Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

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Need some advice brehs. My gf of 1 year was smoking a blunt in a car outside her guy friends apartment. We share our locations with one another so when I found out I walked up to the car and told her to come get her shyt out of my car. She told me I’m overreacting but from my point of view that shyt was against the code. Idgaf how long she knew breh but I never met breh and she decides to go smoke with him?



Tell me brehs am I overreacting I told her to fukk off :francis:


Yeah man id dump her too...

Shorty probably complains about u to him...any hetero male is gona try n fukk ya girl
 

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If a woman tells you she's not ready to date, or that she doesn't want to date anyone, she's lying to you. She just doesn't want to date you.

Every woman that has told me she's not ready to date has ended up dating and fukking a new dude within a week.

Take that response as a hard no and keep it moving

I wish I would have really understood this about 7 years ago. Doesn’t it suck to hear “I’m not ready yet” only to see her with another dude 2 weeks later. Lol.
 

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Need some advice brehs. My gf of 1 year was smoking a blunt in a car outside her guy friends apartment. We share our locations with one another so when I found out I walked up to the car and told her to come get her shyt out of my car. She told me I’m overreacting but from my point of view that shyt was against the code. Idgaf how long she knew breh but I never met breh and she decides to go smoke with him?



Tell me brehs am I overreacting I told her to fukk off :francis:
You’re a smart guy. Don’t believe anything she says. U have to be very mean to her now. Treat her like a ugly bytch u detest.
 

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When u match with a bad bytch on bumble...she never writes n the match expires

:francis:
Women are taking dating apps less and less seriously as time goes on I've been using them consistently for the past decade and the difference in dynamic is astounding. The responses to messages used to happen on the same day and she'd be willing to meet as soon as the following weekend.
Now i gotta move heaven and earth for the privilege of seeing them in person or getting a response to my message :mjcry:
 

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Just set up a date with a Tinder chick, we meeting up in 30.

Details drop em

We talked a little bit on the app and I got her number. I came home and was bored,so I hit her up.We met up at a bar like a block or 2 away from her place. I didn't recognize her at first because she looked a lot better in her pictures. It's like the difference between a hot girl and her less attractive sister. She looked similar to her pics, but like years removed (and weight added).

The conversation was weak at first, but after a little bit, we got pretty chatty with some fun banter going. She was laughing at my jokes and seemed to be enjoying herself. At one point, I tried to go in for a kiss, but she was like, "We're at the bar!" The place we were at had like this round bar that encircled the room; that's all it had. I thought she was one of those chicks who aren't into public displays of affection. We had a couple more drinks and I walked her home.

At her door, we hugged and she closed the door on me. Like it wasn't a slam or anything dramatic, but she clearly closed it on my face. Even if she wasn't feelin' me, it seemed excessive for a date that just didn't work out.

There was a nearby couple that witnessed the event unfold. They laughed and had sympathy for me. I walked to nearby McDonald's got some McNuggets and took a Lyft home.
 

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women are strange. Looking over the years it’s been funny. There’s been dates where the girl seemed totally uninterested and I pretty much just chalked the date up as an L only for her to text me thanking me for the date and can’t wait to see me again and we hookup shortly after. Then there’s been women who laugh at all my jokes seem interested and then either ghost or stop answering their text after we meet up. Lol
 

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:unimpressed:whats fun about any of that

bytch sound annoying

Exactly. I would have done what @George Gooney did or at the very least set her straight. Not even five seconds into a date and she's already coming with the bullshyt. It would only get worse. The only positive is that she revealed herself to be an idiot sooner rather than later which is a good thing.

Nah, as I'm getting older I don't have patience for the nonsense. My tolerance for stupid ass, childish women is at an all time low and isn't gonna change.
 

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When u match with a bad bytch on bumble...she never writes n the match expires

:francis:

Women are taking dating apps less and less seriously as time goes on I've been using them consistently for the past decade and the difference in dynamic is astounding. The responses to messages used to happen on the same day and she'd be willing to meet as soon as the following weekend.
Now i gotta move heaven and earth for the privilege of seeing them in person or getting a response to my message :mjcry:

Get off these dating apps and start meeting women in person :yeshrug:
 

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I'm sure that would be ideal for everyone but the opportunity to be in environments where you're able to find what you're looking for isn't always there, hence resorting to online.


I remember being in a shytty part of Alabama for 2 years. All I had was dating apps. Lol
 
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