Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

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Best way to get her homegirl in the mix? I try to be cool not forcing that issue but I feel like I could pull it off
Just play it cool and don’t be begging for it, my girl asked me what was my fantasy I mentioned the same thing and she brings it up more than me, you gotta let her feel like it’s her idea:mjlol:
 

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We kick gems to each other on here all the time, but this story is an example of what happens when the men in your life don't teach you game:

'Honeytrap' killer who murdered teen boy in Croydon kicked out of UK

It was big news over here and there's been two movies made about it. This boy was simping over this girl heavy while she was barely giving him a glance. This other dude she was messing with didn't even care about her too tough, but he was the 'bad boy' and found the kid a nuisance so he got the bytch to set him up to be killed.

I guarantee if he was put on game and taught to notice the red flags and not to be pursuing girls - especially the ones who don't reciprocate - he would still be here. It's a sad story all around but this is why what we do on here is important. You've already had many posts over the years from random dudes saying how this thread has helped them, maybe somebody else's life could get saved.


The role the lack of father plays is so major
 

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We kick gems to each other on here all the time, but this story is an example of what happens when the men in your life don't teach you game:

'Honeytrap' killer who murdered teen boy in Croydon kicked out of UK

It was big news over here and there's been two movies made about it. This boy was simping over this girl heavy while she was barely giving him a glance. This other dude she was messing with didn't even care about her too tough, but he was the 'bad boy' and found the kid a nuisance so he got the bytch to set him up to be killed.

I guarantee if he was put on game and taught to notice the red flags and not to be pursuing girls - especially the ones who don't reciprocate - he would still be here. It's a sad story all around but this is why what we do on here is important. You've already had many posts over the years from random dudes saying how this thread has helped them, maybe somebody else's life could get saved.


The role the lack of father plays is so major
 

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We kick gems to each other on here all the time, but this story is an example of what happens when the men in your life don't teach you game:

'Honeytrap' killer who murdered teen boy in Croydon kicked out of UK

It was big news over here and there's been two movies made about it. This boy was simping over this girl heavy while she was barely giving him a glance. This other dude she was messing with didn't even care about her too tough, but he was the 'bad boy' and found the kid a nuisance so he got the bytch to set him up to be killed.

I guarantee if he was put on game and taught to notice the red flags and not to be pursuing girls - especially the ones who don't reciprocate - he would still be here. It's a sad story all around but this is why what we do on here is important. You've already had many posts over the years from random dudes saying how this thread has helped them, maybe somebody else's life could get saved.

Sad thing is this and hate to say it as a father
U can teach ur son or anyone game but if they stubborn as hell and not listen even if they know game
They gonna do what the hell they wanna do even with knowledge
 

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So I started chatting to this gorgeous 26 yr Taiwanese chick two weeks ago as I was selling something on FB marketplace. We got chatting and even though she didn't end up buying my item we hit it off and carried on chatting. Been years since I've tried to get at a chick on FB as it was too risky. But now I'm single.
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I tried to move it off FB messenger asap but she wasn't having it at first, but in the end I told her whatsapp was more stable :lolbron:and she gave me her number so I could add her to my whatsapp.

So she used to be a nurse in Taiwan. Came over here last summer to be a make up artist and she also occasionally models. Anyway I subtly let her know I PAAG and she got intrigued and asked me about my previous dates. Our chat has now inevitability gotten flirty and sexual, Not outright but borderline innuendo.

Had a phone chat with her and she sounds sexy as fukk.

Anyway something told me she hadn't been fukked yet. She was asking me if any of the women I saw just wanted sex. I said a few...So since she opened those floodgates I asked her if she's ever had a BF? She says never. So I ask her the obvious question are you a virgin? She laughs and tells me shes not going to answer that, but then relents and says , yes she is. She never had the time as she was concentrating on her studies.

Anyway was working on her this Saturday. Tried to get her to come to my place to watch GoT yesterday evening and have me cook her dinner and she said she'd let me know on the day. I knew this was probably a mini shyt test she was trying as she spoke about a guy who tried to ask her out on a date but pushed too hard and she got spooked and curved him and as expected she didn't message all day.

10.00pm she messages didn't even mention the GoT day, but she asks me what day would work for me as she'd really like to to see me and have dinner at my place. Asked her when does she have a day off this week she says Thursday so I tell her come see me Wednesday evening.

Now I'm not expecting to be taking her virginity, but looking forward to trying to at least laying the groundwork in person and getting her comfortable. One thing I've learnt about these quiet bookish Asian women is once you unleash them sexually it's on.

They just need the green light that you've seduced them and they haven't just given up the puss easily.
 

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Sad thing is this and hate to say it as a father
U can teach ur son or anyone game but if they stubborn as hell and not listen even if they know game
They gonna do what the hell they wanna do even with knowledge

True, but the overwhelming majority of simps don't have a strong male presence advising them. Sometimes kids will still learn the hard way, but most boys who have that masculine energy in their life ain't doing shyt like hanging around like puppies being 'besties' with a female and doing stuff like painting their nails for them and being a shoulder to cry on for several hours on the phone. Some of the shyt I've seen in real life and online is beyond cringeworthy. I've made simp mistakes in my younger years, but if I had a father to slap me in the back of the head when I was a teenager I would have been much better off.
 
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....with that being said, although some black women could lose some weight, some of these white women are looking beat out here. I'm not into "pawgs", but damn man just had this one chick like me on tinder who is five years younger than me but looks twenty years older. :merchant:They simply don't age well at ALL. Yesterday I was at spanish class and people in the group thought I was a lot younger than I am. So fukk I look checking for any woman who looks old enough to be my mother? Nah, you can have that.
 
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