Max B. my last girlfriend was my polar opposite. I try and ride bikes play tennis etc - she knitted. I read mostly nonfiction and she only read Harry Potter or anything her teenage daughter might like. I am allergic to dogs, she had a dog. I like going outside and going places, she was a homebody. I am usually "nah bruh" to people selling shyt and wasting my time, she practically gives the dude a chair and used to talk to salesmen/women for 15-20 minutes.
The funny thing is we were separating right when she started to get her shyt straight. (not saying my shyt is straight - because it definitely isn't ). She started working out (Pilates), lost weight, and when she realized that her daughter was going to be going away to college in 6 months started blowing me off to literally stay around the house while her daughter stayed upstairs chatting with her friends - waiting for her daughter to request food etc.
I eventually ended it and when I told her she looked like someone who had just completed a mandatory military service term she was so relieved.
Looking back it was clear we were together because we had nothing else going on in our lives at the time.
I have moved on and since we have no friends in common and I never did social media - never heard from her again.
