Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

jadillac

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ALWAYS, I clip red flags as soon as I see them. Every time i’ve overlooked shyt in the past i’ve regretted it. Never again.

yeah, you will always regret ignoring red flags.

when it comes to women, "when people tell you(or show you) who they are, believe them" is sound advice.

I don't adhere to sound advice all the time and end up regretting it. Learning to do better though.
 

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ALWAYS, I clip red flags as soon as I see them. Every time i’ve overlooked shyt in the past i’ve regretted it. Never again.
Is it really possible to clip red flags, though? She already showed you who she is... you can check her but then she'll just keep doing the shyt but behind your back
 

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Every time I say I'm not dealing with BM's they draw me back in.:francis:

Trying to set a date this weekend she's free till Tuesday, but she waiting to see if she can get the kids looked after before confirming :francis:
 

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Fellas I have a lil situation, this Trini chick that I’ve been seeing for these past 2 months , have been keeping me fed , the p*ssy is good ( we didn’t start having unprotected sex till last month )
When we first started talking I was juggling this Jamaican / Italian chick & another Jamaican chick ( those 2 fade off ) so she’s the last one standing , I went back to my city to visit my fam for the holidays she told me that she bought me a Christmas gift , I was blind sided by this I went out and got her something too .

today the trini chick hit me up and tells me that she’s been having these nightmares about me , whenever she’d ask me if I’m having sex with anyone else , my face would turn black and I’d attack her in my dreams :gucci:

which is wild because I have this Nigerian med school chick I’ve been talking to & this Haitian girl that just sent me nudes last night ready to get their guts rearrange . Women’s intuition is wild

My question is , how do I tell her in the nicest way that I’m seeing other people without her wanting to end things . I don’t want to lie because she hasn’t ask me if I’m seeing anyone else yet .

PS : I also have this Dominican and another Colombian chick that’s keeping the box on ice .
 

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Fellas I have a lil situation, this Trini chick that I’ve been seeing for these past 2 months , have been keeping me fed , the p*ssy is good ( we didn’t start having unprotected sex till last month )
When we first started talking I was juggling this Jamaican / Italian chick & another Jamaican chick ( those 2 fade off ) so she’s the last one standing , I went back to my city to visit my fam for the holidays she told me that she bought me a Christmas gift , I was blind sided by this I went out and got her something too .

today the trini chick hit me up and tells me that she’s been having these nightmares about me , whenever she’d ask me if I’m having sex with anyone else , my face would turn black and I’d attack her in my dreams :gucci:

which is wild because I have this Nigerian med school chick I’ve been talking to & this Haitian girl that just sent me nudes last night ready to get their guts rearrange . Women’s intuition is wild

My question is , how do I tell her in the nicest way that I’m seeing other people without her wanting to end things . I don’t want to lie because she hasn’t ask me if I’m seeing anyone else yet .

PS : I also have this Dominican and another Colombian chick that’s keeping the box on ice .
This sounds like your typical coli humble brag...you got enough game to just juggle 4 women but don't have the game to let em know you're a Playa with options..... Mmmmmmn:francis:

Fellas I'm Pimpin 6 super models:mjlit:...... How do I get them to give me head? :mjlol:
 

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What a year brehs visited 10 countries and like 20 cities overall, enjoy life don't rely on some chick to bring you happiness

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This sounds like your typical coli humble brag...you got enough game to just juggle 4 women but don't have the game to let em know you're a Playa with options..... Mmmmmmn:francis:

Fellas I'm Pimpin 6 super models:mjlit:...... How do I get them to give me head? :mjlol:


I promise it’s not a humble brag lol , just a young man living his best life . Trini chick is cool af comes with great benefits, I also like having my Dominican & Colombian chick on standby whenever I need them .

I had a similar situation like this around this time last year , was dating this Indian chick I messed around & travel to Asia for a month. Black man in Asia by himself recipe for disaster, I smashed a few chicks out there . My dumbass gave my ig to most of them :stopitslime: . She did her detective work and dm all those women & ask them if we met & what exactly happened . When I got back home , she told me I broke her heart Yadi yada but I had to break it down to her that she wasn’t my girlfriend to begin with .
 

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yeah, you will always regret ignoring red flags.

when it comes to women, "when people tell you(or show you) who they are, believe them" is sound advice.

I don't adhere to sound advice all the time and end up regretting it. Learning to do better though.

Boy you told the truth here. It's possible for you to ignore red flags so long until you fall in love with someone and it becomes a little tougher to leave. End it early!

That person will never change. You'll just develop anxiety and worry yourself to death.
 

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end of year round up brehs

How old and what city?

1. how many women did you meet this year?

2. how many relationships did you enter in this year?

3. how many decent women did you meet?

4. longest drought of the year?


34 and in Toronto

1. I probably met about 50 women this year, its crazy when I think of it and how literally i just talk to like 3 out of all the women I met now. Older you get meeting women is easy now meeting quality women :to:

2. Relationships ZILCH, although I entered the year in a relationship she dumped me in april because she thought I was cheating she asked for another chance but wasn't interested. Unless a girl is like great and checks off my checkboxes I'm perfectly fine being single

3. Decent women I would say like 3 , 2 were in london still talk to them both

4. Drought prob like a month
 
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