Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

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What changed? What was your turning point

My bank account was getting drained
I was unhappy
I wasn't being understood in my gripes about the situation..

I tried to end it repsectfuly, but she basically in her own way told me to go fukk myself:heh:

Reached the boiling point...

Paid 5 stacks(had to use IRA account)to break the lease and regain my freedom...

Just woke up and said fukk it:birdman:

Thank goodness she didn't come to my main spot to create drama...

It was my fault for getting involved..she had red flags at every turn and I ignored them..:snoop:...it was my first relationship and I was doing what I thought the man was supposed to do..

Basically I had to grind to put that 5 stacks back plus keep my daily life going...

Thank the good lord no kids came outta this:whew:

Took alot outta me...and I still can get bitter if my mind becomes idle

When you don't have a father figure, you learn shyt like this thru trial and error...

Lot of these kids coming up dont got a father..

Lot of these older heads are clueless about modern dating...

It was a valuable learning experience for me....
 

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My bank account was getting drained
I was unhappy
I wasn't being understood in my gripes about the situation..

I tried to end it repsectfuly, but she basically in her own way told me to go fukk myself:heh:

Reached the boiling point...

Paid 5 stacks(had to use IRA account)to break the lease and regain my freedom...

Just woke up and said fukk it:birdman:

Thank goodness she didn't come to my main spot to create drama...

It was my fault for getting involved..she had red flags at every turn and I ignored them..:snoop:...it was my first relationship and I was doing what I thought the man was supposed to do..

Basically I had to grind to put that 5 stacks back plus keep my daily life going...

Thank the good lord no kids came outta this:whew:

Took alot outta me...and I still can get bitter if my mind becomes idle

When you don't have a father figure, you learn shyt like this thru trial and error...

Lot of these kids coming up dont got a father..

Lot of these older heads are clueless about modern dating...

It was a valuable learning experience for me....
A monumental L goddamn
 

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Yo im telling you brehs..

A piece of mind is priceless! Im chillin at the crib this weekend on a beautiful saturday with no broads to entertain (for now) Watching the Knicks game. It feels good to have your stuff together with no responsibilities for the day and some time to reflect , show gratitude and love life. :blessed:


Enjoy. and Never take shyt from a bytch there are wayyyyyyy too many options to fret on one. Pull Back from time to time. Give them some space to miss you. If they leave fukk em on to the next one.:mjlol:
 

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Thats 5,000 dollar tuition of learning a bytch and a Valuable life lesson. nikkas can make 5 racks in 5 weeks.. @360dagod That 5k lesson was definitely worth it. You basically came out unscathed while advancing your mindset and knowledge. You should thank that bytch. It could have been worse. You could have signed that 18 year contract.


That monumental L of yours is a Lesson.:sas2:
 
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My bank account was getting drained
I was unhappy
I wasn't being understood in my gripes about the situation..

I tried to end it repsectfuly, but she basically in her own way told me to go fukk myself:heh:

Reached the boiling point...

Paid 5 stacks(had to use IRA account)to break the lease and regain my freedom...

Just woke up and said fukk it:birdman:

Thank goodness she didn't come to my main spot to create drama...

It was my fault for getting involved..she had red flags at every turn and I ignored them..:snoop:...it was my first relationship and I was doing what I thought the man was supposed to do..

Basically I had to grind to put that 5 stacks back plus keep my daily life going...

Thank the good lord no kids came outta this:whew:

Took alot outta me...and I still can get bitter if my mind becomes idle

When you don't have a father figure, you learn shyt like this thru trial and error...

Lot of these kids coming up dont got a father..

Lot of these older heads are clueless about modern dating...

It was a valuable learning experience for me....
Sounds like my current situation breh:mjcry:



I'm at wits end with my significant other. shyt just ain't the same no more. We been rocking for 2 years and it seem like we should just end shyt. Ever since she quit her good paying job I been having to hold the household down. She goes to school but school isn't paying these bills.




I see why women get fed up when they dudes be home all day not doing shyt. She had me take out some fish the other day so I'm at work thinking I'ma tear some fish up when I get off at 11. I get home and she is just starting to open the fish:martin:.




I work M-F with weekends off and she expects me to cook and clean like bytch are you dumb:why:. This my first real relationship so I never really been thru a legit break up but I been stressed out lately with this shyt.
 

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Sounds like my current situation breh:mjcry:



I'm at wits end with my significant other. shyt just ain't the same no more. We been rocking for 2 years and it seem like we should just end shyt. Ever since she quit her good paying job I been having to hold the household down. She goes to school but school isn't paying these bills.




I see why women get fed up when they dudes be home all day not doing shyt. She had me take out some fish the other day so I'm at work thinking I'ma tear some fish up when I get off at 11. I get home and she is just starting to open the fish:martin:.




I work M-F with weekends off and she expects me to cook and clean like bytch are you dumb:why:. This my first real relationship so I never really been thru a legit break up but I been stressed out lately with this shyt.



Real talk, you need to leave that situation cause it's not going to get any better. Please trust me on this. I've been through the same shyt. You deserve better and you don't need the stress. For one, she doesn't respect you as a man - how the fukk she expect you to cook and clean when you providing the life essentials? If she really loved you or at least respect you, she would be doing the house hold duties. No disrespect, but she may even be getting some side dikk while you at work to be honest.

But bottom line - you need to leave that situation. Don't drag out because yall been together for two years. If you don't have kids, thats even easier. Do yourself a favor breh and cut ties immediately.
 

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Sounds like my current situation breh:mjcry:



I'm at wits end with my significant other. shyt just ain't the same no more. We been rocking for 2 years and it seem like we should just end shyt. Ever since she quit her good paying job I been having to hold the household down. She goes to school but school isn't paying these bills.




I see why women get fed up when they dudes be home all day not doing shyt. She had me take out some fish the other day so I'm at work thinking I'ma tear some fish up when I get off at 11. I get home and she is just starting to open the fish:martin:.




I work M-F with weekends off and she expects me to cook and clean like bytch are you dumb:why:. This my first real relationship so I never really been thru a legit break up but I been stressed out lately with this shyt.

Being that she lives there, she has rights...if she gets mail there, you can't just kick her out

It's crazy that she decides this while living with you

Dont know the lease situation, but you gotta play this wise..

You need to leave that situation but you gotta do so within proper respect to the law...

Dont let her push you to get physical
Keep your intent to yourself
Start stacking your bread

Simply tell her you not feeling the situation and she need to get a job..

She resists,start preparing..

Save every text message involving you telling her about getting the fukk out

I simply stopped paying the rent..I just paid everything off after I broke the lease..

But I was at my main spot..

Be careful and good luck:salute:
 

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Just broke up with a chick I wasn't dating or fukking :mjgrin:

Women are stressful she caught a playa slippin :wow:

I at least should have kept my composure long enough to fukk her one good time. She averages 300-400 likes on Instagram and has less than 1000 followers :mjcry:
 

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Just broke up with a chick I wasn't dating or fukking :mjgrin:

Women are stressful she caught a playa slippin :wow:

I at least should have kept my composure long enough to fukk her one good time. She averages 300-400 likes on Instagram and has less than 1000 followers :mjcry:
Should have cut it off in the beginning. I have no room to talk though. I kept girls around hopping to smash so many times.

But that saying of she knows she will fukk you within the first few seconds is so true, unless you have some personality/game that changes it.
I've fukked girls the first night I met them, so when I actually think about it, I should have some gutt feeling if a girl is interested.

I mean we all should know but we don't follow our instincts.
 
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