Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

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whats ur approach game

I responded to that above.

I don't cold approach.
Ii just be chillin and ifi I think a female feeling me then I come out swinging.

One of my exes from when I worked at Walgreens used to throw stuff at me and slap me in my head and pop up in the break room when I was on lunch break, she came in one day and asked me what my tattoos mean and I asked her out the blue "so how long you been felling me?" she got to blushing and it was a wrap after that. Best sex I ever had.
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I saw this fukkn light skin big booty chick at wal mart!!! She wa swearing yoga like shorts but we both had our headphones in
In the soda lane...

Man i gota stop being a lil bytch

I always got my headphones in at the grocery store
I wonder if females be tryna choose but don't wanna seem like they bothering me
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Brehs, that chick I've been asking about on here the past few days....

Saw her earlier today at the grocery store, we laughed it up for a bit, even went out to her car and sat for a min talking, gave her a hug/kiss & left... haven't heard from her since several hrs ago. No return to my texts. And here's the kicker, she's one of those women who doesn't believe in taking her phone out when she's with other ppl bc it's "rude". And anytime we're together she rarely uses her phone. BUT, if she ain't returning texts then that means she's busy with persons or ppl and ignoring my texts.

I know women check their phones like hawks. Even the ones who ain't on the phone an insane amount check their texts.

Things have been fairly good the past couple days, but I'm ghosting her tomorrow until she gets the picture. She'll likely text me good morning as she usually does, but I'm not responding. And she knows I watch college football all day on Sats so she'll know I'm simply not responding to her.

fukk it. I'm not to be ignored or unanswered. :manny:

Wait nikka you met her at the grocery store, talked, hugged and kissed and a few hours later sent her a text? That's where you fukking up what did you text her for? Your doing too much and coming off waaay to keen. A nikka who's got options don't start texting a bytch he just saw a couple hours ago.
 

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whats ur approach game

The choosing signals he gave you are all correct but most of them are the choosing signals of a brave girl, apart from the looking at you which they can do from a distance. A not so brave girl or a random girl off the street ain't gonna get all up close to you or be bold enough to walk up to you and ask you a question. There are other subtle ones you just have to combine them with observing body language, stuff like playing with her hair. Girls will play with and adjust the hair, if it's up they will let it down, if it's down they might just tie it up, if they think they aint getting your attention atm they will try to get it in a subtle way and it usually involves their hair.
 

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bytch was from tinder lol. She’s a “photographer” Probably asked mad nikkas the same thing.

Her: “I took off work today, working on edits. But feel like going to a concert”

I look to see who’s performing tonight in my city. I see Sabrina Claudio ($25), Mahalia ($65) & Ginuwine/Donell Jones ($80)

bytch is trippin :mjlol: plus I don’t even know her

She defo tryna go see that but can't afford it :mjlol::mjlol:
 

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Going out wit a bad lil Mexican jawn I picked up at work. She 18 and don't speak English.

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Wait nikka you met her at the grocery store, talked, hugged and kissed and a few hours later sent her a text? That's where you fukking up what did you text her for? Your doing too much and coming off waaay to keen. A nikka who's got options don't start texting a bytch he just saw a couple hours ago.

Nah we generally text stuff thru out the day. It's not really out of the ordinary for her to text me about something after she just saw me. We see each other in passing several times a week.

She'll probably have some lame excuse, but I'm good. :manny:
 
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Brehs, that chick I've been asking about on here the past few days....

Saw her earlier today at the grocery store, we laughed it up for a bit, even went out to her car and sat for a min talking, gave her a hug/kiss & left... haven't heard from her since several hrs ago. No return to my texts. And here's the kicker, she's one of those women who doesn't believe in taking her phone out when she's with other ppl bc it's "rude". And anytime we're together she rarely uses her phone. BUT, if she ain't returning texts then that means she's busy with persons or ppl and ignoring my texts.

I know women check their phones like hawks. Even the ones who ain't on the phone an insane amount check their texts.

Things have been fairly good the past couple days, but I'm ghosting her tomorrow until she gets the picture. She'll likely text me good morning as she usually does, but I'm not responding. And she knows I watch college football all day on Sats so she'll know I'm simply not responding to her.

fukk it. I'm not to be ignored or unanswered. :manny:
its gonna be hard but you need to take that L and keep it moving sounds me me you are her backup plan happens to all of us :yeshrug:
 

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Also, just my observations based on a relationship this yr, but when a woman tells you all the bad stuff her ex did, how he's crazy etc always know that she played a role in that.

And at some point ,she'll do something and you'll be like, damn i see why dude did what he did. Probably not that bad of a guy :hubie: LOL
 

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its gonna be hard but you need to take that L and keep it moving sounds me me you are her backup plan happens to all of us :yeshrug:

Not that hard. But I'll wear the L.

I won't throw her in the trash 100% bc we know too many mutual ppl & also just in case she wants to get down some night, but she's no longer a priority for me to be communicating with
 
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Also, just my observations based on a relationship this yr, but when a woman tells you all the bad stuff her ex did, how he's crazy etc always know that she played a role in that.

And at some point ,she'll do something and you'll be like, damn i see why dude did what he did. Probably not that bad of a guy :hubie: LOL


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brehs! Always push for sex. ALWAYS. Do not pay attention to what a woman thinks. Never believe what they say. “Im not that type of girl” yes, she is that type of girl that wants you to take her back to your car and give you head. This happen to me 3weeks ago before I went to rolling loud. I pulled this blue eyed, brown hair, white chick that was giving me “choosing signals” across the bar. (I do not go for choosing signals I always approach women.) I kept talking to her, kept touching her and telling her all the nasty things I would do to her. Her friend looked way better than her but she was talking to another guy. She saw me talking to her, so she tried to cockblock me but I told her that I was friends with the dude she was talking to so she would not cockblock me ( i wasn’t friends with dude at all or knew him) and so he would get with her too. Remember, women are looking for dikk and when their friend is talking to another guy they get jealous. She was mad that I was talking to her friend instead of her. So she left me alone. So I went back to talking to her. women are down to do dirty things with you if you push for it and be blunt about it. I’m telling you. I told her “listen, I know you came out here tonight to get some dikk. No dude in this club has the balls to tell you that. They gonna p*ssy foot to make you comfortable. I’m not here for that. Im gonna take you back to your place and get you pregnant. You gonna give me the ass too.” She started to laugh as I was feeling her up and biting her neck. Brehs, Women like to pull us men back to sleep. They are looking for suckers that will give them free attention instead of giving us Sex. You gotta touch them and feel them. fukk what anyone else thinks. They ain’t doing it you are. The Boucher came up to us and told us that we gotta go cause the club was closing up so we went outside, I told her that I know she is a chick and it’s 2019 and I know how women get down. I told her “I’m not gonna kidnapped you or do anything creepy I’m a normal ass dude. So let’s go back to your place” brahh she got in my car and blew me the rest of the way to her house and I smashed her. But later on that week I hit her up she ghosted me. I have this other girl to fall back on and funny thing is the girl I have to fall back on was suppose to go out with me that night to that bar but she said she was “tired”. Man that bytch just should have said “listen, I’m gonna get dikk down by some dude tonight I cannot to tequila bar with you.” :unimpressed:


Reminds me of this video I saw the other day with this chick who actually said that the mistake a lot of men make is playing it "safe" by being vague and not getting straight to the point cos they're scared of a negative reaction. I've made that mistake before and I've even mentioned it here.

Ain't like you got anything to lose cos you never had the chick in the first place. :manny: If you wanna suck on her titties like a vacuum cleaner, then tell her that shyt. :manny:
 

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How do you older brehs with careers get women??:why:


Im 19 with No IG, not at College and don’t work retail and I may aswell be in the Desert with this drought:gucci:

I’m starting to workout and I’m not against approaching in public so help a breh out
 
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