Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

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Colgatebrah said:
I’m about to text a girl I ghosted in April. :mjgrin:She’s a cute Latina chick and we go to the same college and a nikka don’t have no kinda roster right now (outside this mixed chick I’m falling back on rn).


We were taking when I was with my ex and then after me and my ex broke up we fukked a few times. She caught feelings and I told her I wasn’t ready for a relationship and started falling back on her.
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She had a meltdown on Snapchat in mid April and blocked me on there so ima have to text her:mjgrin:most of our communication was through Snapchat so me hitting her up through text will catch her off guard because I doubt she remembered to block my number.


How should I slide back in this chicks messages?

Here’s the last time she sent me a text:

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This was before she spazzed on me and lost her mind. I need this bytch bad brehs:mjcry:
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201 Unread Texts, What are you a lightskin chick :skip:
 
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Colgatebrah said:
Nah like I said, we mainly talked on Snapchat. She would mainly reply to me on there. She has me blocked on there now tho
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Honestly, With these crazy ass chicks today you should probably just hit her up like nothing ever happened.

I’d just text her tomorrow (def not a sat night) and hit her with “Hey stranger” or “Its been a minute, how you been”:mjlol:
 
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Never overpay for dates, brehs. Use Groupon, coupons, or search online for an event that is affordable. No man should be spending over a 100 dollar on the first date, not even 50. Unless you know the lady of your interests for a long time and given the signs that you are going to smash. Don't ever work so hard on the first date with a stranger.
 
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Whenever ya ol lady mad at you, just let her vent. Obviously, try to straighten the situation as best as possible as a man. Don’t over-react, none of that. They’ll be back :pachaha: put that DNA in em brehs...I been saying this on here a few years back.
 
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CarmelBarbie said:
It sounds like you did it out of a sense of obligation as opposed to actually wanting to be with us, hence why your excited about pawging now. If you prefer Beckies and are excited to go back to them, then happy pawging. :yeshrug: This time stick with them.
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No cap but breh lives in Canada..the selection of black women is slim :mjgrin:
 
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Asantehene said:
If youre approaching them on a humble in public?

Man: Excuse me
Woman: *Turns around*
Man: Hey, sorry to bother you but ______

The blank could be filled in with a lot of things.

1. If you dont have much time and want to get to the point: "...but I walked past you earlier, just thought you were pretty/beautiful/cute/etc. and was wondering if I could introduce myself" (Try to say it with a slight smile so you look less creepy/animalistic). She'll probably say thank you and then sure but if she doesnt explicitly ask your name or give allow an intro she either didnt hear that part, is not interested, is already gassed or has a boyfriend. At that point its up to you to steer the convo. You dont have to get too creative, just be a human being. This is where your own personal convo skills come into play, Ask what shes up to at that time. Is it an activity you know about? If so share what you no. If not, inquire about it. Ask if she works/lives in the area. If so, how long? Where is she originally from? shyt like that. One or two questions/answers is typically enough. If she is answering your questions and asking them back thats usually a very good sign. If not, refer to what i said above. To end it off, mention that you gotta meet someone, or head somewhere (like work or a meeting) but would like to go out with her. Ask if shes down to have lunch or a coffee sometime. If she declines or said she has a bf, bow out gracefully. If she is down, grab the number.


If you got all day, try small talking using something about her or the situation surrounding you to get a convo going:
"but I really like your shoes. My sisters birthday is coming up and I was wondering where i could find something like that."
"that book in your hand, it looks interesting. How is it? Whats it about?"
"I noticed you were listening to ______, are you a big fan?"

or you can get creative and really say some off the wall shyt to make her laugh/get her attn.

Club / party game is a bit different. For the most part its less polite...none of that excuse me or sorry to bother you type shyt.


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If you do the above and bag 3 outta 10 girls, to me you're doing a good job...depending on how selective you are. Outta those three you could prolly pineat least one. If youre a very selective guy you should be bagging 5/10 though. In good city you can easily get a roster of 3,5 girls doing this a few times a day over the course of a week. You just have to be aggressive with it.

Also, a key pointer...the element of surprise is very important. You dont want a girl to see you looking at them , scheming, following them etc. before you approach. Once that happens the creep meter slowly rises and they quickly tell themselves they will diss you. It becomes an uphill battle the longer you wait after they initially catch you. The more casual/coincidental and less premeditated you can make it seem the better. Why? It feeds into the narcissism and insecurity of women. Women dont want to say some guy saw them, followed them, houdned them and spit game. Nah. They wanna be able to tell their girls that you randomly swept them off their feet, how meant to be it seemed and feel like a princess. You can stumble over your words and everything and still succeed, a real woman is gonna still value/respect the fact that you're polite and had the gall to approach.

None of this is theoretical; all of it is spoken from experience
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@Colgatebrah well that nikka just gave you the keys, run with it
 
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