been on a date nor have I been with anyone else since I’ve been with her ( which is the honest truth )

lol the reason why she asked is because I matched with one of her friends ( and her friend thought I was handsome & wanted to link ) btw idk her friend nor did she tell her friend that we’re dating .
Tonight she got on the phone crying after I told her that I wasn’t in a position to give her what she wanted ! Which is dating exclusively . Since I do travel when I can ( and I’m bound to smash something overseas ) and I don’t want to be pressed about who I’m talking to or what I did with anybody .

Idk how to salvage this situation , I was being truthful but she wasn’t having it , she started crying and told me that she wasn’t no average chick & she wouldn’t stand for that . I told her I respect her decision if she doesn’t want to talk anymore . But she asked me to fight for her & she’s asking me if she’s not enough for me .
How do you approach this situation Fellas ?

You don't owe anyone anything. And never let any chick force you into exclusivity. Commitment is the male vagina.

I'd never fight for a girl. But that's just me,
 

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In a 1963 speech made at the University of California, Malcolm X addressed the troubling state of families in the black community. Sadly, it takes on even more relevance today. "Our young girls, our daughters, our baby sisters become unwed mothers before they are hardly out of their teens. Our community has thousands of unmarried mothers [who] have no hope of ever getting a husband. And our community has tens of thousands of little babies who have no father to act as their provider or protector," he said.


"As a young minister I wouldn’t have considered it possible for me to love any woman. I had too much experience that women were only tricky, deceitful, untrustworthy flesh. I had seen too many men ruined or tied down, or in some other way messed up by women. Women talk too much, and to tell a woman not to talk too much, would be like telling Jesse James not to carry a gun, or telling a hen not to cackle. Can you imagine Jesse James without a gun, or a hen that didn’t cackle, and for anyone in leadership or position as I am. The worst thing in the world that a man could have, is the wrong woman. Samson was destroyed by the woman that slept in his arms. It had been 10 years since I thought anything about a woman or a mistress, and as a minister now I was thinking even less about getting a wife------"


MALCOLM X (from the Autobiography of Malcolm X)

"In my years as a Muslim minister, I had always taught so strongly on moral issues. That many Muslim sisters accused me of being anti-woman. I had not even touched a woman for 12 years------"

MALCOLM X (from the Autobiography of Malcolm X)

"I love Sister Betty, she’s the only woman that I ever thought about loving. She’s one of the very few women that I have ever trusted. She’s a good Muslim woman and wife. With me trying to wake up this brainwashed black man, and telling this arrogant white man the truth. Betty knows this is a full time job. I am only home 2 or 3 days a week, but if I have to do work while I’m home she allows me to have that quiet time that I need to work in---"

MALCOLM X ( from the Autobiography of Malcolm X)

"While in Beirut I went walking, and I could clearly see the European influence upon their women. It showed me how any country’s moral strength, or it’s moral weakness is quickly measurable by the street attire and attitude of it’s women, especially it’s young women-----"

MALCOLM X

"Look at the women in America , young and old. Hardly any moral values are left in them. You can measure this by their dress and attire. Their spiritual values are almost destroyed, because of their emphasis on material things---"
 

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She did. She's the shyest woman I've ever met, I can not read her at all. I tried flirting but it went right over her head. The loud noises of the band seemed to bother her. Maybe she has Asperger's I don't know.

We danced to a few songs then took a break to cool off. A guy asked her to dance so she danced with him. I was still cooling off so I was just chilling watching the dancers. The guy she was dancing with tried to get close, and he put his hand on the small of her back, and she pushed him off and left him standing there on the dance floor. I pretended not to see what just happened, like I was looking in another direction, and I asked her how the dance went. She said it was weird but okay. Then she went and got her sweater, and tied it around her waist. I think she wanted to cover up her azz, she didn't seem to like the attention and looks she was getting.

Then another song came on and I danced with a different chick for that song. She was watching me the whole time, then halfway through the song I looked over and she was not there. I didn't know where she had gone. She sent a text saying she got tired so she left. But no one gets tired 45 minutes into an event...

Even though we hadn't officially made it a date, and I didn't get a chance to let her know that I was into her, it seems like she got jealous and left when I danced with the new chick. Or maybe she's introverted and can't handle those loud environments. She was more comfortable and open when we were at dance class. A lot of guys were asking her to dance, and she said no to a lot of people but danced with me.

She's an attorney with a Juris Doctor degree. She is very logical and seems introverted. I'm thinking that with this woman, it may be more beneficial to simply tell her that I'm into her and that I'd like to take her on a date.

It's almost like she's so intelligent and logical, that the usual game doesn't work on her.

If you have a brain this should be easy
 

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Women be like don’t waste my time if you’re not serious

:mindblown:

they be the ones wasting time.

9 times outta 10 the chick is ghosting the dude randomly after talking to him for days.
That’s why you don’t believe everything that comes out of their mouth is truth. Women always act the opposite of what they say
 
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