Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women
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African_brehda
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Ahhh summer, when the heat brings out the hunger in people. I almost started summer off with a bang.
It was a Friday a few weeks back and me and a few friends were coming back from a cook out. I stopped quickly at the ATM to withdraw some cash and in front of me was this crazy thick lady. Probably about 35-38 but that didn’t matter to me. Ole girl was stacked.
So I’m at the ATM doing my transaction and she pulls up to the one to the left of me (there was a dude in the back that I think wanted to shoot his shot but held off, I could tell cause we both noticed her but it seemed like he wanted to wait for me to wrap up my transaction before making a move).
Anyway, while I’m doing my transaction I mentioned to her the machine she was using may not be working because someone else tried it but couldn’t get any cash.
She said “Oh, thanks, I’ll just use the drive thru one”. The way she said that I could tell she was from West Africa but I wasn’t quite sure. So I asked…
“Hey, where are you from?”
Her: I’m from Africa
Me: Oh yea, me too. I’m from Nigeria.
Her: Hmmmmm (suggestively). I’m from Sierra Leone. Naija boy huh?
Me: (chuckles) you know it. You know how we do it. See, I actually thought you might be from South Africa
Her: Why? Because I’m shaped like a South African woman? I don’t know about those women, but this here is all natural from Sierra Leone. But since you have South African women on your mind…
Me: ( in my head “damn, I didn’t think she’d take it there”
, even the other dude in the line was kinda shocked) *chuckle again* Not at all. I just got back from South Africa so that’s why. I like all my African ladies equally. I don’t discriminate.
Her: Is that so?
Me: It is. You know what, how about I get your number and we can meet up later.
We exchange names and numbers and I quickly call her to she has my number (big mistake, you’ll see why).
Fast forward like 5 hours later and it’s like 3 AM and I’m leaving DC. I’m slightly out of it so I plan to call up one of my boys to crash at his place since surge pricing on Uber was OD. Made a mistake and called her instead since she was my recent dialed number. I didn’t even realize this until the call rang multiple times before going to VM
Then at like 11 am the following day she calls me and is all offended that I called her late night and talking about “I’m not that type of woman, I don’t know what type of woman you deal with etc”. I try and tell her it was a mistake on my part but she wasn’t hearing any of it.
Oh well, you win some and lose some.
It was a Friday a few weeks back and me and a few friends were coming back from a cook out. I stopped quickly at the ATM to withdraw some cash and in front of me was this crazy thick lady. Probably about 35-38 but that didn’t matter to me. Ole girl was stacked.
So I’m at the ATM doing my transaction and she pulls up to the one to the left of me (there was a dude in the back that I think wanted to shoot his shot but held off, I could tell cause we both noticed her but it seemed like he wanted to wait for me to wrap up my transaction before making a move).
Anyway, while I’m doing my transaction I mentioned to her the machine she was using may not be working because someone else tried it but couldn’t get any cash.
She said “Oh, thanks, I’ll just use the drive thru one”. The way she said that I could tell she was from West Africa but I wasn’t quite sure. So I asked…
“Hey, where are you from?”
Her: I’m from Africa
Me: Oh yea, me too. I’m from Nigeria.
Her: Hmmmmm (suggestively). I’m from Sierra Leone. Naija boy huh?
Me: (chuckles) you know it. You know how we do it. See, I actually thought you might be from South Africa
Her: Why? Because I’m shaped like a South African woman? I don’t know about those women, but this here is all natural from Sierra Leone. But since you have South African women on your mind…
Me: ( in my head “damn, I didn’t think she’d take it there”
, even the other dude in the line was kinda shocked) *chuckle again* Not at all. I just got back from South Africa so that’s why. I like all my African ladies equally. I don’t discriminate.Her: Is that so?
Me: It is. You know what, how about I get your number and we can meet up later.
We exchange names and numbers and I quickly call her to she has my number (big mistake, you’ll see why).
Fast forward like 5 hours later and it’s like 3 AM and I’m leaving DC. I’m slightly out of it so I plan to call up one of my boys to crash at his place since surge pricing on Uber was OD. Made a mistake and called her instead since she was my recent dialed number. I didn’t even realize this until the call rang multiple times before going to VM
Then at like 11 am the following day she calls me and is all offended that I called her late night and talking about “I’m not that type of woman, I don’t know what type of woman you deal with etc”. I try and tell her it was a mistake on my part but she wasn’t hearing any of it.
Oh well, you win some and lose some.
John Reena
Superstar
John Reena
Superstar
I'm wondering if any of y'all nikkas ever run into someone you ghosted or they ghosted you and what happened
They be over nice and shyt. I play da game with em:
“Well well.....wassup STRANGER!”
Now if it’s somebody I ghosted, I’ll just keep it cordial n keep it pushing.
They be over nice and shyt. I play da game with em:
“Well well.....wassup STRANGER!”
Now if it’s somebody I ghosted, I’ll just keep it cordial n keep it pushing.
I'm not gonna lie I feel like I'd be borderline dikkish to someone who ghosted me lol.
Lord Bison
Superstar
I pretend like they don't even exist. If they're insistent on making eye contact with me I hit em with the 
Here's a piece of advice from me:
Don't step to females on some cold approach type shyt and get there numbers (specifically at work) unless you absolutely sure they feeling you like that. Because if you don't, most times they may give it to you out of being friendly or whatever (and being put on the spot), but they'll be distant, unresponsive and ghost-like (basically letting you know that she ain't trying to fukk with you) and it'll just make the whole shyt awkward when you see each other.
Edit:
In most cases I would say don't fool with females at your workplace period. Unless she hard choosing.
Don't step to females on some cold approach type shyt and get there numbers (specifically at work) unless you absolutely sure they feeling you like that. Because if you don't, most times they may give it to you out of being friendly or whatever (and being put on the spot), but they'll be distant, unresponsive and ghost-like (basically letting you know that she ain't trying to fukk with you) and it'll just make the whole shyt awkward when you see each other.
Edit:
In most cases I would say don't fool with females at your workplace period. Unless she hard choosing.
This is just advice seeped over from the summer thread on approaching. Yeah DEFINITELY not at work. Honestly though the last work relationship I got into I didn't know she was into me until we went out.
Also granted there was one Jehovah's Witness chick that would flirt with me. Basically complimented me on my ass more than once, said I had a nice voice, etc. Got weird when I tried to get her #. I was either indifferent or mean to her lol. I feel kinda bad about being mean but I felt embarrassed. This was 4+ years ago though and I got into a relationship at another venture.
When I left the company she was asking if I had IG and I told her no and she was just like bye, rah rah. This woman was late 30s so odd behavior overall.
There's a lot of soft transitions to get drinks or do something else with a coworker if you want to go that way but yeah I wouldn't TBH.
they say some dumb shytI'm wondering if any of y'all nikkas ever run into someone you ghosted or they ghosted you and what happened
"omg how come you never texted me back"
"we should talk sometimes"
got me like
Malik1time
What you looking at?
so my birthday is in August and my friends and I are all going to Atlantic city for a weekend
my girl will be going and her other friends sounds dope
Never once has she offered to help me pay for the room for me and her(the cost is$500) i have no problem paying for it
but the fact is she never said she would chip in
best believe i am not going to tell her "Hey can you help me"
like bytch i dont have to tell you.....she should know "why am i letting my man pay for the hotel room on his bday weekend
"
am i tripping or
i have too much pride to beg her to help me
my girl will be going and her other friends
sounds dopeNever once has she offered to help me pay for the room for me and her(the cost is$500) i have no problem paying for it
but the fact is she never said she would chip inbest believe i am not going to tell her "Hey can you help me"
like bytch i dont have to tell you.....she should know "why am i letting my man pay for the hotel room on his bday weekend"am i tripping or
i have too much pride to beg her to help me
Neo. The Only. The One.
THE ONE
Neo. The Only. The One.
THE ONE
so my birthday is in August and my friends and I are all going to Atlantic city for a weekend
my girl will be going and her other friends
Never once has she offered to help me pay for the room for me and her(the cost is$500) i have no problem paying for it
best believe i am not going to tell her "Hey can you help me"
am i tripping or
i have too much pride to beg her to help me
You trippin a lil bit breh.
I get what you saying.... but... yeah go ahead and pay for it and see if she treats you in other ways
had my first class at school today, just thinking of all the evenings and time i wasted doing NOTHING or spending money out with some random thot when I could have been out there getting certifications and advancing myself
Damn shun.Ahhh summer, when the heat brings out the hunger in people. I almost started summer off with a bang.
It was a Friday a few weeks back and me and a few friends were coming back from a cook out. I stopped quickly at the ATM to withdraw some cash and in front of me was this crazy thick lady. Probably about 35-38 but that didn’t matter to me. Ole girl was stacked.
So I’m at the ATM doing my transaction and she pulls up to the one to the left of me (there was a dude in the back that I think wanted to shoot his shot but held off, I could tell cause we both noticed her but it seemed like he wanted to wait for me to wrap up my transaction before making a move).
Anyway, while I’m doing my transaction I mentioned to her the machine she was using may not be working because someone else tried it but couldn’t get any cash.
She said “Oh, thanks, I’ll just use the drive thru one”. The way she said that I could tell she was from West Africa but I wasn’t quite sure. So I asked…
“Hey, where are you from?”
Her: I’m from Africa
Me: Oh yea, me too. I’m from Nigeria.
Her: Hmmmmm (suggestively). I’m from Sierra Leone. Naija boy huh?
Me: (chuckles) you know it. You know how we do it. See, I actually thought you might be from South Africa
Her: Why? Because I’m shaped like a South African woman? I don’t know about those women, but this here is all natural from Sierra Leone. But since you have South African women on your mind…
Me: ( in my head “damn, I didn’t think she’d take it there”
Her: Is that so?
Me: It is. You know what, how about I get your number and we can meet up later.
We exchange names and numbers and I quickly call her to she has my number (big mistake, you’ll see why).
Fast forward like 5 hours later and it’s like 3 AM and I’m leaving DC. I’m slightly out of it so I plan to call up one of my boys to crash at his place since surge pricing on Uber was OD. Made a mistake and called her instead since she was my recent dialed number. I didn’t even realize this until the call rang multiple times before going to VM
Then at like 11 am the following day she calls me and is all offended that I called her late night and talking about “I’m not that type of woman, I don’t know what type of woman you deal with etc”. I try and tell her it was a mistake on my part but she wasn’t hearing any of it.
Oh well, you win some and lose some.
I'm in DC too. PM the number since you fumbled on the play, I got this.
