Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[NeilCartwright]

Any of y'all fukk with WhatsApp?

I'm in a relatively large group chat where we make plans to get together whenever a fun event is happening like an open mic, dance event, party etc. At the very least, we get together to do something every weekend. It's been great for building my social circle and meeting new people.

Some of the people in the group chat are close friends and some acquaintances, the rest are just friends of friends but I've never met them.

I finally added a profile pic because I'd never had a pic up before today, and within an hour I had two women from the group chat slide into my DM's


One was an Asian chick, she has bad English but I see what she's getting at.

"Hi..Where do you leave. I like to go with you."


I think she's asking where I live, that she wants to spend time with me?

The other is a Colombian chick. She messaged me in broken English too, just wait til she finds out I'm fluent in Spanish

She said she doesn't want to post it in the group but there's a salsa dance event Friday and am I going. I told her I'm working but I'll go to one Saturday. She doesn't want to go alone, she says. She hopes I "don't mind her to tagging alone"


She probably meant tag along. Why wouldn't she want to post the event in the group chat? It's what we usually do.

You had a Breh/homegirl add you to the what’s app group chat?

Haven’t heard of that but it sounds dope

 

[Cape Town JHB]

That's why the forum has a search function. Let them do the work to find the gems.



You're way too bitter and negative, breh. We learn by asking questions, let the inexperienced brehs learn. Especially as they begin to understand female nature, they will catch on.

Female nature is so contrary to what makes sense, so it will take a long time for brehs to understand it. Sometimes they have to experience it for themselves then they'll remember what they read here.

So there's a search function, but a guy can ask a dumb question and waste everyone's time asking 10 year old questions that have been covered a gazillion times and when i call out grown men for acting like the bytchs we're advicing to guard against I'm "bitter"... I have a generational disconnect to young cats, even though I'm 28.

You just said there is a search function and cats should use that to learn, the very next post a person who didn't bother using a search function is being defended

 

[SATAN]

You had a Breh/homegirl add you to the what’s app group chat?

Haven’t heard of that but it sounds dope

Yeah my friend added me back when I first met him. He made me an admin so whenever I meet someone cool, I can add them to the group chat. It's increased my social circle by a lot.

 

[SATAN]

So there's a search function, but a guy can ask a dumb question and waste everyone's time asking 10 year old questions that have been covered a gazillion times and when i call out grown men for acting like the bytchs we're advicing to guard against I'm "bitter"... I have a generational disconnect to young cats, even though I'm 28.

You just said there is a search function and cats should use that to learn, the very next post a person who didn't bother using a search function is being defended

You're tripping and stressing out about something that's not a big deal


Chill out and calm down, breh. You have a lot of negative energy, maybe some underlying anger issues, and it's important to know how to keep your emotions in check because it's extremely important when it comes to dealing with women and their shyt tests.

 

[Cape Town JHB]

I think if I sleep with a woman within like 3 dates or so Imma have to straight up say "before we continue did you just want some dikk or no, so we can cut through any theatrics"

Im almost thirty. Im past my yung fly nikka got to fukk all the bad bytches phase. Im still fukking baddies but they just want dikk. Which is fine but Im getting irritated with the ambiguity bytches move with nowadays. If you just want to be a cum dumpster let a kang know so I can place you in dnd territory

What you initially agree and establish with a woman during the initial non committed /non attached "honeymoon" phase with a woman is irrelevant. That's why talking to her about what SHE wants is a square move. It shows a lack of understanding of their nature

If she's enjoying the dikk and is focused on career and other potential dikks she'll immediately agree to just fukk, nothing else. No commitment will mean she don't have to qualify herself and can cash in on any higher potential dikk that chooses in her whilst she's still dealing with you.

As she gets attached to you, gets accustomed to your aura/ masculinity/demeanor etc and realizes that she doesn't have the "options" she thought she had or when other high value guys fukk and bush her, she will inveriably go back on EVERYTHING you agreed upon at the start AND will be too egotistical to SUBMIT to you and let you know she's grown attached coz you're such an alpha male.

instead she'll cause fights by passive aggressive jabs, nuanced ways to attack your ego and sense of self worth/manhood(trying to make you jealous, questioning your sexual prowess, doing things she knows you don't like etc) till you get mad/lose your cool.

She will then go straight to victim mode, she will tell you about how she "can't do this anymore" (vague and ambiguous, no clear submissiveness), how she needs space etc

the next time you call or contact she will ask to do something outside of the "fukk buddy routine" that had been established for a good 3-4 months, she might invite you over her crib and cook for you, or tell you to come sleep over at her or your place (all to get you commited), once she gets you on board the "new" way of relating to her, she'll show outward jealousy and territorial markings (leaving clothes and feminine items at your place, being angry at you for not calling her back etc) .. Hell that's how most guys eventually "found their wives", they simply crumble under the pressure and upgrade a bytch who ain't worthy.

Don't waste time having a conversation, just do you, when nagging and demands outweigh her p*ssy, bush her.

Peace

 

[Cape Town JHB]

You're tripping and stressing out about something that's not a big deal


Chill out and calm down, breh. You have a lot of negative energy, maybe some underlying anger issues, and it's important to know how to keep your emotions in check because it's extremely important when it comes to dealing with women and their shyt tests.

I'm very angry and a curmudgeon to the core, but that's not what we're discussing.
I just showed you the contradiction and cognitive dissonance in your initial stance, instead of addressing that, you're telling me about my anger issues(bait and switch) , that I'm very much aware of.

A classic female trait BTW, but Ima let you cook

 

[SATAN]

I'm very angry and a curmudgeon to the core, but that's not what we're discussing.
I just showed you the contradiction and cognitive dissonance in your initial stance, instead of addressing that, you're telling me about my anger issues(bait and switch) , that I'm very much aware of.

A classic female trait BTW, but Ima let you cook

Switching to thinly veiled passive-agressive insults is a classic female trait, too.

Just trying to help you out, breh. No big deal. Just think about it.

 

[Cape Town JHB]

Switching to thinly veiled passive-agressive insults is a classic female trait, too.

Just trying to help you out, breh. No big deal. Just think about it.

No passive aggression at all. I'm calling you a bytch.

Ignore my posts, it's simple.

 

[Poetical Poltergeist]

Get em drunk and you in like flint.

If you can't get em drunk make em laugh then they will let you get them drunk.

 

[Marzupial]

Get em drunk and you in like flint.

If you can't get em drunk make em laugh then they will let you get them drunk.

 

[Deafheaven]

Get em drunk and you in like flint.

If you can't get em drunk make em laugh then they will let you get them drunk.

Im not fukking no drunk bytch breh, the fukk

 

[VertigoKnight]

Get em drunk and you in like flint.

If you can't get em drunk make em laugh then they will let you get them drunk.

1 or two drinks is one thing but a fully drunk woman? No way on earth I'm touching that.

 

[Poetical Poltergeist]

1 or two drinks is one thing but a fully drunk woman? No way on earth I'm touching that.

Get them buzzed then Jesus y'all.

 

[Deafheaven]

What you initially agree and establish with a woman during the initial non committed /non attached "honeymoon" phase with a woman is irrelevant. That's why talking to her about what SHE wants is a square move. It shows a lack of understanding of their nature

If she's enjoying the dikk and is focused on career and other potential dikks she'll immediately agree to just fukk, nothing else. No commitment will mean she don't have to qualify herself and can cash in on any higher potential dikk that chooses in her whilst she's still dealing with you.

As she gets attached to you, gets accustomed to your aura/ masculinity/demeanor etc and realizes that she doesn't have the "options" she thought she had or when other high value guys fukk and bush her, she will inveriably go back on EVERYTHING you agreed upon at the start AND will be too egotistical to SUBMIT to you and let you know she's grown attached coz you're such an alpha male.

instead she'll cause fights by passive aggressive jabs, nuanced ways to attack your ego and sense of self worth/manhood(trying to make you jealous, questioning your sexual prowess, doing things she knows you don't like etc) till you get mad/lose your cool.

She will then go straight to victim mode, she will tell you about how she "can't do this anymore" (vague and ambiguous, no clear submissiveness), how she needs space etc

the next time you call or contact she will ask to do something outside of the "fukk buddy routine" that had been established for a good 3-4 months, she might invite you over her crib and cook for you, or tell you to come sleep over at her or your place (all to get you commited), once she gets you on board the "new" way of relating to her, she'll show outward jealousy and territorial markings (leaving clothes and feminine items at your place, being angry at you for not calling her back etc) .. Hell that's how most guys eventually "found their wives", they simply crumble under the pressure and upgrade a bytch who ain't worthy.

Don't waste time having a conversation, just do you, when nagging and demands outweigh her p*ssy, bush her.

Peace

Breh thats cool you typed all that but I think you keyed in on sumthing thats not there. They say yea coo we just fukking or this is a ONS. They say no continue to date. No where did I say Im committing to shyt just Id rather know where a woman head is at point blank to move accordingly. If that causes them to be eventually bytchy they were gonna be bytchy anyway fym.

I fukk nothing but pretty brown bytches and Im a 5'4 goth nikka in cosmetics. If you dont think my game isnt tight I have a bridge to sell you.

 

[Poetical Poltergeist]

You ain't trying to fukk these hoes?