Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

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Never text them all day. That’s a good way for them to get bored or you to say some shyt to fukk up your chances.


You always end the conversation. I like to ask her a deep question and soon as she types out a long azz paragraph I comment on her text and let her know that I have something to do and....


Set up a date to see her in person. This lets you know where her head is with you. If she feeling you, she’s gonna be down to link up. If she says she can’t and doesn’t offer another date or comes up with a BS excuse, she playing games and you leave her alone.


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Don’t be no thirsty nikka either. You can be flirty in your texts but don’t shower her with compliments/validation. That’s gonna make her feel like she’s doing you a favor by dealing with you.

Not true.

A lot of these questions that are asked can be given advice but every chick is different,some don’t wanna text all day and some love it if the conversation is good.
 

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Try actually ringing her. Woman are shocked when you do. As so many people just text all the time. I was texting a chick last Thursday after 5 mins of texting I just rang her to speak to her. I've done it before and the women were taken aback and were even more open to seeing me.

Plus with actual voice you can at least properly gauge if she's feeling you.
 

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Not true.

A lot of these questions that are asked can be given advice but every chick is different,some don’t wanna text all day and some love it if the conversation is good.

Of course nothing is absolute, but this approach has worked well for me. The problem is most nikkas conversation isn’t that great thru text and they get stuck in that “what you doing” “how was your day” boring shyt and before you know it, she sending one word texts and not texting back at all.

A woman will definitely let you know if she wants to talk to you more which then I will give her a lil more of my time if I feel like it, but I still stick to the script mostly.
 

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Try actually ringing her. Woman are shocked when you do. As so many people just text all the time. I was texting a chick last Thursday after 5 mins of texting I just rang her to speak to her. I've done it before and the women were taken aback and were even more open to seeing me.

Plus with actual voice you can at least properly gauge if she's feeling you.


Would you recommend that with chicks you barely talking to from online?

I just find it weird to call out of nowhere when you don’t even know her and only texted for like 6 messages.
 

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I HATE texting in general if it's not to relay some quick info or something like that. People (especially females) play way too many games with it. People not responding in a reasonable amount of time and making up excuses as to why and then you feel like you gotta respond in an untimely manner to make it even and it all just devolves into one big game. Phone calls are much better but they're becoming more and more rare.
 

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Would you recommend that with chicks you barely talking to from online?

I just find it weird to call out of nowhere when you don’t even know her and only texted for like 6 messages.


Well, if you call her, it shows assertiveness. And that's always a turn on to the broads. You dont have to be a Barry White sounding ass nikka. But that there shows that you ain't about all of that texting and shoo shooing bullishyt. It looks like you're an alpha and a leader. You ain't scared to make decisions.

"More is lost by indecision, than bad decision.
 

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Never text them all day. That’s a good way for them to get bored or you to say some shyt to fukk up your chances.


You always end the conversation. I like to ask her a deep question and soon as she types out a long azz paragraph I comment on her text and let her know that I have something to do and....


Set up a date to see her in person. This lets you know where her head is with you. If she feeling you, she’s gonna be down to link up. If she says she can’t and doesn’t offer another date or comes up with a BS excuse, she playing games and you leave her alone.


Edit:

Don’t be no thirsty nikka either. You can be flirty in your texts but don’t shower her with compliments/validation. That’s gonna make her feel like she’s doing you a favor by dealing with you.
On some real shyt....I don't think I've ever complimented or gave a chick validation via text:patrice:

Not even some HOH shyt, It just doesn't come up casually so I don't force that shyt. If they send me a pic I'll say something:manny:

But just random compliments...nah.

And my text game is elite.
 

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Well, if you call her, it shows assertiveness. And that's always a turn on to the broads. You dont have to be a Barry White sounding ass nikka. But that there shows that you ain't about all of that texting and shoo shooing bullishyt. It looks like you're an alpha and a leader. You ain't scared to make decisions.

"More is lost by indecision, than bad decision.


Damn that whole post was piff

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I got this coy ass bytch I'm dealing with right now and I don't wanna call her ass, only talked to her for a couple days, but it's time to set this shyt up.
 
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