One white broad wanted me to spray my cologne on her and wear my draws when she leftEx still got my under armour sweatpants
Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women
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Rev Leon Lonnie Love
damned mine eyes, DAMNED mine eyes!!
If she is giving you an ultimatum while making you feel unappreciated because she's superficial, leave her ass alone.
I just did that to my ex of 6 years. I get that she was growing impatient with us not being married or even living together, but for 1 she got 2 kids(20,16) and so do i (17,10). There's no room for me to move in with her at her place. 2. I got financial baggage like child support and debt do to my own dealings that i am trying to fix, me bringing that into a household would take away from the household; especially if she's not helping me and i wouldn't let her if she asked anyway. While at the same time trying to build myself up to get a web developer job or something better than what i'm doing for a living. Why i cut her off was because she gave me an ultimatum in the form of a text message that read "Just thinking i'm not going another Christmas with no ring and pretending to be happy with some mediocre giftOne of the quickest ways to get cutoff is to throw shade at me and/or give "emotional hints" on social media vs just telling me
I don't play that
Someone's about to find that out
"My reaction reading that was...
Mind you i was just sitting next to her on the couch the day before
, so if she felt that way she had all the time in the world to say it to me face to face. 
I told her "oh ok peace, i'm good
" Threw the whole 6 years relationship away and little did she know i was planning on purposing to her for Christmas or New Year Eve. This was the 2nd time i broke up with her, because of her being on some superficial shyt again and there will not be a 3rd time.
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Lord Bison
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I just did that to my ex of 6 years. I get that she was growing impatient with us not being married or even living together, but for 1 she got 2 kids(20,16) and so do i (17,10). There's no room for me to move in with her at her place. 2. I got financial baggage like child support and debt do to my own dealings that i am trying to fix, me bringing that into a household would take away from the household; especially if she's not helping me and i wouldn't let her if she asked anyway. While at the same time trying to build myself up to get a web developer job or something better than what i'm doing for a living. Why i cut her off was because she gave me an ultimatum in the form of a text message that read "Just thinking i'm not going another Christmas with no ring and pretending to be happy with some mediocre gift
My reaction reading that was...
Mind you i was just sitting next to her on the coach the day before
I told her "oh ok peace, i'm good
Idk if the chick you dealing with is black but Ive run into that every single time I deal with a sista.
I call it "bully dating". When they try to corner you into commitment with all kinds of attitude mixed with passive aggresiveness. Its almost a form of brainwashing where if you fall for it, you end up spending the rest of the relationship trying to prove to her that you "love" her.
I cant speak for other races, but Im starting to feel the tension that black women are getting from not being wifed up. Its like women get together with their girls and gameplan on how they can strong arm their nikka into putting a ring on it by any means neccessary.
Dont let these simps fool you, women are just as thirsty for commitment as they are for vagina. You did the right thing by sending her to the bushes.
Dont give her no third chance tho
Yea she black, that's the only woman i mainly deal withIdk if the chick you dealing with is black but Ive run into that every single time I deal with a sista.
I call it "bully dating". When they try to corner you into commitment with all kinds of attitude mixed with passive aggresiveness. Its almost a form of brainwashing where if you fall for it, you end up spending the rest of the relationship trying to prove to her that you "love" her.
I cant speak for other races, but Im starting to feel the tension that black women are getting from not being wifed up. Its like women get together with their girls and gameplan on how they can strong arm their nikka into putting a ring on it by any means neccessary.
Dont let these simps fool you, women are just as thirsty for commitment as they are for vagina. You did the right thing by sending her to the bushes.
Dont give her no third chance tho
and every now and then a spanish broad. Bruh i had that talk with her before and said she was fine with it, so wtf was the problem, trust there will not be a third time, even scrubbed her from all social media and got rid of all the pictures
.As i got older i started paying more attention to those red flags and patterns, and will walk away with quickness; especially if the respect is gone and feel unappreciated!
These the types of women that will turn around and say there's no good black men, but will never say anything about them pushing that good black man away.
Not only did she fukked up, but then a few days later I got called for 2 jobs that gonna get me right, which would've lead to getting us right, oh well her loss
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You’re being unreasonably harsh.I just did that to my ex of 6 years. I get that she was growing impatient with us not being married or even living together, but for 1 she got 2 kids(20,16) and so do i (17,10). There's no room for me to move in with her at her place. 2. I got financial baggage like child support and debt do to my own dealings that i am trying to fix, me bringing that into a household would take away from the household; especially if she's not helping me and i wouldn't let her if she asked anyway. While at the same time trying to build myself up to get a web developer job or something better than what i'm doing for a living. Why i cut her off was because she gave me an ultimatum in the form of a text message that read "Just thinking i'm not going another Christmas with no ring and pretending to be happy with some mediocre gift
My reaction reading that was...
Mind you i was just sitting next to her on the couch the day before
I told her "oh ok peace, i'm good
Did you not see the bottom part where i said this is the 2nd time she was on some superficial shyt
i should've dead it after the 1st time to be honest.
I been kickin it with this 31 year old singer that sells drugs for a living after she invited me to this weed infusion swap meet I knew I was just trying to get artist head and dip. Deleted her number she was on some weird shyt.
My last girl was physically and spiritually everything I wanted but was a hardcore feminist and wanted my future son to grow up a fakkit like her cousin.
At 28 I gotta stop fukking round with these fake ass atlanta hoes.
after she invited me to this weed infusion swap meet I knew I was just trying to get artist head and dip. Deleted her number she was on some weird shyt.My last girl was physically and spiritually everything I wanted but was a hardcore feminist and wanted my future son to grow up a fakkit like her cousin.
At 28 I gotta stop fukking round with these fake ass atlanta hoes.
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Ask her again the Wednesday, before that Friday. if she wanna link up then it's on her.
Atleast that way you're giving her and yourself the option to hookup or not. If she says she's busy or she'll let you know, take it as a no until further notice and just do you.
Yea asked again even if it's she's busy the following week, if she says she still busy let it be and do you. If she got your number she'll call, if not then fukk it. No need to sweat her,when more women out there.
Then do you and if she has your number she'll hit you up if she want together. If not then fukk it no need to sweat her when there's more women out there