Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women
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I was in the perfect position before I started dealing and getting wrapped up with her.
I'm past that point in my life, and i'm not looking to do that shyt right now.
VertigoKnight
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Hennessypapi posted a great guide a while back.
How to build a roster
These are just some of the ways Ive seen other people build rosters some I use. Theres prolly more so feel free to chime in
The Recycler
To do this u need a gf already. Make sure ur gf is st the peak of her emotions for u. U can test that out by going ghost for 2 weeks and see how much she blows u up. Come back with an excuse like theres something tragic going in my life. Then when u come back fukk her like u never fukked her before, then dump her the next day thru phone/text.
Once u do this, make sure u end it off with "lets be friends". Since u went ghost to deal with ur issues and u guys broke up shell blame herself for the breakup and continue contact with u. After the breakup hit her up for sex like once a week and subtly bring up the idea of u two getting back together but u have this life issue going on that caused u to ghost in the first place. Roster Spot #1
In the meantime u should have gotten a new girl before u planned on breaking up. She requires more maintenance than roster spot #1 (whom u only meet up w once a week). She requires more time and sex so she fills in where #1 doesnt come in. Shes Roster Spot #2
Now u got one main girl and ur leading ur ex on. From there the confidence and relationship aura will naturally bring u more women. From there u can fill in Roster Spot #3 and #4 to however many u can handle. Just look at ur schedule and figure out how u can juggle them. Remember, lower the maintenance better ur off.
This is one way to do it but mainly just break up with a girl and tell her u still wanna be friends while leading her on and having a new girl. I personally dont do this but I know dudes who do and plenty of women do this "lets stay friends" bs. Im sort of a narcissist so i dont recycle exes cuz then they feel as if I need them so I go ghost after the breakup just to prove they werent shyt to me. Ask my exes if they ever heard of me again.
Success Rate: 90%
The Harem
I dont really have to go too in depth with this one. Its the one 90% of dudes do. Get a main girl and use the relationship aura to get more roster spots. Actively engage other girls. In ur mind u should be single. Set up ur schedule like the recycler where u can deal with these women once a week or 2-3x a week. If they start asking for more time just call them clingy and insecure and that it turns u off. That will mindfukk them into going by ur time. Now u have a day for each woman including ur main. Always give a fake name + google voice number to thse women, never pillow talk,and never bring them to ur crib or job. And make sure ur main is satisfied since thats ur cash cow.
Success Rate:75%
The Player
Most dudes are NOT able to do this. If u cant do this dont put urself down cuz most men dont have the balls or persistence to do this. U have to be actively approaching women in all situations and build up 3-4 girls at all times and continuously switching them out. This method is grueling and takes alot of effort. Its a numbers game. Atleast in this stage ur single and ur not cheating on someone for moral reasons however it requires way more effort. The moral of this one is to cold approach everywhere and talk to multiple females. If ur gonna do this u need to love the game of chasing more than u love the p*ssy.If ur too lazy to chase then just do The Recycler or The Harem. U need discipline and dikk control for this and be willing to cut off a chick at any moment.
Success Rate: 50%
The Social Circle
This one is fluid as to where u can be like The Player and use ur reputation to get women. If ur on campus and ur in a frat, play sports u will automatically have women come up to u for status. If ur a party promoter or DJ u also have status to where women will be actively drawn to u. Maybe a local soundcloud rapper. This requires little effort.
U can also have friends and family introduce u to a girl but i personally dont like that. If u have a friend group of male and females then if u go after the females u can look like a creep. I dont recommend this
If ur out of school and dont go out much another way is to get a good looking female friend with other good looking female friends. Have her friendzone u, while subtly letting her know u are still attractive to other women. So say for instance, u two are hanging out at a bar. Hit on other women infront of her and bring up to her which women she thinks are cute. This lets her know while yes we are friends, i still have a dikk. Now she should introduce u to her female friends who see u do the same thing. If u approach other females infront of them too they will start to find u attractive. From there u can use them as wingmen (good looking women wingmen give off the same aura as relationship aura so u will PULL more than normal) or u can make ur way thru the whole friend group and fukk em all. If u fukk them all be prepared for the fallout between them and drama.
U can also simply build a social circle that attracts women doing a hobby that has a lot of women. If u like bike riding or the out doors then do meet ups and make friends. This will attract like minded women whom u can relate to. I like the gym so when I go there ive had women try to catch my attention. If ur a hipster hang out at hipster spots. If ur a painter go to art galleries.Make sure its somethint u actually like to do as women will see the passion and be drawn to it.
Success Rate:75%
The Scavenger
This one requires the mostto pull off.These are the guys who fukk heartbroken women straight out of relationships or co workers. These are the guys that go to AA meetings with a fake story and pick up on damaged women. These are the guys who search for married or taken women with one foot out the relationship already.These are the guys who fukk fat chicks and low self esteem chicks/ 4s and 5s. These are the guys who dumpster dive on POF and Tinder .This is a good stepping stone to The Player or The Harem if u need a good boost. One of the easiest and quickest ways to get p*ssy. Warning: Alot of the p*ssy will be low quality. But if ur a guy w no experience i suggest doing this first to level up until uve hit the gym/got ur finances/game up.
Success Rate:90%
These are just some of the ways I have personally used and seen other people used. There are prolly more but these are the most common ones. Find ur niche
Now ball hard fellas
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Rest In Power Kobe
My tip...
Don't read this thread.
Don't read this thread.
This thread is a GREAT read. I'm ashamed that I overlooked it for so long, a ton of great advice in here.
My babyface starting to fukk with my life. Girls that are way younger than me think I'm their age and girls near my age think I'm too young.
Girls: "Hey"
Me: "Hey"
Girls: [starts flirting]
Me:
continues for ten minutes
Girls: "So how old are you?"
Me: "I just turned 30"
Girls: "You are not 30. I thought you were 23, 24. You do not look 30"
This scenario has happened three times in the past two weeks. I gotta grow my beard fully out
Girls: "Hey"
Me: "Hey"
Girls: [starts flirting]
Me:
continues for ten minutes
Girls: "So how old are you?"
Me: "I just turned 30"
Girls: "You are not 30. I thought you were 23, 24. You do not look 30"
This scenario has happened three times in the past two weeks. I gotta grow my beard fully out
My babyface starting to fukk with my life. Girls that are way younger than me think I'm their age and girls near my age think I'm too young.
This scenario has happened three times in the past two weeks. I gotta grow my beard fully out
Girls: "Hey"
Me: "Hey"
Girls: [starts flirting]
Me:
continues for ten minutes
Girls: "So how old are you?"
Me: "I just turned 30"
Girls: "You are not 30. I thought you were 23, 24. You do not look 30"
beard
when i shave i look like im 20, when i have my beard i have grey so i look mature
Chick asked me to send her $5 to cover her -1.88 balance so she don't get an NFS fee.
I honestly would've did the shyt not too long ago, but we ain't fukked and that ain't my problem
and this same chick is prob on snapchat or instagram with a gaggle of simps
this chick i barely talk to who i knew years ago and went to med school in south africa hit me up today how shes coming to canada on vacay and if she can stay at my place. Told her sure it will be 120 a night not including food.
Of course I got called selfish and a a$$hole
but the one great thing about being a former big simp is that it got me nowhere, I never got the chick, i never got punani, hell i was never even remembered and always was short of money or had to deal with added stress so why frigging do it?
No I'm not a a$$hole but i'm not going to inconvenience myself for a chick when i get nothing in return cept stress and added expenses
Of course I got called selfish and a a$$hole
but the one great thing about being a former big simp is that it got me nowhere, I never got the chick, i never got punani, hell i was never even remembered and always was short of money or had to deal with added stress so why frigging do it?
No I'm not a a$$hole but i'm not going to inconvenience myself for a chick when i get nothing in return cept stress and added expenses
The Odum of Ala Igbo
Hail Biafra!
But how would u go about this?
- Got an off and on baby mama i argue with alot (sad i know)
- I've discreetly cheated on her mainly with 5's and 6's over the years because she let her self go and lookin like weak ass Sherri Shepard.
- She recently added her old college ex on Facebook behind my back. (Its a nikka she knows i dont like from our college past so its disrespectful)
- I confronted her about it and said why didnt she tell me she did that and she said "im free to do whatever i want. U cant control me. U cant be that insecure!" Its just a simple social media thing!"
- We had a verbal argument about it among other things and now we arent "together" but its always what she says to try to upset me in the moment. I could hit it right now if i truly wanted to. U know the baby daddy stay having access to the pussi
I'm only really around mentally for the kid and string her along relationship wise. I give her just enough to remain on her team but my status as the "franchise player" is dropping fast but some would say id like to be "traded" anyway on some "Eric Bledsoe" Suns shyt.
Also, her biological clock ticking and probably tired of dealing with my non-commiting ass and wants to get married and all that shyt before she truly getsbut im truly #GMB for atleast 6 more years. I got sum self imrpovement i wanna work on regardless if i had a kid or not with her
Im getting older too and but men always have a chance to pick younger hotter women and i think i might run with that. id rather gamble on something new and hotter down the road when im more fly than to deal with an old hagged out baby mama just cuz its convenient and easy
Whats yall suggestion?
P.S. wrap it up
Dont have kids with a bytch u dont know well. Its hell for 18 years.
Please, please, please don't mess with single women with children
But how would u go about this?
- Got an off and on baby mama i argue with alot (sad i know)
- I've discreetly cheated on her mainly with 5's and 6's over the years because she let her self go and lookin like weak ass Sherri Shepard.
- She recently added her old college ex on Facebook behind my back. (Its a nikka she knows i dont like from our college past so its disrespectful)
- I confronted her about it and said why didnt she tell me she did that and she said "im free to do whatever i want. U cant control me. U cant be that insecure!" Its just a simple social media thing!"
- We had a verbal argument about it among other things and now we arent "together" but its always what she says to try to upset me in the moment. I could hit it right now if i truly wanted to. U know the baby daddy stay having access to the pussi
I'm only really around mentally for the kid and string her along relationship wise. I give her just enough to remain on her team but my status as the "franchise player" is dropping fast but some would say id like to be "traded" anyway on some "Eric Bledsoe" Suns shyt.
Also, her biological clock ticking and probably tired of dealing with my non-commiting ass and wants to get married and all that shyt before she truly gets
Im getting older too and but men always have a chance to pick younger hotter women and i think i might run with that. id rather gamble on something new and hotter down the road when im more fly than to deal with an old hagged out baby mama just cuz its convenient and easy
Whats yall suggestion?
P.S. wrap it up
Dont have kids with a bytch u dont know well. Its hell for 18 years.
In all fairness...that's your bm and it seems like you still got feelings for her...
The grass isn't always greener on the other side...
You need to be honest with yourself and try to work it out
even at 33, i won't do it.
I know two single mothers, one is Congolese 30 if she didn't have a kid she'd be PERFECT but that kid though
another one is naija like you she has twins
, but damn she's so fine