Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

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I stopped paying attention to that thick chick at work that I asked to be my side.

She haven't looked my way all week or said anything to me.

Females do not care. :dead:

I see her being friends with other nikkas, in my mind I be like, "this bytch here. :stopitslime:"

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It does takes bigger balls

It shows if you really have confidence on your game or not

Why you need more phone time to display your game if you already was in front of her??:mjlol:

No it really doesn't nikka. There are many many girls who see that as a lack of initiative rather than confidence. I can walk to 1000 girls and give them my number and say call me. What do I have to fear or lose from that? how many of them are actually gonna call me tho? Out of 1000 how many?? And thats the problem you will never ever get 1000 or 900 or 800 or 700 of those girls to call you back if you just gave your number out to 1000 girls. There are many many girls you will never hear from again, only those with really high interest from the jump are you gonna hear anything back from, but if I'm getting her number and I'm calling her or speaking to her i will turn ANY girl around, the ones with High interest ill grab, the ones with low interest just talking to me for attention I'll switch that whole thing up on them. The ones who wouldn't have ever called you back maybe because their interest isn't high enough or they simply feel a girl shouldn't be calling a guy or they feel too prestige to do the calling I will switch that whole thing up and believe she gonna start calling regardless of how prestige she thinks she is. If you can control how they feel if you can manipulate emotions and know how to raise and generate interest why leave ANY element to chance?? Why onky wait for the girls who have high interest to call you? Why not grab that girl and also make the girl with really low interest into one with high interest? You minimize the situations that you can't have control over.

Also do you also not know what it says about a girl if she has really high interest in you from the jump? Do you not understand that a female like that typically develops feelings of high interest easier and quicker in general?
 

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Man can we squash this shyt bruv? Lmao if you think they not here reading already. :dead:

Bro, women are more cerebral than men. Always

Fam there's nothing to squash its not a beef breh it's a passionate exchange of ideas opinions and viewpoints.

I know they reading I also know their opinion on this isn't worth a gottdamn thing.
 

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No it really doesn't nikka. There are many many girls who see that as a lack of initiative rather than confidence. I can walk to 1000 girls and give them my number and say call me. What do I have to fear or lose from that? how many of them are actually gonna call me tho? Out of 1000 how many?? And thats the problem you will never ever get 1000 or 900 or 800 or 700 of those girls to call you back if you just gave your number out to 1000 girls. There are many many girls you will never hear from again, only those with really high interest from the jump are you gonna hear anything back from, but if I'm getting her number and I'm calling her or speaking to her i will turn ANY girl around, the ones with High interest ill grab, the ones with low interest just talking to me for attention I'll switch that whole thing up on them. The ones who wouldn't have ever called you back maybe because their interest isn't high enough or they simply feel a girl shouldn't be calling a guy or they feel too prestige to do the calling I will switch that whole thing up and believe she gonna start calling regardless of how prestige she thinks she is. If you can control how they feel if you can manipulate emotions and know how to raise and generate interest why leave ANY element to chance?? Why onky wait for the girls who have high interest to call you? Why not grab that girl and also make the girl with really low interest into one with high interest? You minimize the situations that you can't have control over.

Also do you also not know what it says about a girl if she has really high interest in you from the jump? Do you not understand that a female like that typically develops feelings of high interest easier and quicker in general?
You don't read??

I clearly say display your game and then give the number not just give the number

Maybe the problem is you don't have the game to display it quickly to a person you just met, you need to be in the comfort of your phone right??

If you can control how they feel if you can manipulate emotions and know how to raise and generate interest why leave ANY element to chance?? Why onky wait for the girls who have high interest to call you? Why not grab that girl and also make the girl with really low interest into one with high interest? You minimize the situations that you can't have control over.

The answer to this questions is TIME, if I don't have time why would I waste it chasing some broad.i see the value in me so I appreciate more the ones who also can quickly see it

If you have the time to do all that salute just don't think you better than nikkas who fukking the same bytch without doing shyt

That's all Iam saying and this is basic stuff idk why you still don't get it
 

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:russ:Guys, All I'm seeing is two guys arguing about what works for them.
There isn't really a right or wrong way if both different approaches are working for both of you.

Me I have already stated I like to take a woman's number cause I like to be in control of when I contact her etc.
Others give their number and that also works for them :ehh: Don't fix what isn't broken.
End of the day do what works for you .
 

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You don't read??

I clearly say display your game and then give the number not just give the number

Maybe the problem is you don't have the game to display it quickly to a person you just met, you need to be in the comfort of your phone right??

If you can control how they feel if you can manipulate emotions and know how to raise and generate interest why leave ANY element to chance?? Why onky wait for the girls who have high interest to call you? Why not grab that girl and also make the girl with really low interest into one with high interest? You minimize the situations that you can't have control over.

The answer to this questions is TIME, if I don't have time why would I waste it chasing some broad.i see the value in me so I appreciate more the ones who also can quickly see it

If you have the time to do all that salute just don't think you better than nikkas who fukking the same bytch without doing shyt

That's all Iam saying and this is basic stuff idk why you still don't get it

Why do you believe if a girl has high interest early on it means she sees the value in you quickly. See its good to have an ego and believe your the shyt and your the prize, you can't win without out, but one underrated element of that, not to get too caught up believing your own hype.


Let me take time out here to say I have given girls my number before and they have called me and all from not even saying 10 words to them. Just make strong eye contact and hold it and that's it, her interest was really high simply from that. I had a girl when I was working at a phone shop, I was standing outside the shop and she come up to me and said she couldn't find her friends and her phone was dead. She rang her 'friend' who didn't pick up and that evening this girl was texting me, I never even said a word to her.

Let me ask you this, you approach a girl and speak to her for 15/20 mins and in that time draw enough high interest in her for you to drop your number and she calls you right away. What high value things about YOU has she seen in 15 minutes to have such high interest level in you? See I have a bigger ego than most I legit feel I'm better than the majority of nikkas and there ain't no girl who I'd be lucky to have, they all lucky to have me. But there is no way any girl can know that about me in 15/20 minutes, or even an hour, a day or three, in that time you don't actually know me, you know nothing about me, so sit back and analyse the situation and deep what is it that has generated that high interest? Is it cause you good looking? Well you ain't the only nikka on the planet who's good looking. Did you give off an air of confidence, you ain't the only nikka who does, there's some dusty ass stupid nikkas confident as fukk out here. Is it cause you funny or were well spoken? Cause you are faaaar from the only nikka to be all those things. There are simp ass beta males who can tick every single one of those boxes. Any impression or idea you can give off about yourself to generate such high interest in a girl so early can be easily duplicated and is NOTHING unique to you. Explain what it could possibly be? This is just a girl who the threshold for drawing out high interest is low and easily attainable. That is all that means. You know why so many nikkas have horror stories with chicks and we all meeting these hoes and these wandering women? It's cause most nikkas are fukking and interacting with those type chicks, the girls who it doesn't take much to hit that high interest jackpot. I'll tell you now the few girls who do call you back and you quickly drop your number and dip, that high interest isn't about rather, rather it's about an IDEA of you, they have seen a couple things they have liked and filled in the many blanks with a couple of things they would love it to be. Not every chick you draw is a big win breh. Cause back to your question about the roster, it should never be about the amount of fish you catch, the quality of the fish is more important. What high value fish you know is so straight forward to catch? Don't delude yourself that in 15 minutes you are Don Juan who has displayed enough to prove you the best nikka out here living with the coldest game. It's not just a girl simply with high interest that's gonna call you after such a short time, but there's a certain mindset and character traits that all those types of girls share, and rarely rarely ever good.

Also as for you remark about time, understand that in anything in life, more time invested equals greater return on that investment.
 
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Why do you believe if a girl has high interest early on it means she sees the value in you quickly. See its good to have an ego and believe your the shyt and your the prize, you can't win without out, but one underrated element of that, not to get too caught up believing your own hype.


Let me take time out here to say I have given girls my number before and they have called me and all from not even saying 10 words to them. Just make strong eye contact and hold it and that's it, her interest was really high simply from that. I had a girl when I was working at a phone shop, I was standing outside the shop and she come up to me and said she couldn't find her friends and her phone was dead. She rang her 'friend' who didn't pick up and that evening this girl was texting me, I never even said a word to her.

Let me ask you this, you approach a girl and speak to her for 15/20 mins and in that time draw enough high interest in her for you to drop your number and she calls you right away. What high value things about YOU has she seen in 15 minutes to have such high interest level in you? See I have a bigger ego than most I legit feel I'm better than the majority of nikkas and there ain't no girl who I'd be lucky to have, they all lucky to have me. But there is no way any girl can know that about me in 15/20 minutes, or even an hour, a day or three, in that time you don't actually know me, you know nothing about me, so sit back and analyse the situation and deep what is it that has generated that high interest? Is it cause you good looking? Well you ain't the only nikka on the planet who's good looking. Did you give off an air of confidence, you ain't the only nikka who does, there's some dusty ass stupid nikkas confident as fukk out here. Is it cause you funny or were well spoken? Cause you are faaaar from the only nikka to be all those things. There are simp ass beta males who can tick every single one of those boxes. Any impression or idea you can give off about yourself to generate such high interest in a girl so early can be easily duplicated and is NOTHING unique to you. Explain what it could possibly be? This is just a girl who the threshold for drawing out high interest is low and easily attainable. That is all that means. You know why so many nikkas have horror stories with chicks and we all meeting these hoes and these wandering women? It's cause most nikkas are fukking and interacting with those type chicks, the girls who it doesn't take much to hit that high interest jackpot. I'll tell you now the few girls who do call you back and you quickly drop your number and dip, that high interest isn't about rather, rather it's about an IDEA of you, they have seen a couple things they have liked and filled in the many blanks with a couple of things they would love it to be. Not every chick you draw is a big win breh. Cause back to your question about the roster, it should never be about the amount of fish you catch, the quality of the fish is more important. What high value fish you know is so straight forward to catch? Don't delude yourself that in 15 minutes you are Don Juan who has displayed enough to prove you the best nikka out here living with the coldest game. It's not just a girl simply with high interest that's gonna call you after such a short time, but there's a certain mindset and character traits that all those types of girls share, and rarely rarely ever good.
I don't know why you writte so much

The reason I know is because they tell me when They call and I also have experience with women having high interest on me

I can understand why a dude without this type of experience wouldn't get it

All that other stuff you typed it's assuming they don't call but they do call and after they call I will apply the rest of my game

What separates us is I don't care if I talk to her again or not bacause I know for a fact I got other girls on me,you do care that's why you want the number cause you need to control the interaction

This is the core of this discussion I don't understand why you mad at me and you keep repeating yourself

Accept that you have to be a chaser and keep it pushing:yeshrug:
 

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I don't know why you writte so much

The reason I know is because they tell me when They call and I also have experience with women having high interest on me

I can understand why a dude without this type of experience wouldn't get it

All that other stuff you typed it's assuming they don't call but they do call and after they call I will apply the rest of my game

What separates us is I don't care if I talk to her again or not bacause I know for a fact I got other girls on me,you do care that's why you want the number cause you need to control the interaction

This is the core of this discussion I don't understand why you mad at me and you keep repeating yourself

Accept that you have to be a chaser and keep it pushing:yeshrug:

The abundance mentality
 

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Maybe it's just some glitch on the system then. :ehh:
 

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I don't know why you writte so much

The reason I know is because they tell me when They call and I also have experience with women having high interest on me

I can understand why a dude without this type of experience wouldn't get it

All that other stuff you typed it's assuming they don't call but they do call and after they call I will apply the rest of my game

What separates us is I don't care if I talk to her again or not bacause I know for a fact I got other girls on me,you do care that's why you want the number cause you need to control the interaction

This is the core of this discussion I don't understand why you mad at me and you keep repeating yourself

Accept that you have to be a chaser and keep it pushing:yeshrug:

No one is mad at you, please leave out that typical coli shyt of calling everyone mad and emotional.

Let me make myself very clear, I don't care if I talk to her again. I could get the number and call or text and she never responds or she immediately blocks me and fair enough, I cant control everything, but I'm minimizing the things I can't control like I said. What I have the ability to place in my Control I make sure I do just that. I really don't care about talking to her or not I'm not even gonna approach her in the first place. Your approach is reliant on her choosing you, no girl choose me, I chose her. A girl who has far from picked me will reply to a text. Your whole I don't care if I talk to her again is a lie breh, I know you nikkas you can't lie to me. Your choosing the path of least resistance that's what it really is and your nonchalant demeanor is your justification for that, your nikkas are all the same.

Who cares what a girl tells you nikka, what a girl tells you today don't mean nothing tommorrow.
 
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