Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

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I remember a couple years ago I was on a date and everything was going well

Out of nowhere the broad insulted my nose :mjtf:

I reacted wrong of course (cursed her out :lolbron:)

But to this day I don't know why she felt the need to do that :yeshrug: throw me off my game perhaps?
Well damn breh, what did she say? :heh:
 

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I was hoping she would change her mind & stay with me:francis:

Crazy thing we spent this past weekend just fukking & chilling, then she broke it off Monday night.

I signed up for Hinge & already taking to new females. Its keeping me distracted :ehh:

This mentality HAS to change because it will be the downfall of every relationship you will ever have. This mindset is why if this scenario repeated itself with 100 different girls, 98 will do the exact same thing you ex did. And if she did stay with you all it would have been was a stay of execution, it might not have been that guy but it would have been some guy.

nikka how dare she continue to hug you and play GF and get all the benefits like your attention and love all while pondering whether if she gonna leave your ass for another nikka? Let alone have the audacity to actually TELL you that she weighing up subbing you out the game during this whole process? Believe even if she picks you, from that point on she gonna be pondering this every time any guy approaches her, cause you treated it like it was acceptable. Always fight A side, not B side, your the catch nikka not her that has to be your mindset.
 

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@Playa_Wit_A_Passport

I forgot to say, let me quick give you a heads up on whats about to happen.

At some point in the near future shes gonna get back in contact with you, under the guise of keeping in touch/checking how you are, she may even straight tell you she been missing you lately. The contact will be more regular if you entertain it till the point you are talking quite alot, although she will not fully commit to getting back together with you, despite acting and hinting as if thats what shes thinking about. Thats cause what shes doing right now is double up on the dose of attention to maximise her levels of ego, shes gonna attempt to engineer a situation where you start going out your way to get her back and prove your better than this guy.

When that bytch gets back in contact tell her you aint her man no more and she shouldn't be talking to you while she has on, besides you dont want the distraction of talking to your ex while your out her setting up something with a new bytch, and then wish her well and good bye.
 

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@Playa_Wit_A_Passport

I forgot to say, let me quick give you a heads up on whats about to happen.

At some point in the near future shes gonna get back in contact with you, under the guise of keeping in touch/checking how you are, she may even straight tell you she been missing you lately. The contact will be more regular if you entertain it till the point you are talking quite alot, although she will not fully commit to getting back together with you, despite acting and hinting as if thats what shes thinking about. Thats cause what shes doing right now is double up on the dose of attention to maximise her levels of ego, shes gonna attempt to engineer a situation where you start going out your way to get her back and prove your better than this guy.

When that bytch gets back in contact tell her you aint her man no more and she shouldn't be talking to you while she has on, besides you dont want the distraction of talking to your ex while your out her setting up something with a new bytch, and then wish her well and good bye.
Thanks for the advice


I'm doing the no contact, cold turkey move. I'm never gonna call her or text her.

Funny thing, I'm already talking to some females of hinge, the funniest thing tho, the woman giving me the most attention is from the same country as my ex, Portugal :mjlol:

If she ever contacts me & i might drop it in the convo, its gonna sting her a bit lol
 

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I was hoping she would change her mind & stay with me:francis:

Crazy thing we spent this past weekend just fukking & chilling, then she broke it off Monday night.

I signed up for Hinge & already taking to new females. Its keeping me distracted :ehh:

The red flags that u would have seen, had u been looking for them (which you should have been) were:

Her bringing up her ex a number of times in conversations
Her stalking his social media or that of friends of his
Her being bytch to you and being all around disrespectful
Her being selfish
Her keeping contact with him
 

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I go out to random dive bars/normal bars all the time :mjlol:

The first time, well for at least the first fifteen minutes or so are going to be a bit awkward perhaps

Make sure you down a couple beers and shots early to loosen yourself up

I have yet to this day have went to a dive bar, but I heard that’s where it’s at.

I looked it up on google and it looked like a hole in the wall that only white people go to.

How do I go there and chill dolo without feeling awkward?
 

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Why y’all nikkas fallin in love with these hoes?

I don’t get it, we keep telling y’all they hoes, social media tells it too.

There’s no benefit to loving and trusting women.

When you don’t give af about them they always love you every single time.

I can’t wait to fukk a bytch then have her fall in love with me while I don’t give af if she stays or goes.

Best feeling in the world.

:ahh:
 

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I just got out of a 4 year relationship. From Sophomore year of high school to age 21 so I’ve never been In the game as a adult:mjcry:


I get smiles and hellos, I ain’t handsome gang but I ain’t :flabbynsick: either so idk where to start

Coli brehs help me out

Were you gonna marry her?

U 21, do what 21 year olds do; go to the bar, go to the club, live life.
 

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Were you gonna marry her?

U 21, do what 21 year olds do; go to the bar, go to the club, live life.
Yeah we had the whole thing planned out but long distance killed it. When I moved back I tried to rekindle but it just wasn’t there

I been sliding in DMs and getting #’s but no avail so far
 

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Yeah we had the whole thing planned out but long distance killed it. When I moved back I tried to rekindle but it just wasn’t there

I been sliding in DMs and getting #’s but no avail so far

Yeah long distance relationships usually don’t work out.

Think of chicks as numbers and keep going.
 

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I have yet to this day have went to a dive bar, but I heard that’s where it’s at.

I looked it up on google and it looked like a hole in the wall that only white people go to.

How do I go there and chill dolo without feeling awkward?

Sit at the bar. That way you can engage in conversation with anyone who comes up.
 

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went to the club yesterday had a good night with a group of guys including 1 latina

kissed a fat bytch in there :yeshrug:

had a small preparty in my house and to test the waters with the Latina i convinced her to sniff coke with me(she's a shy kind of girl):mjlit:. on the way home we separated from the group and me and her were walking alone she pulled me to the side and started kissing me, She is an average looking girl she likes weed to gonna tell her to get over and smoke and smash in due time:yeshrug:

bagged 2 baaad girls in the same club as well they are both flight attendance both black the one that caught my eye is thick dark skin girl that finee she told he she's born in italy and speaks italian :takedat: the other one is like half black and half German i think, got both of their instas. The half german one name is something related to blackpanther and she even has a tattoo of africa on her chest but when i checked her insta she has a white boyfriend :deadmanny:. I did manage to get the italian one home but didnt smash mostly just talked to her but i think if i put in some work i can easily smash.
the black italian has been texting me ever since and just sent me a voice message talking about she wants to cook for me :banderas: im gonna smash raw:mjlit:
 
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