Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[CookisaCac]

Broke up with my (ex) girl because as time went on in the relationship, she became more busy, sleeping all the time etc. Just out right being lazy. So I chalked it up to the game that she was most likely playing me and isnt really into me anymore.

So I ended it and she did NOT take it well. Started saying I never gave her a chance to change, she has depression, any excuse in the book...but in reality I did give her a chance cause I warned her a month ago. I also told her id pay for therapy for her depression or anything she needed to help. She would never do it though. It's like she legit doesn't understand how she was in the wrong and why I wouldn't want to be with her anymore. Kinda worried about her but on the other end im glad im done with her. Like she really is an idiot. I want her to take an I.Q test.

 

[mortuus est]

Broke up with my (ex) girl because as time went on in the relationship, she became more busy, sleeping all the time etc. Just out right being lazy. So I chalked it up to the game that she was most likely playing me and isnt really into me anymore.

So I ended it and she did NOT take it well. Started saying I never gave her a chance to change, she has depression, any excuse in the book...but in reality I did give her a chance cause I warned her a month ago. I also told her id pay for therapy for her depression or anything she needed to help. She would never do it though. It's like she legit doesn't understand how she was in the wrong and why I wouldn't want to be with her anymore. Kinda worried about her but on the other end im glad im done with her. Like she really is an idiot. I want her to take an I.Q test.

do you love her? keep it real

 

[CookisaCac]

do you love her? keep it real

no. we were only together a few months anyways

 

[Crayola Coyote]

@Crayola Coyote

Good to see shyt changed for you from before my g.

Did you move from where you used to live?

Did you change anything or did you just keep going out?

I changed 1 thing on how I interact with women. I always went straight to the point with women but never escalated to touch them. So now when I get straight to the point with them I touch them at the same time. if a woman is not feeling you she would ignore you or get up and leave. All the women I talk to throughout my life were feeling me but wanted me to do everything. When that happens they are all over me.

 

[DaRealness]

Broke up with my (ex) girl because as time went on in the relationship, she became more busy, sleeping all the time etc. Just out right being lazy. So I chalked it up to the game that she was most likely playing me and isnt really into me anymore.

So I ended it and she did NOT take it well. Started saying I never gave her a chance to change, she has depression, any excuse in the book...but in reality I did give her a chance cause I warned her a month ago. I also told her id pay for therapy for her depression or anything she needed to help. She would never do it though. It's like she legit doesn't understand how she was in the wrong and why I wouldn't want to be with her anymore. Kinda worried about her but on the other end im glad im done with her. Like she really is an idiot. I want her to take an I.Q test.

Good.

If the shoe was on the other foot she would have walked out on you ten times over.

Let her deal with her own shyt.

 

[CookisaCac]

Good.

If the shoe was on the other foot she would have walked out on you ten times over.

Let her deal with her own shyt.

Good point.

 

[Silkk]

Good.

If the shoe was on the other foot she would have walked out on you ten times over.

Let her deal with her own shyt.

Big Facts!

 

[CookisaCac]

Her: "So when are you going to change to work 2nd shift with me?"
Me: "3rd shift pays better. You single?"
Her: "Yeah. Give me your number"

that bolded was a dead give away, but I work 3rd shift also and gonna start showing up a little early now

the way you said "3rd shift pays better. you single?" all nonchalant ima try that too

HR finna be on my ass

 

[The Spirit Of Jack Trice]

Tips on Tinder

Tl;dwr: improve your percentage of matches and likes will sit up front with minimal work.

This should save you from wasting time on the app.
Delete your account and create a new one.
Set your radius to 1 mile.

Swiping:
Imagine that everyone you swipe on is a "swipe stack"
The women / men(I've seen how some of you post)


that like you are a "like stack".
By increasing your percentage of right swipes on the "like stack", you'll push the "like stack" further into the "swipe stack". In other words, you won't have to worry about who's liking you, you can use the higher percentage of matches and any women who are outside your radius as a tell to show who likes you. You could also check out the area where your likes are, where they ask you to pay, and compare the pictures to whomever you're swiping on.

I saw someone asking about buying one of the paid services, this should help you get past it, if you're willing to delete that account. If not, set radius to 1 mile, and use the like section and compare the photos. If you swipe left on someone who liked you, they will still be there, eventually tinder will put them back in the "swipe stack".

I've tried this in areas with about 50,000-200,000 people and it seems to work. Also, tinder gives out false positives outside of the radius to fukk up your percentage.

Side note: If you're ugly, I can't help you.

 

[MikelArteta]

Tips on Tinder

Tl;dwr: improve your percentage of matches and likes will sit up front with minimal work.

This should save you from wasting time on the app.
Delete your account and create a new one.
Set your radius to 1 mile.

Swiping:
Imagine that everyone you swipe on is a "swipe stack"
The women / men(I've seen how some of you post)


that like you are a "like stack".
By increasing your percentage of right swipes on the "like stack", you'll push the "like stack" further into the "swipe stack". In other words, you won't have to worry about who's liking you, you can use the higher percentage of matches and any women who are outside your radius as a tell to show who likes you. You could also check out the area where your likes are, where they ask you to pay, and compare the pictures to whomever you're swiping on.

I saw someone asking about buying one of the paid services, this should help you get past it, if you're willing to delete that account. If not, set radius to 1 mile, and use the like section and compare the photos. If you swipe left on someone who liked you, they will still be there, eventually tinder will put them back in the "swipe stack".

I've tried this in areas with about 50,000-200,000 people and it seems to work. Also, tinder gives out false positives outside of the radius to fukk up your percentage.

Side note: If you're ugly, I can't help you.

good tips things i dont like about tinder unlike hinge you cant search by race, i have zero interest in any women thats not black so by swiping no on 99% of matches it ruins your account

 

[CookisaCac]

good tips things i dont like about tinder unlike hinge you cant search by race, i have zero interest in any women thats not black so by swiping no on 99% of matches it ruins your account

use okcupid

 

[MikelArteta]

use okcupid

trash more women use apps than th old school dating sites

 

[CookisaCac]

trash more women use apps than th old school dating sites

I dont use it but I know they do have an app and you can search by race.

edit: a lot of my friends that use social media for dating preferred okcupid over others. maybe its changed, might wanna take a look.

 

[The Spirit Of Jack Trice]

to the bolded.

Some of us can't wait for her to show up though, we gotta eat!

good tips things i dont like about tinder unlike hinge you cant search by race, i have zero interest in any women thats not black so by swiping no on 99% of matches it ruins your account

Tinder will definitely put women you've swiped left on back in view, even if they haven't liked you.

I could never get into Hinge, the user side didn't flow well for me. But, I've definitely heard good things.

 

[SATAN]

that bolded was a dead give away, but I work 3rd shift also and gonna start showing up a little early now

the way you said "3rd shift pays better. you single?" all nonchalant ima try that too

HR finna be on my ass

I just knew she was into me and I got straight to the point.

We already fukked last night


It depends on the kind of job, I don't know if approaching women is risky at your job. I work at a warehouse, it's all Hispanics. As a Spanish speaking breh, I get to feast. Co-workers fukk and date all the time here and no one cares on 2nd and 3rd shift.

I'm done with these apps kangs



I'm happy some of ya'll can eat well offa them thangs but the selection in my city is horrid and on top of that I get 1000% better results whenever I decide not to be a hermit and go out.

Meeting a woman via face-to-face interaction will always be the best.