There's women out that think they can force commitment via competition. She attempts to increase her value on the market by letting the dude she really wants know that she has other suitors and that he better handcuff her. First thing first, that's a red flag. A woman who had viable options that were better than you would pick them. She wouldn't even be having a discussion with you if you weren't her best option. You're her priority and prize whether or not she wants to admit it. But there's the thing. Don't allow yourself to feel pressured. Getting involved in a committed relationship is a serious thing. A lot of people out here treat relationships like they're something to do, confusing it with dating. So if a woman hits you with that ultimatum, tell her to choose the other dude. Reality is that if you wanted to wife her, you would have stepped to her. Always remember that. When you're ready, you'll be the one to approach her and tell her you're ready for a serious relationship. Don't get duped into a competition that may not even exist. If she's not happy, tell her she can leave. We never hold women against their will.
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Don’t they do that in realty? They tell you that they are receiving multiple offers and you better act quick.
Guess who decided to hit me up yesterday. Ol girl apologized for how she handled things and admitted that dude that she choose over me played her
. I told her that that’s a part of the game and sucked that it didn’t worked out that way she wanted. I’m very leery of her and going to keep my distance. Already have a date with another chic for next Saturday
.
Ol' things are going tough in life let me dust off the Bible on the shelf hey how you doing
Good post but let's be real even the ugliest of the ugly woman has options but as you mention doesn't mean that they are good.
Just like for school have options like Harvard and Stanford is different than algrave community college
I'm confused brehs. Last Monday I was talking to this girl that I'm pretty cool with(who has a bf). Anyway we're deep in conversation and somehow end up talking about abs. I asked her if she has abs and she raises her shirt up to show me. I touch them and tease her a bit.
Anyway she leaves and hits me on my arm. Now Wednesday comes and she's acting a lil bit weird. Still friendly but clearly closed off in her body language. Now I'm like "damn did I creep her out?
"
So I decide to apologize to her by sending a text. She then responds with:
"When did you offend me
?"
why can't she be straightforward and accept my apology?
Anyway she leaves and hits me on my arm. Now Wednesday comes and she's acting a lil bit weird. Still friendly but clearly closed off in her body language. Now I'm like "damn did I creep her out?
"So I decide to apologize to her by sending a text. She then responds with:
"When did you offend me
?"why can't she be straightforward and accept my apology?
I'm confused brehs. Last Monday I was talking to this girl that I'm pretty cool with(who has a bf). Anyway we're deep in conversation and somehow end up talking about abs. I asked her if she has abs and she raises her shirt up to show me. I touch them and tease her a bit.
Anyway she leaves and hits me on my arm. Now Wednesday comes and she's acting a lil bit weird. Still friendly but clearly closed off in her body language. Now I'm like "damn did I creep her out?
So I decide to apologize to her by sending a text. She then responds with:
"When did you offend me
why can't she be straightforward and accept my apology?
You over thought it breh...You shouldn't have apologized.
Women change like the wind. Her change of mood might have had nothing to do with you.
Sure they got options, but you're their best option. If you were not their best option, they would not give you an ultimatum. They would just cut you off and go be with him.
I'm confused brehs. Last Monday I was talking to this girl that I'm pretty cool with(who has a bf). Anyway we're deep in conversation and somehow end up talking about abs. I asked her if she has abs and she raises her shirt up to show me. I touch them and tease her a bit.
Anyway she leaves and hits me on my arm. Now Wednesday comes and she's acting a lil bit weird. Still friendly but clearly closed off in her body language. Now I'm like "damn did I creep her out?
So I decide to apologize to her by sending a text. She then responds with:
"When did you offend me
why can't she be straightforward and accept my apology?
U should not have apologized. U just lowered your value in her eyes.
You shouldn't have apologized.
Women change like the wind. Her change of mood might have had nothing to do with you.
I really was about me breh. She sounded like she was going to put me in the friend zone. She went off about how terrible and selfish of a person she was and how she believed in opposites attract ( we're both introverts) so she clearly was
. She even tried to hook me upNow I'm thinking "where was all this Monday?
"I'm used to touching he and and vice versa. She showed no instance of being uncomfortable with my behavior that night. In fact she seemed pretty comfortable since she hit me on my arm after she left. Then Wednesday comes and I get a complete 180.
Now I'm physically attracted to her and enjoy our convos and she's an overall cool chick but I'm Not interested in her romantically though.
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An apology is an admission of guilt. It actually damns you in court.
Cold approach pros, what's your technique? Introduce yourself, get her name, throw a compliment, then what?
A curvy thirty five year old lawyer chick liked me on Hinge with a flirty message...
But then I thought of @The Odum of Ala Igbo and decided against liking her back
The next woman I go on a date with will be 25
But then I thought of @The Odum of Ala Igbo and decided against liking her back
The next woman I go on a date with will be 25