One white broad wanted me to spray my cologne on her and wear my draws when she leftEx still got my under armour sweatpants![]()

One white broad wanted me to spray my cologne on her and wear my draws when she leftEx still got my under armour sweatpants![]()
I just did that to my ex of 6 years. I get that she was growing impatient with us not being married or even living together, but for 1 she got 2 kids(20,16) and so do i (17,10). There's no room for me to move in with her at her place. 2. I got financial baggage like child support and debt do to my own dealings that i am trying to fix, me bringing that into a household would take away from the household; especially if she's not helping me and i wouldn't let her if she asked anyway. While at the same time trying to build myself up to get a web developer job or something better than what i'm doing for a living. Why i cut her off was because she gave me an ultimatum in the form of a text message that read "Just thinking i'm not going another Christmas with no ring and pretending to be happy with some mediocre giftOne of the quickest ways to get cutoff is to throw shade at me and/or give "emotional hints" on social media vs just telling me
I don't play that
Someone's about to find that out![]()
I just did that to my ex of 6 years. I get that she was growing impatient with us not being married or even living together, but for 1 she got 2 kids(20,16) and so do i (17,10). There's no room for me to move in with her at her place. 2. I got financial baggage like child support and debt do to my own dealings that i am trying to fix, me bringing that into a household would take away from the household; especially if she's not helping me and i wouldn't let her if she asked anyway. While at the same time trying to build myself up to get a web developer job or something better than what i'm doing for a living. Why i cut her off was because she gave me an ultimatum in the form of a text message that read "Just thinking i'm not going another Christmas with no ring and pretending to be happy with some mediocre gift"
My reaction reading that was...
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Mind you i was just sitting next to her on the coach the day before, so if she felt that way she had all the time in the world to say it to me face to face.
I told her "oh ok peace, i'm good" Threw the whole 6 years relationship away and little did she know i was planning on purposing to her for Christmas or New Year Eve. This was the 2nd time i broke up with her, because of her being on some superficial shyt again and there will not be a
Yea she black, that's the only woman i mainly deal withIdk if the chick you dealing with is black but Ive run into that every single time I deal with a sista.
I call it "bully dating". When they try to corner you into commitment with all kinds of attitude mixed with passive aggresiveness. Its almost a form of brainwashing where if you fall for it, you end up spending the rest of the relationship trying to prove to her that you "love" her.
I cant speak for other races, but Im starting to feel the tension that black women are getting from not being wifed up. Its like women get together with their girls and gameplan on how they can strong arm their nikka into putting a ring on it by any means neccessary.
Dont let these simps fool you, women are just as thirsty for commitment as they are for vagina. You did the right thing by sending her to the bushes.
Dont give her no third chance tho![]()
You’re being unreasonably harsh.I just did that to my ex of 6 years. I get that she was growing impatient with us not being married or even living together, but for 1 she got 2 kids(20,16) and so do i (17,10). There's no room for me to move in with her at her place. 2. I got financial baggage like child support and debt do to my own dealings that i am trying to fix, me bringing that into a household would take away from the household; especially if she's not helping me and i wouldn't let her if she asked anyway. While at the same time trying to build myself up to get a web developer job or something better than what i'm doing for a living. Why i cut her off was because she gave me an ultimatum in the form of a text message that read "Just thinking i'm not going another Christmas with no ring and pretending to be happy with some mediocre gift"
My reaction reading that was...
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Mind you i was just sitting next to her on the couch the day before, so if she felt that way she had all the time in the world to say it to me face to face.
I told her "oh ok peace, i'm good" Threw the whole 6 years relationship away and little did she know i was planning on purposing to her for Christmas or New Year Eve. This was the 2nd time i broke up with her, because of her being on some superficial shyt again and there will not be a 3rd time.
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You’re being unreasonably harsh.
Ask her again the Wednesday, before that Friday. if she wanna link up then it's on her.If I'm asking a girl "Hey you doing anything Friday night? Let's link", but if she's busy or her schedule's too wild, how should I proceed/respond?
I think if I wait another week and ask the same thing again that would come off as thirsty/desperate, same if I ask on the spot "Alright what about next Friday" as if I don't got stuff to do either
Yea asked again even if it's she's busy the following week, if she says she still busy let it be and do you. If she got your number she'll call, if not then fukk it. No need to sweat her,when more women out there.You mean if she said she's busy the first time, I should ask again the Wednesday? But if what she actually has a planned/prior engagement of some kind?
Then do you and if she has your number she'll hit you up if she want together. If not then fukk it no need to sweat her when there's more women out thereBut what if I'm asking her and she actually has a prior/planned engagement?