Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

VertigoKnight

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That chick messaged me and asked for another chance.

Told her nah that’s ok. I don’t appreciate women telling me what to wear and what to do. That she should have been grateful I was willing to drive 40 min and spend time with her

Was this the one sweating you after one date?
 

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Was this the one sweating you after one date?

Yep
We were suppose to meet up yesterday

Then she messages me on I hope this time you dress up and take me to some nice place blah blah a man would do this and that then I cancelled

Today she messaged me where did she go wrong

I told her I don’t need someone telling me what to wear and where to go

Should have just been happy that I was willing to drive 40 minutes to come hang

Then she was like please forgive me can we continue and see where this goes

And I said nah
 

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Has this ever happened to anyone? When you have a girl, and women initiate contact with you even it’s it’s basic small talk they always some how bring up you have a girl somehow lol why is that? Why even talk to me & keep following me on IG?
 

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Coli dogs, I know y'all got something for this
She says "she's in a fukked up state right now, she wants a friend, not a boyfriend cuz it'll be added stress"

How do I play this and end up in them guts?
:mjlit:
She is already letting you know she just down to casually date.

Women will say that or "they're single as fukk".

I would just say "cool...:ehh: " and invite her out.
 

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Yep
We were suppose to meet up yesterday

Then she messages me on I hope this time you dress up and take me to some nice place blah blah a man would do this and that then I cancelled

Today she messaged me where did she go wrong

I told her I don’t need someone telling me what to wear and where to go

Should have just been happy that I was willing to drive 40 minutes to come hang

Then she was like please forgive me can we continue and see where this goes

And I said nah

I feel some of y'all bush too quickly. This is some basic bullshyt I can tolerate so I can smash and bounce. I'd have laughed and told her something like "dress sexy, look good for both of us :mjlit:"
I've learnt from this thread and experience not to attach much emotion when dealing with women :manny:
 

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I feel some of y'all bush too quickly. This is some basic bullshyt I can tolerate so I can smash and bounce. I'd have laughed and told her something like "dress sexy, look good for both of us :mjlit:"
I've learnt from this thread and experience not to attach much emotion when dealing with women :manny:

and he wasnt attaching emotion to her; thats why he :camby: her
 

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Yep
We were suppose to meet up yesterday

Then she messages me on I hope this time you dress up and take me to some nice place blah blah a man would do this and that then I cancelled

Today she messaged me where did she go wrong

I told her I don’t need someone telling me what to wear and where to go

Should have just been happy that I was willing to drive 40 minutes to come hang

Then she was like please forgive me can we continue and see where this goes

And I said nah

Good you didn't succumb, but if she begs a little more and comes to you for something small like drinks, then I'd do it.

But she has to earn it
 

Rozay Oro

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I've started to recently work out serious. Even as a skinny fat breh should get my best fit together and hit up bars to find an older woman who will buy me gifts?

My Ls from being a simp just got me not really caring about a serious relationship. I just rather save money and kill 2 birds with 1 stone.
 
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