Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

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I have been stalwart with your advice never even giving an inch. It is tough to be tough. But it is better for myself, I see that now. I've got a little bit of game finding to do before im able to set up a roster but I've seen myself getting different reactions from women norte I didn't think I was getting in the past. Summer 19 and beyond is going to be real interesting

You sound like you got your head on your shoulders. Keep that mindset bro
 

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I want to talk about the principle of commitment and why women don't understand it...

Women demand commitment the most, but have the least amount of respect for it's principle. You see, commitment, whether in the form of time or effort, is a form of currency that we use to pay for something that we expect results from, except when it comes to giving it to women. We don't treat our commitment to women as a price that must be worth what we get in return, we see committing to a woman as an obligation, regardless of the terms and conditions, and regardless of how unreasonable. We are expected to give a woman commitment just because she demands it, or because we think it's the moral thing to do.

Unfortunately, men are unaware of just how much they are severely fukking themselves at the dating negotiating table. They are foolishly meeting the expectations of women who expect them to pay the price of commitment to women who simply aren't worth the amount of commitment demanded.

Keeping the principle of commitment in mind, I am going to help women understand what bothers men about being with a woman who has had one night stands, and I am going to illustrate my points by objectifying women like a true chauvinist should.

Virgin women are like new cars, divorced women and ex girlfriends, providing they have only been bedded by their spouses, are like company cars. Prostitutes are like rental cars, and sluts and women who have had one night stands are like used cars.

Men, as you know, are sex hunters who see women as sex objects to be viciously preyed upon. When a man has sex with a woman, unless she's a virgin, he knows that his predecessors have already had their share of the kill, and that he is eating the scraps, which is what we refer to as sloppy seconds. In other words, a bunch of men got to have this woman for free and without paying the price of commitment.

When a man is expected to commit to a woman who is a former prostitute, porn star, or a woman who has had one night stands, meaning, a woman who has been used by men as a party blowup doll, he is paying full price for a used car. It is important to know that men are the ones who pay the bigger price of admission. Men must pay with commitment, which means monogamy and financial responsibility. They must also pay by spending the first half of their lives obtaining the never ending list of prerequisites that makes them worthy of a second glance from a woman that is just required to be good looking, and have good personality traits.

Strangely enough, after all that, the man will also have to alter his belief system in order to reason with this woman, and he will be nagged into changing her emotional diaper. If he's lucky, the only other thing he will be required to do, is act as if all the men this woman got banged by never actually banged her, and that his being a creep and a perv, and a pig and a dog, and a liar and a cheater that's commitment phobic, isn't something that his slut girlfriend or wife benefited from when she was having one night stands.

When I'm at the negotiating table with a woman who is an ex wife, ex girlfriend, former prostitute, or current slut, it's only good business to get a test drive, and then negotiate a reasonable payment.

Interesting post it got me thinking of two women I've dated who come from either side of that

The first was a chick I started seeing and we saw each other for a year then she went weird on me and we stopped seeing each other. I'll call her my OG Paag I've mentioned her a few times in this thread.

After me and she stopped seeing each other. She got with someone he fukked her over as well. And like women of that type do she went to 'find herself' then jumped back on the apps. I met back up with her last year and she told me that because the men of the city had "disappointed" her she said she'd sometimes 'date' guys when she went on work trips so she would only see them for a week or so then jet. Now date in my mind means you fulfilled and gave your body away to guys who you didn't want to see again. And probably felt like shyt afterward.

Thinking about that now, it turns my stomach. I loved this woman for a time. To see her reduced to this was painful. but it was also a learning experience.
I just feel pity and mild disgust for her now. If she came back around I couldn't even get excited about fukking her anymore. Much less trying to build with her.

Contrast that to someone I met a month after her. Who I see very regular she was in an 11yr relationship she had one guy after that but didn't fukk as she was still not ready to open her legs to anyone new yet. Anyway, he fukked up and got dumped she met me.

She's very traditional Chinese, finds the idea of sleeping with multiple men disgusting. I'm the second guy who's ever fukked her. she's loyal, open and wants to build. I'm hesitating though as a man I have access to all these women who are throwing the p*ssy at me but on the other hand.

At some point, a man has to cash his cards in. A sad thing to say but women are getting worse and more damaged. I'm thinking when you get with a woman these days, how many dikks has she taken by then? How many guys have smashed with no commitment? Now I'm usually one of those guys who smashes a few times then ducks. So I'm part of the problem, but it's always been the case that if a woman is giving puss out I'll be sampling.
 
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Interesting post it got me thinking of two women I've dated who come from either side of that

The first was a chick I started seeing and we saw each other for a year then she went weird on me and we stopped seeing each other. I'll call her my OG Paag I've mentioned her a few times in this thread.

After me and she stopped seeing each other. She got with someone he fukked her over as well. And like women of that type do she went to 'find herself' then jumped back on the apps. I met back up with her last year and she told me that because the men of the city had "disappointed" her she said she'd sometimes 'date' guys when she went on work trips so she would only see them for a week or so then jet. Now date in my mind means you fulfilled and gave your body away to guys who you didn't want to see again. And probably felt like shyt afterward.

Thinking about that now, it turns my stomach. I loved this woman for a time. To see her reduced to this was painful. but it was also a learning experience.
I just feel pity and mild disgust for her now. If she came back around I couldn't even get excited about fukking her anymore. Much less trying to build with her.

Contrast that to someone I met a month after her. Who I see very regular she was in an 11 relationship she had one guy after that but didn't fukk as she was still not ready to open her legs to anyone new yet. Anyway, he fukked up and got dumped she met me.

She's very traditional Chinese, finds the idea of sleeping with multiple men disgusting. I'm the second guy who's ever fukked her. she's loyal, open and wants to build. I'm hesitating though as a man I have access to all these women who are throwing the p*ssy at me but on the other hand.

At some point, a man has to cash his cards in. A sad thing to say but women are getting worse and more damaged. I'm thinking when you get with a woman these days, how many dikks has she taken by then? How many guys have smashed with no commitment? Now I'm usually one of those guys who smashes a few times then ducks. So I'm part of the problem, but it's always been the case that if a woman is giving puss out I'll be sampling.
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i know that feel breh, had 2 damaged chicks in the past and didnt really notice it but you learn

def not ready to cash my cards yet, i havnt even reached my final form
the new chick im currently seeing has told me about her sex life, she has a high sex drive like me , we shard some stories although i can feel we're both holding back :lolbron: ive been a whore myself so i cant judge her like that , she has a good head on her shoulders #

and 100% true women are getting more damaged, young girls mentally fuked up from ex boy friends, i cant deal with that :yeshrug:

True there are chicks who I love hanging out with who both of us can admit to being sex crazed those chicks I'd never ever wife and they don't want to get wifed. (or so they say) :mjlol:

So emotionally I know what the deal is with those women we meet we hang and sometimes we fukk. I feel for these young brehs though. These women coming up are going to be terrifyingly damaged. I thought the current 25-40+ are bad but they'll be light work compared to the IG generation coming of age.

Some of the most messed, up vainest women I've met and when that reality hits it's going to be an absolute mess. Messy minded chicks who are ready to just up and drop guys and have or so they think, endless choice. And young men who cant control their emotions and you have a bad, bad mix
 
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Interesting post it got me thinking of two women I've dated who come from either side of that

The first was a chick I started seeing and we saw each other for a year then she went weird on me and we stopped seeing each other. I'll call her my OG Paag I've mentioned her a few times in this thread.

After me and she stopped seeing each other. She got with someone he fukked her over as well. And like women of that type do she went to 'find herself' then jumped back on the apps. I met back up with her last year and she told me that because the men of the city had "disappointed" her she said she'd sometimes 'date' guys when she went on work trips so she would only see them for a week or so then jet. Now date in my mind means you fulfilled and gave your body away to guys who you didn't want to see again. And probably felt like shyt afterward.

Thinking about that now, it turns my stomach. I loved this woman for a time. To see her reduced to this was painful. but it was also a learning experience.
I just feel pity and mild disgust for her now. If she came back around I couldn't even get excited about fukking her anymore. Much less trying to build with her.

Contrast that to someone I met a month after her. Who I see very regular she was in an 11 relationship she had one guy after that but didn't fukk as she was still not ready to open her legs to anyone new yet. Anyway, he fukked up and got dumped she met me.

She's very traditional Chinese, finds the idea of sleeping with multiple men disgusting. I'm the second guy who's ever fukked her. she's loyal, open and wants to build. I'm hesitating though as a man I have access to all these women who are throwing the p*ssy at me but on the other hand.

At some point, a man has to cash his cards in. A sad thing to say but women are getting worse and more damaged. I'm thinking when you get with a woman these days, how many dikks has she taken by then? How many guys have smashed with no commitment? Now I'm usually one of those guys who smashes a few times then ducks. So I'm part of the problem, but it's always been the case that if a woman is giving puss out I'll be sampling.



One thing I've realized in life women dig their own whole. Every woman with a dirt bag abuser or who has been used had a good decent guy in the past but spit them out.

I don’t feel sorry for none None!!!!

The average woman spreads her legs early and then when things get a little rough or the honeymoon dries up rinses and repeat
 

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One thing I've realized in life women dig their own whole. Every woman with a dirt bag abuser or who has been used had a good decent guy in the past but spit them out.

I don’t feel sorry for none None!!!!

The average woman spreads her legs early and then when things get a little rough or the honeymoon dries up rinses and repeat

And all the time her allure is lowering in value.
 

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Interesting post it got me thinking of two women I've dated who come from either side of that

The first was a chick I started seeing and we saw each other for a year then she went weird on me and we stopped seeing each other. I'll call her my OG Paag I've mentioned her a few times in this thread.

After me and she stopped seeing each other. She got with someone he fukked her over as well. And like women of that type do she went to 'find herself' then jumped back on the apps. I met back up with her last year and she told me that because the men of the city had "disappointed" her she said she'd sometimes 'date' guys when she went on work trips so she would only see them for a week or so then jet. Now date in my mind means you fulfilled and gave your body away to guys who you didn't want to see again. And probably felt like shyt afterward.

Thinking about that now, it turns my stomach. I loved this woman for a time. To see her reduced to this was painful. but it was also a learning experience.
I just feel pity and mild disgust for her now. If she came back around I couldn't even get excited about fukking her anymore. Much less trying to build with her.

Contrast that to someone I met a month after her. Who I see very regular she was in an 11 relationship she had one guy after that but didn't fukk as she was still not ready to open her legs to anyone new yet. Anyway, he fukked up and got dumped she met me.

She's very traditional Chinese, finds the idea of sleeping with multiple men disgusting. I'm the second guy who's ever fukked her. she's loyal, open and wants to build. I'm hesitating though as a man I have access to all these women who are throwing the p*ssy at me but on the other hand.

At some point, a man has to cash his cards in. A sad thing to say but women are getting worse and more damaged. I'm thinking when you get with a woman these days, how many dikks has she taken by then? How many guys have smashed with no commitment? Now I'm usually one of those guys who smashes a few times then ducks. So I'm part of the problem, but it's always been the case that if a woman is giving puss out I'll be sampling.
If you find a loyal one you better lock her up. Hoes are a dime a dozen these days
 

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A black woman got into an argument with me because I told her I prefer dating black women :mjlol:

I thought I was the only who experienced that. I didn't even think of it as a possibility at the time for a black woman to be angry at me cos I preferred black women. :dwillhuh:

Some of our people are just fukked up and too far gone.
 

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Went round my older paags house last night after I went to the cinema. Ended up smashing. The sex is still fire.

She did me breakfast this morning. And asked if I wanted to come to Hong Kong and other parts of China with her as her guest. As shes going for 6 weeks. And she'd buy my ticket.

The idea of being a kept man is semi appealing but nah.
 

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Crazy chick I was dealing with last summer/fall hit me up for the first time since January talking she had a dream about me and just "had to share that"


Bich get yo crazy ass up outta here :camby:
 
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