quick gem: the trick to dealing successfully with these women is to know what it is you want out of them or out of the game. How can you be "successful" if you haven't even defined success for yourself? you don't even know what you want out of the woman. You trick/delude yourself into thinking you want to find "a good woman to grow with" or "multiple women to pump and dump". and i'm not saying you can't want these things. what i'm saying is, a lot of men claim to want something and then end up chasing something else. a lot of men get exactly what they claimed they wanted and still end up heart broken. maybe they weren't being true to themselves. How are you gonna be successful with women if you're not even conscious of what you want, let alone what you're willing to give up for it? You don't know what you want, don't know what you have to offer, don,t know what she wants, feel like you can change her. Also, a girl not wanting you doesn't mean there's anything wrong with the game. A girl not cooperating or not "acting right" doesn't mean the game is all fukked up. Dudes are getting too entitled. If dudes are entitled and act like bytches when they don't act our way, and if we're suppose to be the leaders in the relationship, provide guidance, etc, then what exactly is it we expect our women to be if not entitled?