Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

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I went out with this baddddd Israeli broad the other day. Ive realized the reason I usually cant build attraction quick on dates is I be drinking. And when I drink I turn into a sassy ass queen :dame: literally fukking Prince. Funny thing is all my people know this yet never spoke on it :mjlol:

Anyway I meet up with her at likr midnight at a bar, shes chilling on a couch with her friends and has her purse next to her Im like move that I cant here you so I can get close to her. And from that point a nikka was on his A game :wow: All I did was sip a diet coke but my sober self was so laser focused on seduction it was night and day how it usually be when I go out. Some drunk nikka approqched us like can I buy your girl a drink Im like she got her own mind and mouth, for me Im good tho. I probs could have got jelly sauced up but I really didnt care. If she left for a drink then I hsd no shot anyway. So she get some free shyt, come right back to me.

So the whole night Ive been escalating the touch and eventually she goes youve been touching me a lot tonight, and gives me that come fukk me look and bites her lips and we made out right there. A lil later Im like lets jet and we leave Im dapping up random nikkas that came and gave me love during the night. shyt was dope. We get to my whip and Im about to drop her off and ahe jumps on me, grabbing my dikk, everything. And we fukk around for like five .inutes and shes like I definitely need to see you again.

I wait like 4 days to hit her and im like when you free. She goes I maybe have time this weekend. Would not accept it. So I go well we both busy so kets just plan to do it some other time. She goes yeah, and Im like oh she on bs. Then she says only time she gets off early enough is sunday (bartender) and we made plans for that. Seemed like a shyt test. Anyway Imma see what it do but it feels good to know when Im on point I can still pull baddies. Yall think Im handling this shyt proper so far?
 

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I just copped Alpha Male's Strategies book. Recommended. Its very simple and practical, no difficult theories to memorize.

On the first few pages, he says seductive charm has to do having a laid-back demeanor. Talking slower, moving slower, etc. Being extra is a turn off.

On humor, there's a difference between being corny and funny. Having a sense of humor is cool but validating shows desperation.

I'm naturally a quiet mysterious dude, so I use this trait as a benefit. I work with chicks but I say less to give them an imagination.

You need to read a book to tell you this? Quiet guys are often seen as stupid and possibly not interesting, be careful with that.



Am I wrong for ghosting on a chick after seeing the type of guys she has fukked?...

Her baby daddy is ugly asf. nikka got dreads and look like a dark skinny version Dave Chappelle.

The last two nikkas she had sex with and sucked up were 40 year old uncle looking dudes with big stomachs and kids damn near her age. She's 23.

I legit felt like something was wrong with me for her even being attracted to me after seeing that.

Can anyone relate?
No you are not. You already failed by giving attention to a 23 year old baby mama.
Step your game up.
 

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Some drunk nikka approqched us like can I buy your girl a drink Im like she got her own mind and mouth, for me Im good tho. I probs could have got jelly sauced up but I really didnt care. If she left for a drink then I hsd no shot anyway. So she get some free shyt, come right back to me.
disrespectful as fukk smh, she shouldn’t have even paid that shyt any attention

This is a big red flag breh :ufdup:
 

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disrespectful as fukk smh, she shouldn’t have even paid that shyt any attention

This is a big red flag breh :ufdup:

You probs right but she asked me if its cool first, I didnt care tbh since I wasnt buying her shyt. Tbh juries out on if she cuffable but shes bad as shyt so def good for the stroke at the least
 

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That's it. Not going out until New year's and any bytch I been talking to(except my main) is getting bushed. I don't have time for distractions. A breh made over 25k in the last two and a half months and I need to be even more focused. I want 125k next year minimum.
 

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That's it. Not going out until New year's and any bytch I been talking to(except my main) is getting bushed. I don't have time for distractions. A breh made over 25k in the last two and a half months and I need to be even more focused. I want 125k next year minimum.
How? :dwillhuh:
 

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Yeah, i'm definitely trying to get myself right though and stop wasting so much time on bytches and the energy that goes into bytches.

Starting to focus more on putting the right inputs into my system, update my youtube subscriptions, read more, etc.

Not to toot my own horn but it's no way I shouldn't be pulling in at least 10k a month. Need to get my income streams up.
 

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Sales :blessed:

When you work for 100% commission you got no choice but to hustle :manny: and how much you make is based on how much you put in. Seen a lot of people fizzle out and go back to 9 to 5. And there's nothing wrong with that

If I was busting my ass like this all year I'd have easily cleared 125k. Not bad at 26. Next year gonna be :ohlawd:

Should end the year having earned 40k from August to December alone.
 

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Sales :blessed:

When you work for 100% commission you got no choice but to hustle :manny: and how much you make is based on how much you put in. Seen a lot of people fizzle out and go back to 9 to 5. And there's nothing wrong with that

If I was busting my ass like this all year I'd have easily cleared 125k. Not bad at 26. Next year gonna be :ohlawd:

Should end the year having earned 40k from August to December alone.
Yeahhhh, I ain't about that sales life lol

Unless its like an ecommerce type setup. I used to do reaaaaal well on Amazon when I was like 20-21. Need to get back on my shyt.
 

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Sales :blessed:

When you work for 100% commission you got no choice but to hustle :manny: and how much you make is based on how much you put in. Seen a lot of people fizzle out and go back to 9 to 5. And there's nothing wrong with that

If I was busting my ass like this all year I'd have easily cleared 125k. Not bad at 26. Next year gonna be :ohlawd:

Should end the year having earned 40k from August to December alone.
Cats sleep on sales. Creating your own income with no limits is true freedom :wow:
 

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Yeahhhh, I ain't about that sales life lol

Unless its like an ecommerce type setup. I used to do reaaaaal well on Amazon when I was like 20-21. Need to get back on my shyt.
shyt if you don't want to do face to face, eCommerce is where it's at man. You can clear 10K a month online. Plenty of people are doing it already.
 

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I went out with this baddddd Israeli broad the other day. Ive realized the reason I usually cant build attraction quick on dates is I be drinking. And when I drink I turn into a sassy ass queen :dame: literally fukking Prince. Funny thing is all my people know this yet never spoke on it :mjlol:

Anyway I meet up with her at likr midnight at a bar, shes chilling on a couch with her friends and has her purse next to her Im like move that I cant here you so I can get close to her. And from that point a nikka was on his A game :wow: All I did was sip a diet coke but my sober self was so laser focused on seduction it was night and day how it usually be when I go out. Some drunk nikka approqched us like can I buy your girl a drink Im like she got her own mind and mouth, for me Im good tho. I probs could have got jelly sauced up but I really didnt care. If she left for a drink then I hsd no shot anyway. So she get some free shyt, come right back to me.

So the whole night Ive been escalating the touch and eventually she goes youve been touching me a lot tonight, and gives me that come fukk me look and bites her lips and we made out right there. A lil later Im like lets jet and we leave Im dapping up random nikkas that came and gave me love during the night. shyt was dope. We get to my whip and Im about to drop her off and ahe jumps on me, grabbing my dikk, everything. And we fukk around for like five .inutes and shes like I definitely need to see you again.

I wait like 4 days to hit her and im like when you free. She goes I maybe have time this weekend. Would not accept it. So I go well we both busy so kets just plan to do it some other time. She goes yeah, and Im like oh she on bs. Then she says only time she gets off early enough is sunday (bartender) and we made plans for that. Seemed like a shyt test. Anyway Imma see what it do but it feels good to know when Im on point I can still pull baddies. Yall think Im handling this shyt proper so far?

nah u good, she gave you a specific time instead of going "i'll let you know"
 

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nah u good, she gave you a specific time instead of going "i'll let you know"
Thats what I feel like. She probs used to nikkas just accepting any time they can get with her but I aint for the games in this period in my life. People will make time for who they really want to see
 
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