Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

HARLEM AL

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View attachment 26792 Look at this long ass email

Btw I never even dated this girl I remember it was just physical met her like 3 months after my ex fiancé and then she wanted a relationship and I told her nah


Btw there is no bond or connection she emailed me a few days ago and I replied back
She’s crazy as shyt. I could tell by that email. I don’t need you to tell me anything.

that p*ssy probably fire!
 

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She’s crazy as shyt. I could tell by that email. I don’t need you to tell me anything.

that p*ssy probably fire!

Lol all we would do is I'd go to her place and we'd have sex all weekend . Then she wanted a relationship and I said nah
 

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Breh she cute as fukk and shes a lawyer from a good family. She is not the only one who made comments like tbis but how you get older you wanna hear tbings about your character instead of physical attributes. shyt is annoying after a while.
Women are not men. They don’t give a fukk about things we think they should. They’re very much into the surface level shyt.
 

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Had two shorties I scooped recently in the clubs. They were feeling me. Lost both in texting..... I think

NOTE: I only care to fukk these girls and any other girl. Never wanna wife them


Girl #1 - We were joking around and I said to her “how dare you disrespect daddy? (Add emoji)” . She becomes unresponsive or delays her responses. Later tells me the “daddy” threw her off and she loses attraction easily . Asked her “so we still going to so and so?” . No response. This girl lives off her phone. I seen it firsthand

Girl # 2 Asks me if I have IG and I say no. Next day I ask her what her ig is and

Her: Thought you don’t have it?

Me: I don’t But every now and then I’ll go on my boy’s and check something out or look at memes.

Her: That’s so weird

Me: because I don’t have IG? Reason I don’t have That majority of people on it lie about their life and want to document every part of it . I don’t need my business out there. The mystique will always be more important than someone who is on front street

Her: That is so weird. That doesn’t make you any different than them cause you still go on it except you got something to hide.

Messaged her a few times since. No reply. Don’t think I did anything that bad. Next time I’m a just say nothing until I fukk them first lol
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To be fair as @semicko82 said you come off as corny with that text to girl 1. I don’t even have to explain why.... “daddy” :mjlol:


With the second girl, she was probably not interested Once you didn’t have Instagram, so no matter what you would have said, she already coined you as being weird because most young people have it these days.

But even in that case, when she asked you why you didn’t have it, you shouldn’t have explained yourself through text with anymore than “just don’t”. When she called you weird, don’t get defensive, just be nonchalant, and say “yeah ok”

In short, text less, don’t explain yourself over petty shyt. And don’t ever again refer to yourself as daddy, to a girl you barely know in a text. A lot of y’all be texting yourself right out of p*ssy. In your case I agree with the suggestion to just use text to make plans and nothing more.:yeshrug:
 

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To be fair as @semicko82 said you come off as corny with that text to girl 1. I don’t even have to explain why.... “daddy” :mjlol:


With the second girl, she was probably not interested Once you didn’t have Instagram, so no matter what you would have said, she already coined you as being weird because most young people have it these days.

But even in that case, when she asked you why you didn’t have it, you shouldn’t have explained yourself through text with anymore than “just don’t”. When she called you weird, don’t get defensive, just be nonchalant, and say “yeah ok”

In short, text less, don’t explain yourself over petty shyt. And don’t ever again refer to yourself as daddy, to a girl you barely know in a text. A lot of y’all be texting yourself right out of p*ssy. In your case I agree with the suggestion to just use text to make plans and nothing more.:yeshrug:


Funny thing is I've used that same daddy comment with emojis with multiple women and they all understood it was all jest but I see your perspective.

But yeah, I see what you mean, less is more. Now you said "text to make plans and nothing more", you recommend this for all men talking to women in the early stages?
 

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I agree with this nikka, nikka do Bush too easily. See no girl is perfect, Every single one has flaws, every single one tries to play these games, but once you get her in check and in a position where she conceded and dropped her previous position like this example it's a good spot to be in. She seems like a girl who's behaviour and mindset you could game and mold into your image if she likes you enough. Obviously it depends what that previous stance or position she had taken was but for something like his example, I would have met up with her again and trust she would have been very well behaved (until she got comfortable and there was something else she could test you on but that's just women breh)
Time is something you don’t have. Once it goes you can’t get it back. You should never need to anything else, if she doesn’t like what you have to offer move on. You can’t try and convince them to do nothing. They either will do it or they won’t.

let these broads be big homie. Move on to someone that wants to do what it is you want to do. Those other chicks will waste your time.


Your biggest asset is being able to walk away. Especially since there’s nikkas out here chasing broads.
 

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Funny thing is I've used that same daddy comment with emojis with multiple women and they all understood it was all jest but I see your perspective.

But yeah, I see what you mean, less is more. Now you said "text to make plans and nothing more", you recommend this for all men talking to women in the early stages?

I’ve had men that I’ve already been dating for a min. use “daddy” in a text, and it still turned me the fukk off. I can’t imagine a man I barely know using it, even in jest. Just don’t breh.

Nah, I don’t recommend this for every man, just for men that don’t have good text game. I’ve texted with plenty of men before dates, and it was never an issue. They didn’t overdo it. It was a few getting to know you short messages, and then setting up a date. But if your a breh that has a tendency to over text or say the wrong things, that’s when I recommend just texting to set up a date.
 

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I’ve had men that I’ve already been dating for a min. use “daddy” in a text, and it still turned me the fukk off. I can’t imagine a man I barely know using it, even in jest. Just don’t breh.

Nah, I don’t recommend this for every man, just for men that don’t have good text game. I’ve texted with plenty of men before dates, and it was never an issue. They didn’t overdo it. It was a few getting to know you short messages, and then setting up a date. But if your a breh that has a tendency to over text or say the wrong things, that’s when I recommend just texting to set up a date.

Hey I'll hold the L with the daddy comment with that girl, but the second was just an idiot lol. Never had issues before with texting, but took these two within a couple of days.

Charge it to the game. More in the sea. :yeshrug:
 

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Time is something you don’t have. Once it goes you can’t get it back. You should never need to anything else, if she doesn’t like what you have to offer move on. You can’t try and convince them to do nothing. They either will do it or they won’t.

let these broads be big homie. Move on to someone that wants to do what it is you want to do. Those other chicks will waste your time.


Your biggest asset is being able to walk away. Especially since there’s nikkas out here chasing broads.

The point was in the second and third lines g. The point is your not gona find a chick that just instinctively does things the way you want them to be done or sees everything how you do that's not realistic. If you can lay down solid game and get the girl on lock then you can mold her into being the chick that's perfect for you and does things exactly how you want them done and thinks how you want her to think concerning things.

This only way works if your able to walk away, but being able to walk away doesnt mean you should walk away at the slightest provocation, that's what most you nikkas fail to understand. You out here looking for women that won't ever play games and their actions and behaviours are exactly what you would want every time, that hoe don't exist breh. The girl needs to understand that you are ready and willing to leave at any time if she isn't the woman you need or want her to be and if you lay down the correct game, then when she is faced with a situation where she understands your able to walk away and there's things and behaviours etc that she does that could cause you to walk away she will chose to let them go rather than risk losing you, that is ultimate pimp shyt. When the game is cold she will chose you over everything.

That breh situation was an example of this, she texted back and apologised, asked where she went wrong that's a powerful position to be in, he got that girl in check right there, why walk away from the board when she's in check? I'd monitor that shyt, if that behaviour never pops up again then she has potential Running away from any girl that doesn't play right isn't pimp shyt at all.
 

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Hey I'll hold the L with the daddy comment with that girl, but the second was just an idiot lol. Never had issues before with texting, but took these two within a couple of days.

Charge it to the game. More in the sea. :yeshrug:

The second girl was an idiot. She’s most likely caught up in the social media trap—wants to know if your ig is popping. Judges brehs based on how their ig look.

even if y’all would have made it to a date, she wouldn’t have ever truly “understood” your reason for not being on it. :yeshrug:
 
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