Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

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hinge is pretty dope. Sitting on 50 matches/convo's right now. Some unmatched cuz i never followed up or convo dried up. Becomes overwhelming after a certain point and you just can't be bothered anymore. :manny:

Guarantee me and @FireDwaneCasey are talking to some of the same hoes. :lolbron:


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My hinge is actually in London preparing for my trip. Going to see if I can beat my Lagos record of like 30 women in ten days :smugfavre:
Keep them tdot chicks warm for me :heh:

But yeah hinge is so much better to me especially when you get there preferred option
 

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I don’t know how y’all juggle multiple women I’m so busy at work I got a backlog of chicks from hinge who are trying to meetup :francis:

Depends on your intentions and mindset tbh. I gave myself a new years resolution (:heh:) that i'd fukk at least one new chick a month unless i run into a chick that has them strong wifey traits. So far i fukked 1 in January, 4 in February, and 2 in March. One was a spanish chick i met at a sports bar and fukked a week later after i was done personal training her (no lie, her bf called after and asked how the training session went), another was a stripper, another was a white girl from toronto visiting her friend for a couple weeks, and the rest varied. But point is, i'm very stick and move, so i don't really juggle. But i don't consider them wifey, so it's whatever if they're down or not.

Now mind you, for example, there's a chick in Miami (recently moved) that wouldn't let me hit unless i gal her and only reason i ain't ever gal her was because she's a bit too crazy religious for me, but otherwise she showed many wifey traits (but some problematic ones) and got a body like bria myles (small t*ts, big ass, dark skin, pretty face). Back when we were talking, no way could i "juggle" more than maybe one other ("quality") like her bc it took too much time and mental energy; not in a bad way but in a 'yall got each other's attention' way.
 

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Depends on your intentions and mindset tbh. I gave myself a new years resolution (:heh:) that i'd fukk at least one new chick a month unless i run into a chick that has them strong wifey traits. So far i fukked 1 in January, 4 in February, and 2 in March. One was a spanish chick i met at a sports bar and fukked a week later after i was done personal training her (no lie, her bf called after and asked how the training session went), another was a stripper, another was a white girl from toronto visiting her friend for a couple weeks, and the rest varied. But point is, i'm very stick and move, so i don't really juggle. But i don't consider them wifey, so it's whatever if they're down or not.

Now mind you, for example, there's a chick in Miami (recently moved) that wouldn't let me hit unless i gal her and only reason i ain't ever gal her was because she's a bit too crazy religious for me, but otherwise she showed many wifey traits (but some problematic ones) and got a body like bria myles (small t*ts, big ass, dark skin, pretty face). Back when we were talking, no way could i "juggle" more than maybe one other ("quality") like her bc it took too much time and mental energy; not in a bad way but in a 'yall got each other's attention' way.
Yeah but I’m working over 60 hours a week nowadays I can’t keep going back and forth with a bunch of chicks:francis:
 

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Yeah but I’m working over 60 hours a week nowadays I can’t keep going back and forth with a bunch of chicks:francis:

Damn. Yea i work 40 hours M-F, so Fri and Sat nights are my fukkery time and Sunday is my me-time. I pretty much reserve Saturday day-time and all Sunday to work on myself, run errands, or just sleep lol.

It'd be a whole different animal mentally if i was still racking up hours through the weekend, or working 10+ hour days M-F
 

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Damn. Yea i work 40 hours M-F, so Fri and Sat nights are my fukkery time and Sunday is my me-time. I pretty much reserve Saturday day-time and all Sunday to work on myself, run errands, or just sleep lol.

It'd be a whole different animal mentally if i was still racking up hours through the weekend, or working 10+ hour days M-F
thats my problem I work week ends as well, Ive been working since sunday im not off until saturday
 

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but I love my job :yeshrug:

This is good, and ultimately most important. And doubly so if you're a young breh (20s and, imo, even 30s). Get the paper, work on your wealth, and it'll pay off long term. But still give yourself time to enjoy life of course, especially if you plan on remaining at that job indefinitely.
 

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thats my problem I work week ends as well, Ive been working since sunday im not off until saturday

You already got a chick you talking to? If not or if she ain't quality then you might just have to go all in on the tinder/dating app craze and see if you can't match/message your way into a meetup for drinks on a Saturday night

edit - or Friday night
 

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This is good, and ultimately most important. And doubly so if you're a young breh (20s and, imo, even 30s). Get the paper, work on your wealth, and it'll pay off long term. But still give yourself time to enjoy life of course, especially if you plan on remaining at that job indefinitely.
I am that's part of the reason I started to date again, I feel like Im finnaly in a good space in my life and trying online dating for the first time I find that I'm meeting a lot of dope woman I would've never ran across in real life
 

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I don't think anything is gonna come from using Tinder while in Cali for a week.
 

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You already got a chick you talking to? If not or if she ain't quality then you might just have to go all in on the tinder/dating app craze and see if you can't match/message your way into a meetup for drinks on a Saturday night

edit - or Friday night
Im talking to 2 chicks right now, I might drop one to make place for a new one, hinge got me feeling like a bad bytch :wow:
 

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There's always a cost related to a woman with desirable traits

its a balancing act. Im glad my girl doesnt use social media and has life goals beyond me, but some of the stuff I gotta put up with ...


What she putting you through??
 
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