Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[Deep_Black_Conscious]

So my Boy said he's gonna try couples therapy with his wife instead of bushing her. She said she cheated because he doesn't pay attention to her. She has no job and gets mad when my boy doesn't have spare money to give her. smh

Your boy is in for a world of hurt for his simping.
Maybe he doesn't want to deal with the ramifications of a divorce?
There's not much you can do other than shake your head and keep telling your boy the truth.

 

[semicko82]

So my Boy said he's gonna try couples therapy with his wife instead of bushing her. She said she cheated because he doesn't pay attention to her. She has no job and gets mad when my boy doesn't have spare money to give her. smh

Some dudes learn the hard way

 

[Balla]

What’s up fellas,

What y’all think about this?

I matched with this bytch with a real fat ass, she got a long ass lovey dovey bio and pics of her wearing bra n panties showing that fat ass off.

She got enough pics, so I don’t think it’s a cat fish, she talking about in her bio to not want her for just her ass, but for her, but yet she got pics of her ass showing with shorts on.

I don’t see no ig or snap, no cash app or anything.

I don’t know how to feel about this, lemme know y’all thoughts.

 

[JOHN.KOOL]

the worst thing about it is that this girl was staring at me the whole night pretty much making it obvious she was interested in me when we met. since she was sitting in the table next to mine. I said fukk it and went to hers and chopped it up for a few and got her number then dipped. Now she cant even be bothered to say "hey sorry i couldnt make it".

imma just drink on this wine and see where the night takes me :mjcrycap:



EDIT: she just texted me asking to pull through to the bar we met at


EDIT2: Told me she'll let me know when she gets to the spot so I can pull through. its been 2 hours now

EDIT3: I texted her, now she's telling me she's there, just forgot to text me . Yeah, its clear as day homegirl aint feelin ya boy. its all good, bushes she goes

nikka you was plan b dikk that night

You did make a mistake tho, when she told you she will let you know when she gets there so you can pull up there was no reason to be texting her again after that.

If she don't text you she don't text you, but texting her asking what's going on paints the picture in her mind that you sitting there with nothing to do watching your phone waiting for the text.

You don't text her again then even after she pulled the bullshyt she be thinking hmm, he didn't even text me tho to see what was going on or nothing

 

[JOHN.KOOL]

Yeah, women do shyt based on their emotions. Some of their reasonings are actually understandable if dudes sat down and used the logic they claim to have.
Lot's of bogus shyt women do can't be excused for but then there are a lot of shyt men can control if they stopped being so introspective for once.

One quick example is my buddies and I were close to another buddy. That other buddy is always with his girlfriend. Eventually, buddy and his girlfriend stopped answering our messages and that led to them never hanging out with us. The girlfriend deletes all of us from social media. My friends are all mad that our buddy never hangs out with us to the point one of them deletes the buddy from all social media. The decision was made drunk and my friend's reasoning was: "if he doesn't want to hang out, then I will just keep him out of my life completely."

I took the other route. I go out of my way to send her another friend request. I see them at a bar and we have a great time and she asks for my snapchat acting like she didn't delete me and both of them are inviting me to events to hangout with them. Knowing women use emotion the most, I try thinking from her perspective. If I had to guess she could tell some of my friends got annoyed she was always around. My friend who deleted our buddy from social media always trying to have a guys night because it's a getaway from his own girlfriend. My friend and a few others were never good at keeping that emotion down when our buddy's gf would be around.

The result? She assumes we all hate her so in return none of us can hang out with our buddy. None of my friends realize this but me. I make her feel welcome with me and next thing you know they want me to hang out all the time.

Sidenote: if you have a friend who has a girlfriend that has ruined the clique or she seems bytchish too you, but it's most likely because she's defensive since she doesn't feel apart of the group.

Your boy who stopped hanging around with you is a bytch nikka. It doesn't matter if my GF hates all my nikkas it ain't ever getting me to stop jamming with them. Secondly my girl will also know no matter her feelings she ain't gonna be making no passive aggressive moves like deleting all my friends off her social if she added them

 

[MikelArteta]

Will be in London this Saturday already got my hinge set up

Then going to Amsterdam and Vienna

 

[DaRealness]

Some days you just run into chicks who try to push your buttons. Had a chick cut our conversation short this afternoon.


We had lightly disagreed on something and she was like well it's been nice chatting.

I said, "cool, chat later".

She comes back with "no, I mean we've done talking".

I was like "Oh...well good luck".

She then says "you going to give up this easy? Usually, they fight"?

I was like "who fights?"

She goes "Men, usually fight for my attention."

I tell her it's been a pleasure but bye.

5 mins later shes back asking why did I delete her off Tinder.

Left her on read, then deleted her number.

Every time I'm tempted to get back into the game, I'm reminded of childish b.s. like this. lol @ "usually they fight".

Some of these bytches act like 12 years olds I swear. SMH.

 

[Straw Hat Luffy]

Your boy who stopped hanging around with you is a bytch nikka. It doesn't matter if my GF hates all my nikkas it ain't ever getting me to stop jamming with them. Secondly my girl will also know no matter her feelings she ain't gonna be making no passive aggressive moves like deleting all my friends off her social if she added them

I try to look at it as she's the one for him

 

[Balla]

nikkas straight ignored my shyt.... fukk it

 

[VertigoKnight]

Have a date this evening with this Japanese chick I met on Hinge last week. Early thirties, in shape and very attractive. Like me shes been in Vancouver for just over three years.

So far shes been good. No text games, just straightforward expectations and common courtesy. Shes been very proactive. Asked for my number and has kept in touch each day. I've tried to resist the temptation to over text her.

I asked her out for a drink. (No more dinner first dates) and she suggested maybe next Friday as she doesn't work the next day. But we'll all know how long a week is in dating terms. Even with women who seem amenable. So I suggested yesterday or Monday and she agreed on today.

My plan is if we hit it off tonight. I'll try and meet her again on Friday. We're meeting in her neighborhood. If the vibe is there I may have to walk her home and ask to use her washroom...


Always the biggest indicator to me if a chick is really feeling you or not and it's only failed me once here.

 

[VertigoKnight]

What’s up fellas,

What y’all think about this?

I matched with this bytch with a real fat ass, she got a long ass lovey dovey bio and pics of her wearing bra n panties showing that fat ass off.

She got enough pics, so I don’t think it’s a cat fish, she talking about in her bio to not want her for just her ass, but for her, but yet she got pics of her ass showing with shorts on.

I don’t see no ig or snap, no cash app or anything.

I don’t know how to feel about this, lemme know y’all thoughts.

Sounds like she wants it to be all about her ass. Sounds like one of those dumb chicks on IG who write out whole paragraphs under pictures of them half or fully naked.

I wouldn't say I'm traditional but if your dating profile has racy pictures on it. I'm only looking at you for one thing.

What do you see yourself looking for with this chick?

 

[Balla]

Sounds like she wants it to be all about her ass. Sounds like one of those dumb chicks on IG who write out whole paragraphs under pictures of them half or fully naked.

I wouldn't say I'm traditional but if your dating profile has racy pictures on it. I'm only looking at you for one thing.

What do you see yourself looking for with this chick?

I wanna smash, but I’m thinking is there more to this? Writes long profile about not wanting to be wanted for her ass, takes pics of her ass in underwear, like is the profile fake? she tryna get money from nikkas? Like it makes no sense to me and I’m not tryna fall for no trick or anything. How many pics do you see if bytches ass in they profile and they ain’t tryna get money from you or it’s a fake profile? How a nikka gonna take you serious for your mind if your ass is all in the pics and it’s fat as hell? Lol

 

[VertigoKnight]

I wanna smash, but I’m thinking is there more to this? Writes long profile about not wanting to be wanted for her ass, takes pics of her ass in underwear, like is the profile fake? she tryna get money from nikkas? Like it makes no sense to me and I’m not tryna fall for no trick or anything. How many pics do you see if bytches ass in they profile and they ain’t tryna get money from you or it’s a fake profile? How a nikka gonna take you serious for your mind if your ass is all in the pics and it’s fat as hell? Lol

I would not be surprised if she has an account selling ass pics. But if you're just looking to smash and get the opportunity go for it.

But if money is even mentioned once.

 

[DapMeUp!]

Been on the strangest roll out of nowhere both offline and online. All while I feel I have been putting the least effort in

Met with a 22 year old PAWG on Friday night out for my friends birthday. She wants to meet again tomorrow for drinks, wants me to bring a friend for her friend (Apparently I tried to make a move for her also on that night, blame the rum) I think I may push it back though cause work is picking up this week.

Met with my PAWG I met 2 weeks ago on Saturday, and finally got the box. We played strip blackjack. I lost....but I won in the end

Got 3 new matches on Hinge within last week and they all want to meet up this weekend. Deciding who to meet with now is the issue.

Then a girl I matched with on Hinge 2 weeks ago pops back up today. The week we matched it was her birthday weekend so we couldn't meet up.
I felt communication slipping shortly after that, and figured I'd pullback. I actually wasn't planning to contact her again.

We start talking and I mentioned how I'm bad with keeping up with Series/Movies. She suggests I can come over for the weekend when I'm free and we could catch up together. Bare in mind I have never met the girl yet I was taken aback. She must of felt I was slipping so she went all out.

Add all this to the rotation I already had going it's looking like being a great winter

 

[MikelArteta]

Just had an amazing date with this chick just a beautiful black lady , sweet lovely only thing that sucks she's from Atlanta and is only here for two weeks :belli: