Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

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I believe I'm getting there as well. Who I am in solitude when it's just me is who I am with women now. Men are the light women are vessels without male light they are useless vessels. All men need to do is value themselves and put themselves first as well as don't give away attention for free.
When you are drought you start wondering why though
 

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Anyone in here a silimar age..?

What age women do you go for...

I feel like women my age & up are too serious and looking to move too quickly with relationship

Then the younger 22-24 are kind of annoying but always the easiest to crack but most of them I couldn’t see myself dating at all..

Majority do wanna move quickly in our age group unfortunately. Sure they are some who don't but they a dime a dozen which makes alot go to their 20s for a partner which they kinda dont prefer.
It's a hit or miss in either group. Just gotta hope for the best and just keep doing until the right lady comes along
 

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This is the first time this has happened to me as an adult and it's throwing me off.

This girl I've been hanging out with over the past couple of months told me she was confused about her feelings for me after I made a move on her. I've known her for years just from being in the same industry but we didn't really become close until recently when she moved back to my city.

She's taken me out of drinks for my birthday and I even took her to brunch and dinner but the relationship never really progressed for some reason. Recently I tried to make a move on her after she came by yesterday and it she said she doesn't know if she wants me as a platonic friend or views me romantically. She said sometimes she feels one way and sometimes the other. Don't really know how to take it. I feel like I'd feel better about it if she just told me she views me as a friend and then I can just move accordingly but how do you even take it when you ask a girl does she just want to me my friend and she says no but she's confused.....and needs to think.

I spent most of my 20s smashing joints with no strings attached even taking a chick out on multiple dates without having smashed is pretty new to me. She actually seemed like the type of girl I'd date seriously but after this I'm kinda sour on the situation. I'm not sure if she viewed me as a platonic friend and she's just trying to let me down easy......or she's actually confused but it's strange. I guess the only thing I can do is just fall back.
you know its funny i have something similar going with a chick right now. Always begging me to hang out and all fukking over me when we do hang out but cold outside of that.

i get all the thirst trap pics and intimate moments but on saturday she told me she's working on setting boundaries. i was just like:yeshrug:as she kissed me while leaving.

:dame:bytches brehs
 

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Yo y'all need to get on that Aztec Healing Clay tip. I'm gonna glow up before summer :wow:
 

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Yeah I've been having issues with women in their 30's and late 20's as well. I'm 28 and it seems like every woman i'm attracting now wants to immediately jump into big commitments like marriage, kids, etc. I'm open to all of that but damn let a breh breathe first. Can we go on our third date at least before i have to promise all of that shyt? :dwillhuh:.
 

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you know its funny i have something similar going with a chick right now. Always begging me to hang out and all fukking over me when we do hang out but cold outside of that.

i get all the thirst trap pics and intimate moments but on saturday she told me she's working on setting boundaries. i was just like:yeshrug:as she kissed me while leaving.

:dame:bytches brehs


I realized I was slipping.

I just need more joints on my roster when scenarios like this come up. I'm probably coming off thirsty subconsciously.

I was getting my dreads done by this joint I used to smash but stopped messing with and we were talking about taking a trip together because she has a flight deal so I'm about to start messing with her again. I just need to build up a solid roster and pick the best one to wife at this point.
 
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That asian bytch has been mia for 2 days

We were suppose to hang friday never heard anything.. sat morning i texted her didnt get a response...very odd...

She texts me everyday
 

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Yeah I've been having issues with women in their 30's and late 20's as well. I'm 28 and it seems like every woman i'm attracting now wants to immediately jump into big commitments like marriage, kids, etc. I'm open to all of that but damn let a breh breathe first. Can we go on our third date at least before i have to promise all of that shyt? :dwillhuh:.
Read the rationale male. It explains this. All 3 if you can.
 

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I realized I was slipping.

I just need more joints on my roster when scenarios like this come up. I'm probably coming off thirsty subconsciously.

I was getting my dreads done by this joint I used to smash but stopped messing with and we were talking about taking a trip together because she has a flight deal so I'm about to start messing with her again. I just need to build up a solid roster and pick the best one to wife at this point.
bytch confusing as hell breh

:lolbron:called me at like 12:30 last night and had me thinking i was getting ready to get a booty call.instead got suckered into a serious convo about boundaries and shyt:francis::why::mjcry:. i know i fukked up and should have ended that shyt as soon as possible.:stopitslime:now she snapping me inane dumb shyt all day.im prob just gonna ignore her for the next week.
 
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