Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

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Was supposed to kick it with this snow bunny and I got a text three hours ahead of time saying my son spit up blood I think I need to take him to the hospital

bytch lying
Her son has Ebola?
 

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I'll settle down when I sense I just ain't got the juice no more... the thrill of meeting new women and having fun excites me too much. Most relationships these days are trash and forced. I got homies that I only hear from when they call to vent about some dumb shyt their chick is mad about... "yo bruh, she got a whooole fit cuz I was at work and didn't respond to her til 3 hours later.. now she bringin up shyt like I don't send flowers to her job" maaaaaan wtf, I ain't got time to be dealin wit shyt like dat lol

As soon as a chick come at me sideways over some stupid shyt, I'm back in the club meeting a few new 1s
 

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I might bush this chick. Her shea butter feminist vibes and excessive weave usage is drying me out.
Gave her another chance yesterday by throwing her a bone asking her if she wanted to hangout. No response. She’s clearly upset I didn’t spend my birthday weekend with her. I don’t give a fukk though. We’ve only dated for 2-3 months. Deleting her number and dating this half Nigerian/Czech chick I just met :yeshrug:

side note- Am I overly shallow brehs for not wanting to date a woman who wears weaves and wigs ALL the time? I’m not used to this shyt. Every black chick I‘ve dated rock the natural. Not to mention she’s a shea butter lgbtqlmnopqr+ Feminist. We clearly separate when it comes to certain issues.
 

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Gave her another chance yesterday by throwing her a bone asking her if she wanted to hangout. No response. She’s clearly upset I didn’t spend my birthday weekend with her. I don’t give a fukk though. We’ve only dated for 2-3 months. Deleting her number and dating this half Nigerian/Czech chick I just met :yeshrug:

side note- Am I overly shallow brehs for not wanting to date a woman who wears weaves and wigs ALL the time? I’m not used to this shyt. Every black chick I‘ve dated rock the natural. Not to mention she’s a shea butter lgbtqlmnopqr+ Feminist. We clearly separate when it comes to certain issues.
I dont date shea butter chicks either bro so you did the right thing. When did she start showing shea butter signs?
 

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I dont date shea butter chicks either bro so you did the right thing. When did she start showing shea butter signs?
When she tried to argue with me tooth and nail about there not being a gay agenda.

I made a comment about how ridiculous the villain in the Harriet Tubman movie was a black man, she says nothing. I told her how I’m not supporting the movie because the lead actress is an anti-black American Nigerian women, she says nothing. But if roles were reversed she’d be advocating like a mothafukka.

I also had a former classmate who was a BW who tried to seriously sabotage my career/dreams (it didn’t work out) I called her a bytch for that and the girl I was dating was like “don’t call her a bytch, men shouldn’t call women bytches” yet she refers to black men as nikkas all the time.


At this stage of my life I have a low tolerance for women’s bullshyt. I’m 28 and doing well for my age. Some of my friends and family think I’m looking for the “perfect” girl but that’s not even true. If I have 10 items on a list I’m looking for from a chick, I atleast want 5/6 out of 10.
 

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When she tried to argue with me tooth and nail about there not being a gay agenda.

I made a comment about how ridiculous the villain in the Harriet Tubman movie was a black man, she says nothing. I told her how I’m not supporting the movie because the lead actress is an anti-black American Nigerian women, she says nothing. But if roles were reversed she’d be advocating like a mothafukka.

I also had a former classmate who was a BW who tried to seriously sabotage my career/dreams (it didn’t work out) I called her a bytch for that and the girl I was dating was like “don’t call her a bytch, men shouldn’t call women bytches” yet she refers to black men as nikkas all the time.


At this stage of my life I have a low tolerance for women’s bullshyt. I’m 28 and doing well for my age. Some of my friends and family think I’m looking for the “perfect” girl but that’s not even true. If I have 10 items on a list I’m looking for from a chick, I atleast want 5/6 out of 10.
Yea breh you did the right thing.
 

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So I lost my stride for three years after a break up and long depression. Apparently I hit it a stride again after much work

The men and women I party and hang with keep saying “she was feeling you” and I’m not picking it up when we go out as a group

shyt is getting confusing and I need guidance, do I have too much tunnel vision?

I do this too. I'm oblivious to women advances and signs of interest. I always going for the stacked/fine women that gives me zero vibes or attention... straight cold approach style. Probably about a 30% success rate with that.
 

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When she tried to argue with me tooth and nail about there not being a gay agenda.

I made a comment about how ridiculous the villain in the Harriet Tubman movie was a black man, she says nothing. I told her how I’m not supporting the movie because the lead actress is an anti-black American Nigerian women, she says nothing. But if roles were reversed she’d be advocating like a mothafukka.

I also had a former classmate who was a BW who tried to seriously sabotage my career/dreams (it didn’t work out) I called her a bytch for that and the girl I was dating was like “don’t call her a bytch, men shouldn’t call women bytches” yet she refers to black men as nikkas all the time.


At this stage of my life I have a low tolerance for women’s bullshyt. I’m 28 and doing well for my age. Some of my friends and family think I’m looking for the “perfect” girl but that’s not even true. If I have 10 items on a list I’m looking for from a chick, I atleast want 5/6 out of 10.

When folks be saying youre looking for the perfect girl, thats usually after they see you not wanting to put up with women's bullshyt. They believe men by default should be susceptible to women's bullshyt but not the other way around
 

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I do this too. I'm oblivious to women advances and signs of interest. I always going for the stacked/fine women that gives me zero vibes or attention... straight cold approach style. Probably about a 30% success rate with that.

you posted in the OBLIVIOUS thread?
 
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