Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

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Breh your mentality is all wrong right now.

You thinking how to not fukk this up and come off as thirsty will result in you putting on a circus act and coming off as hella clownish

You need to go into the situation trying to see what the vibe is like and are you feeling them and is the feeling mutual

This is called the Game of Life for a reason and it’s all about your mentality

“We are the masters and and architects of that movie screen running across our mind so only write outstanding dynamic scripts”

-Iceberg Slim


That's a gem right there
 

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Worked with this chick and I thought we was close. Talked all the time at work. Anyway, she quit the job in June. I thought we could continue to be homies. I asked her FT a couple of months ago and she said "Maybe this w-end". Never happened. I would text her and she would return it sometimes. Sometimes she wouldn't. Eventually, I just realized we was just work friends and wouldn't continue on. But this month things change. She would initiate texting me. Kept in contact almost everyday. Last week she said how she missed debating with me (we would debate 3 to 4 hours straight). Which surprised me. Then today she said we should go out to lunch or dinner. She said she was busy this week but said we could next week. Not sure how I should interpret it though. Could it be she finally she actually missed kicking it (I told her I missed her too)? Can't front, part of me wanted to be petty because any time I would suggest we go out to eat she would spin me.
 

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You eliminate alot of non sense by getting to the point. You can have chicks that would text you back and forth within minutes but soon as you put out there the idea of linking up, All of a sudden those replies are slower or dissapear. You weaver alot of BS easily by getting to the point. Nikkas would spend weeks just texting with no end game
Thats why ppl always say to keep texts short and get to the point with making a plan
 

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Worked with this chick and I thought we was close. Talked all the time at work. Anyway, she quit the job in June. I thought we could continue to be homies. I asked her FT a couple of months ago and she said "Maybe this w-end". Never happened. I would text her and she would return it sometimes. Sometimes she wouldn't. Eventually, I just realized we was just work friends and wouldn't continue on. But this month things change. She would initiate texting me. Kept in contact almost everyday. Last week she said how she missed debating with me (we would debate 3 to 4 hours straight). Which surprised me. Then today she said we should go out to lunch or dinner. She said she was busy this week but said we could next week. Not sure how I should interpret it though. Could it be she finally she actually missed kicking it (I told her I missed her too)? Can't front, part of me wanted to be petty because any time I would suggest we go out to eat she would spin me.
Probably had a nikka, get up now and try to hit. Don't spend too much til after you smash though.
 

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Man, I went on date with this chick with a bubble. Ended the date by making out with her while firmly gripping and caressing her rotund cheeks.

I understand it's the harsh reality that many brehs have to deal with the sistas with minimal or no bunz, but I just don't know how they do it.

If sex is like a drug, a big butt makes it heroin.
 

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I've been off dating sites, apps for like a month, stopped talking to most women and I feel great.

Id rather watch college football, a movie play Spiderman , analyze data at this moment than be texting back and forth, on the phone, spending money cavorting with a chick, sometimes having a break is amazing and this is also the moment when you realize I'd you want a woman they always be there

Had a job interview yesterday went ok just waiting to hear back
 

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That's hard to. Especially when you know you want. But that's the right move
Oh shid I know trust me I know. Thats where being highly paid comes in handy :mjgrin:

But even after that, you realize the best option all along is just to move on and get ready for whats next. This is why its best to cut chicks like that as early as possible/stay far away from em until your attachment goes away.
 

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Oh shid I know trust me I know. Thats where being highly paid comes in handy :mjgrin:

But even after that, you realize the best option all along is just to move on and get ready for whats next. This is why its best to cut chicks like that as early as possible/stay far away from em until your attachment goes away.
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