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only face pics is a red flag for me. I automatically think she's fat. I need a girl to have at least 1 full body pic, but even then those are trickyI got catfished like a mutha fukka!!!!
She was so fukkin fat!! I couldn’t tell because her face was skinny in the pics!!
Idk how these girls take pics that hide their fat like that, she was cute so I let her slide with only having face pics, I wasn’t expecting her to be that big, maybe a lil thick.
She used mad filters n shyt. Online dating rookie mistake.
I’ll know better next time.
only face pics is a red flag for me. I automatically think she's fat. I need a girl to have at least 1 full body pic, but even then those are tricky
I got catfished like a mutha fukka!!!!
She was so fukkin fat!! I couldn’t tell because her face was skinny in the pics!!
Idk how these girls take pics that hide their fat like that, she was cute so I let her slide with only having face pics, I wasn’t expecting her to be that big, maybe a lil thick.
She used mad filters n shyt. Online dating rookie mistake.
I’ll know better next time.
and sloppy. I also despise those who hide the fact they have kids.
Trust me, that separates the wheat from the chaff. 
They should want that more than men for their own safety and comfort. It's funny when they come back with the "nooooo, let's just meet up" lol. If they look the same as they do in their pics, then what's the problem? 
I got catfished like a mutha fukka!!!!
She was so fukkin fat!! I couldn’t tell because her face was skinny in the pics!!
Idk how these girls take pics that hide their fat like that, she was cute so I let her slide with only having face pics, I wasn’t expecting her to be that big, maybe a lil thick.
She used mad filters n shyt. Online dating rookie mistake.
I’ll know better next time.
You see, this is the shyt that I hate.
I don't check for fat chicks trying to match me on apps, but at least they own the fact that they're overweight by posting their body pics. Some dudes like that, each to their own. But I don't need to accept them just how I wouldn't expect a perfectly toned IG body type chick to want me if I was looking extra
These chicks that catfish and/or only show face pics are the ones who piss me off. The mere fact they have to hide it shows they're deceptive and also know it's not right and they're too lazy to put in the work. I see elderly people with ailments in the gym all the time, so these young broads have no excuse. Unless they have some type of health issue, they're just lazy.
Especially coming back from Panama and Colombia (Medellin especially) last month and seeing how the women of all hues generally take pride in their bodies and physical appearance, my standards have raised. I don't expect perfection, but fat chicks are a no no.
Even if they have full body pics, I always ask to videocall first before we meet up.
You know the answer. These bytches more trifling than us and will paint us in a different image.
Men need to understand that women always have to deal with a trade off when it comes to guys they choose. Sure when they get online it turns into a storybook list for their ideal man and they start to blab about the "6 ft + shredded bad boy who makes her laugh and has lots of money." Just ignore how they make it seem like it's supposed to be some sort of package deal, because it isn't. Pay attention to the people you see around you and you'll see that's not even what's happening with men and women. Sure those things are all IDEAL requirements, but really what she is communicating to you is all of her needs jammed into one "Prince Charming" man.
What is behind the message is that there's a trifecta women have between their emotional needs, their physical needs, and their social/monetary needs. They will inherently figure out which strength a man has when she is picking one out. Having even one of these things mean that you have your shyt together to some degree. If you aren't an anti-social, fat, broke man, then you are likely more desirable than you think. That's why you need to get out of your head and realize that women like men, and if you have even ONE of those needs in order, then she will have a part of her that is attracted to you. It's how their antennas work even if they don't know it. You might even be out of her league if you're GREAT at your requirement (but she's smart enough to never tell you that.)
The truth is more likely that in real life, she's dealing with a man or men, who at best, are only good for ONE of those trifecta requirements. Yes, only one. Not even extraordinary at it, typically just "good or okay." That's the reality of it. It's a balance overall that counts, but really what I'm trying to say is that you should be GOOD in at least one of those things. The more the better. Get a mouthpiece and learn how to make her feel comfortable around you. Work out to look good in your clothes. Get money so you're not broke. Even one of those things will push you into a better place.
(Also, notice how the "I want him to love me for me" requirement is almost never at the top of the list for them, if at all. That's because how you feel about her is almost unimportant. Her emotional needs are more reliant on your confidence and how you feel about yourself. How you handle yourself in her presence or not. And if she sees strength, then she wants to be around that because it rubs off on her personality and it protects her. Being a simp is actually counter to her needs. She will feel weakness from you because you are weak without her. As long as you are giving her some attention and are accomplished in whichever trifecta need, then that's all that she really needs. Of course women change like the wind, but their idea of how great you are to her is dependent on your talents and strengths. NOT ON HOW YOU FEEL ABOUT HER. She could give a shyt, it's all about how much she wants you.)
You don't need to overthink the trifecta, because even the out of shape guy with a mouthpiece can make women laugh and get girls. The broke gym rat can holler and fukk plenty of women, because physically they are attracted to him. The rich old man can pick and choose which model he's getting with because of his bread ... you get what I'm saying. Don't psyche yourself out thinking that you need to be some impossible man who is great at everything. Or even extraordinary at one. Just be good at something for starters. If you are bad at all of those things, however, then fix at least one. Only ONE is necessary to get you women. More than one skill means she will probably look hotter.
Finally, yes self improvement is the best part of this all. In fact, work on everything to the fullest FOR YOU. If you do it just to get women then they'll smell that and see you're just a panderer. You're still trying to appease her. It's like those rich celebrities who are still simps and get played. They worked so hard just to get women, and when they see that she will find out he's a lame with no real confidence in himself. The truth is to work on your betterment for your own life. When she sees THAT, it makes her want you because your success and drive wasn't based on someone else's need or presence.
Speak to people to be more social, you can open up more possibilities in your life. Work out so you can be healthy, look good, and even fukk better. Stack your chips because you want to have a comfortable life when you get older. DO ALL OF THAT FOR YOU. That's it. That's the secret to getting women and fulfilling your potential.
Keeping women is another thing, and we all know how fickle they can be. But for the brehs feeling bad about themselves because women are flaking or just not showing up, just sort your gifts out and work on your life so you are an accomplished person who is social, strong, and confident with some bread. The women will fall into place. Enjoy life. You don't have to be great at everything either, alright? Just do something with yourself.
. I'll never forget a date I went on back in 2012 when I told this chick I don't have any other dates lined up and I could just see her attraction for me instantly drain from her face and shyt went quiet after that. I never heard from her again lol. Now chicks know what time it is and it makes them step their game up. Even when I was away, one of the broads I fukked was like *broken english* "I bet you have plenty of pretty Jamaican girl"....I was like, "you damn right, mamacita" lol. 
Not even sure why I was tripping over her boring frumpy ass lol. I think my ego got in the way because I never had a woman block me outside of a volatile ex. Anyway I think God was testing me to see how I would react and I passed the test. Sometimes you just have to live your life and enjoy what you have. My girl has been amazing to me so I'm not interested in outside forces ruining that.Boom! One more time for those in the cheap seats who still haven't got the memo in 2019:
Dudes who keep messaging/calling chicks or treating them like they're delicate flowers that need to be handled carefully need to hear this.
Notice what she said about how women feel about men with options. At one time when I wasn't getting broads like that, I used to admit to a chick I wasn't dating anyone else
I've listened to some of her videos, so I know this isn't a bunch of mindless bird babble either. Y'all know how much I hate that "nice guy" phrase, so if a broad refers to you as one it's already a wrap.
