This is exactly what I emphasized in one of my earlier posts in regards to a man's behavior dealing with women. It seems like you pretty much have to play the role of an immoral,disrespectful,grimey,no-good dude to not only keep women interested but to also be taken seriously by women in sense that they will not try play games with you. This shyt is still makes no sense but I, for the most part, have to come to terms with this mindset possessed by many women.
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This is exactly what I emphasized in one of my earlier posts in regards to a man's behavior dealing with women. It seems like you pretty much have to play the role of an immoral,disrespectful,grimey,no-good dude to not only keep women interested but to also be taken seriously by women in sense that they will not try play games with you. This shyt is still makes no sense but I, for the most part, have to come to terms with this mindset possessed by many women.
Yuzo Lightheart
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i think its because women want to create and play a mother role, sometimes almost as though it was just a game. it has something to do with codependency
Codependency - Wikipedia, the free encyclopedia
so an example of codependency would be a mother purposely poisoning her son's breakfast everyday to make him physically weak so that she could always be the one to care for him. im not making this example up it happens commonly enough that theres actually a name for this its called munchausen syndrome
anyway in a relationship by wanting her significant other to be flawed, it allows her to have control over him, not unlike the way a child is controlled by his mother, when she poisons his food on purpose to make him need her care. by you being flawed it makes her feel like she is more needed and important, creating a role of power where others are forced to depend on her
its twisted but i can see how it can happen particularly in women who have low self esteem and cant find any other way to create self worth other than to manufacture situations (dramas, conflicts) to essentially trick others into depending on her as a way to validate her own self worth
if you ever find yourself in a situation where your girl is constantly creating dramas and conflicts, there is a strong chance that its about her ability to create control and power over you by making you into a dependent of her. in not as many words, she is creating a mirror of herself to reflect back an image of power and greatness and using your life as a tool to do it
if youre too perfect, she cant play this kind of game, so you have to be flawed to allow her to experience these things. this is why i think women crave flawed men.
Codependency - Wikipedia, the free encyclopedia
so an example of codependency would be a mother purposely poisoning her son's breakfast everyday to make him physically weak so that she could always be the one to care for him. im not making this example up it happens commonly enough that theres actually a name for this its called munchausen syndrome
anyway in a relationship by wanting her significant other to be flawed, it allows her to have control over him, not unlike the way a child is controlled by his mother, when she poisons his food on purpose to make him need her care. by you being flawed it makes her feel like she is more needed and important, creating a role of power where others are forced to depend on her
its twisted but i can see how it can happen particularly in women who have low self esteem and cant find any other way to create self worth other than to manufacture situations (dramas, conflicts) to essentially trick others into depending on her as a way to validate her own self worth
if you ever find yourself in a situation where your girl is constantly creating dramas and conflicts, there is a strong chance that its about her ability to create control and power over you by making you into a dependent of her. in not as many words, she is creating a mirror of herself to reflect back an image of power and greatness and using your life as a tool to do it
if youre too perfect, she cant play this kind of game, so you have to be flawed to allow her to experience these things. this is why i think women crave flawed men.
Just for a clear idea on why I love Brazil, look at the women in this video, and understand that a lot of the women down there in Salvador dress just like that and have similar styles/complexions and wear their hair much the same way -
SÃO SALVADOR GAL COSTA.HD - YouTube
It's like one gigantic afro-centric city with extremely high family valuesIf you're a single man and aren't traveling you're not living.
not to sidetrack anything but what kinda music thats playing in the vid would that be called? The ish sounds beautiful
.DaRealness
I think very deeply
Just for a clear idea on why I love Brazil, look at the women in this video, and understand that a lot of the women down there in Salvador dress just like that and have similar styles/complexions and wear their hair much the same way -
SÃO SALVADOR GAL COSTA.HD - YouTube
It's like one gigantic afro-centric city with extremely high family values
Man, just look at that.....I mean REALLY look at that: No tattoos, graceful, properly dressed, warming aura, womanly in the way they move and ultimately just FEMININE. You get a woman like this who is loyal and down for you then it's a wrap.
We've been praising these types of women throughout, only for some folk coming in here using predictable shaming language after reading a page and a half talking about we hate women and want to stay away from them.
BTW wasn't some of us supposed to be planning to go to Brazil - Salvador, specifically - in the near future during the early coli days???
Those people that kick people down cause better options that actually exist (which are realistic). They hate seeing people do better than them.
Just for a clear idea on why I love Brazil, look at the women in this video, and understand that a lot of the women down there in Salvador dress just like that and have similar styles/complexions and wear their hair much the same way -
SÃO SALVADOR GAL COSTA.HD - YouTube
It's like one gigantic afro-centric city with extremely high family values
Damn
Damn
i had to pause the vid for a second and just re-evaluate my life
i cant fukkin wait for spring for my next travel
breh no pun..the fukk u thinking leaving brazil
Got me feeling like Im wasting my youth
not to sidetrack anything but what kinda music thats playing in the vid would that be called? The ish sounds beautiful
It sounds like a mix of Bossa Nova and a hip hop beat, if you like that there's another song about Salvador that's pretty good -
Damn
Damn
And, before someone comes in and says all the women don't look like that, of course not but the vast majority of Bahian (Salvador) women have that type of style in how they dress, especially those from middle class families that go to university. You will find women that look like that all along the Northeast coast of Brazil, it's pretty damn common to see a beautiful "morena" with natural hair and classy style of dress while being ultra feminine.
I think @blackzeus was planning a trip to Brazil with a couple of coli members, haven't heard anything about it since though and Carnaval is right around the corner. Me personally, my last days on earth will be spent living in Salvador
my favorite place in the world.
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International Playa
Playa with a Passport
Im a recovering simp, used to take women to expensive restaurants etc
What would you recommend as a first date, which is cheap, non-expensive???
Offer to cook for her at your crib???
What would you recommend as a first date, which is cheap, non-expensive???
Offer to cook for her at your crib???
HoustonHeat
In and out
Black Dominican (Afro-Latina), born and raised in DR and moved to this country for College.
All of my girlfriends have been African American, Afro-Latina or Latina...no mayo has ever been served.
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HoustonHeat
In and out
You are becoming one of my more favorite posters. Carry on.
Women of color > *