Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[TRUEST]

Can I one call / one text a chick as a final action on you know what chick? Or fukk it? It's been a week of no contact.

This is fukking up my head because I haven't really been ghosted by a chick I fukked more than once smh.

I'm going on dates this week with other women BTW.

how did yall leave things off?? like what was the exact last words you said to each other? was it via text or over the phone, or in person? be honest. dont bs me.

 

[ViShawn]

Also any of y'all shoot your shot in IG? I don't since I feel it's out of my age bracket but giving IGs out is like giving a number.

Also some of these girls will be on these dating apps and have their IG so I'm thinking why not.

 

[ViShawn]

how did yall leave things off?? like what was the exact last words you said to each other? was it via text or over the phone, or in person? be honest. dont bs me.

Okay here's the time frame:

She was in Belize for her friends 40th. Gets back Sunday. I didn't hear from her until Tuesday morning:

Her:
" I made it back in one piece :-) how was time w fam?"

I responded 6 hours later:

"One piece! No battle scars either? ;) Pity. I've got some stories for you"

In line with normal banter I would do and she would respond. Nothing. I didn't think trying to use a text to set something up was a good idea because she didn't earn it. I'm being indifferent.

Weekend rolls by she's on Bumble I see her. She's a few miles from me. I unfollow her from IG because im not playing that bs she was doing following me and unfollow shyt. Pretty sure she unmatched me Sunday night lol. No contact since.

 

[TRUEST]

Okay here's the time frame:

She was in Belize for her friends 40th. Gets back Sunday. I didn't hear from her until Tuesday morning:

Her:
" I made it back in one piece :-) how was time w fam?"

I responded 6 hours later:

"One piece! No battle scars either? ;) Pity. I've got some stories for you"

In line with normal banter I would do and she would respond. Nothing. I didn't think trying to use a text to set something up was a good idea because she didn't earn it. I'm being indifferent.

Weekend rolls by she's on Bumble I see her. She's a few miles from me. I unfollow her from IG because im not playing that bs. Pretty sure she unmatched me Sunday night lol. No contact since.

mhmmm

1. sounds to me you are a chatty-patty and she gradually lost interest in you

2. you are/were way too excited over her. she sensed it and got turned off.

i've always said this before, imagine if you had the chance to date your favorite celebrity crush. u go on a date and u fucck. now, shes sprung over u. texting u all the time. giving very, very clear signals that she wants u and is obsessed with you. what do u think that will do to you? you'll start to feel urself on some "yeah, im that n1gga. if i can get her, i can get more like her".

and what happens is, u start to either subconsciously or consciously start looking for the next level of chicks u can get. "how high can i reach". you said you're 6'1 and from your posting history, sounds to me ur not a bad looking guy either. she thought u were a level above her. but due to your constant yapping and being an open book, and texting her titangraphs, she realizes ur a lame (no offense) and not a man of importance.​

3. the last three paragraphs sealed ur fate with this chick. u shouldnt have unfollowed her on IG. its one of the reasons i dont use social media. the temptation to go snooping or getting alerts about chicks u really like will drive u nuts. so its better to block that loophole.

think about what you said to her. "i've got some stories for you". that tells me all i needed to know. she probably thought, oh hell nah i aint trying to hear this n1gga blabbing like a lil girl acting all emotional. stop joking too much with these chicks on the phone. it can always go wrong.

girls have a fine-tuned ability to zone in on desperation, anxiety, eager-to-please..ism lol. the more u talk, the more u give urself away. after not seeing her for so long, when she texted u, what u should have said was on some "time with fam was cool. you need to bring your cute lil ass over here and spend time with me" - that will lead directly into sex talk. her: "u think my ass is lil?? lol." then u be like, well i havent seen it in a while. come by at 6pm tomorrow. (notice there's no d1cking around in these convos)​

not to give u false hope, but this girl sounds to me like the type that would be on several other apps. so what u can do if u really want her bad is put up brand new pictures of yourself on different apps. and sooner or later she will come across u and will probably swipe right and use that as a segue to yall linking back up on some "what happened to you??". when that happens, if u fucck it up ill have u banned from this thread.

 

[ViShawn]

mhmmm

1. sounds to me you are a chatty-patty and she gradually lost interest in you

2. you are/were way too excited over her. she sensed it and got turned off.

i've always said this before, imagine if you had the chance to date your favorite celebrity crush. u go on a date and u fucck. now, shes sprung over u. texting u all the time. giving very, very clear signals that she wants u and is obsessed with you. what do u think that will do to you? you'll start to feel urself on some "yeah, im that n1gga. if i can get her, i can get more like her".

and what happens is, u start to either subconsciously or consciously start looking for the next level of chicks u can get. "how high can i reach". you said you're 6'1 and from your posting history, sounds to me ur not a bad looking guy either. she thought u were a level above her. but due to your constant yapping and being an open book, and texting her titangraphs, she realizes ur a lame (no offense) and not a man of importance.

3. the last three paragraphs sealed ur fate with this chick. u shouldnt have unfollowed her on IG. its one of the reasons i dont use social media. the temptation to go snooping or getting alerts about chicks u really like will drive u nuts. so its better to block that loophole.

think about what you said to her. "i've got some stories for you". that tells me all i needed to know. she probably thought, oh hell nah i aint trying to hear this n1gga blabbing like a lil girl acting all emotional. stop joking too much with these chicks on the phone. it can always go wrong. girls have a fine-tuned ability to zone in on desperation, anxiety, eager-to-please..ism lol. the more u talk, the more u give urself way. after not seeing her for so long, when she texted u, what u should have said was on "time with fam was cool. you need to bring your cute lil ass over here and spend time with me" - that will lead directly into sex talk. u think my ass is lil?? lol. then u be like, well i havent seen it in a while. come by at 6pm tomorrow. (notice there's no d1cking around in these convos)

not to give u false hope, but this girl sounds to me like the type that would be on several other apps. so what u can do if u really want her bad is put up brand new pictures of yourself on different apps. and sooner or later she will come across u and will probably swipe right and use that as a segue to yall linking back up on some "what happened to you??".

The "I have some stories for you" was in response to her asking me how my weekend was with my family. I kept it short and that was it. I could have texted but she liked the fact when we matched I immediately used texting for logistic purposes and not to get to know each other too much. After that she was texting, showing me high interest, calling me, etc. I like that segue tho...the scar thing also was in reference to me fukking her and bruising her in a few places.

Why not unfollow? I don't get it. I didn't care to continue that sort of stuff and I doubt she cared but I could be wrong.

I have talked myself out of p*ssy before lmao not gonna lie. I overthink and overanalyze shyt. That is my nerd side coming out. The thing is with her is that she knows me sexually and she was telling me how she was playing with herself thereafter. My buddies and I call this stuff "Golden dikk". So I know I did that but yeah I feel you.

I think I have high interest in her because unfortunately she reminds me a LOT of an ex of mine I used to date. Kinda mind fukks me TBH.

I think in ONE instance calling/texting would be like giving a cat a treat to lure them. Nothing elaborate. Still do me and date around but give a little attention. I think she may have options, but a woman in her late 30s vs a man in his mid 30s I am talking to a 25, 31, and an 32 year old. Works in my favor. So yeah I could see holding out too.

 

[ViShawn]

You know? When people say "be yourself" in dating it's true, but it's really how you present yourself to others and how they align with your core and true value system.

 

[MikelArteta]

travel brehs
going to nigeria for two weeks in june, stop wasting your money on these chicks and enjoy the life we have been given.

I honestly can't wait yeah its going to cost me nearly 3 grand but I've been wanting to go for years and years and finally eh opportunity presented itself.

 

[Lord Bison]

sooner or later she will come across u and will probably swipe right and use that as a segue to yall linking back up on some "what happened to you??". when that happens, if u fucck it up ill have u banned from this thread.

Something similar like this happened to me. This chick bushed me a while back because she was trying to get promoted to an exclusive relationship and all I was looking for was fwb's. At first she took sex away and said I can't get it unless we in a relationship. So I fell back. She tried again a few months later and I went for the hail mary bang and she excused herself out of my life and deleted me on social media.

Fast forward several years later and the bish matched me on tinder and messaged me on some "hey stranger how u been" type of BS. I unmatched that broad with the absolute quickness. Even though over the years she's gotten thick in all the right places, I completely was disgusted at the fact that she even tried to shoot her shot after ditching me with no remorse.

I can't speak for you @AdvantageSouthpaw but for me, once a chick makes the executive decision to remove herself from my life, that door will remain shut forever. Regardless of connection or compatibility. Anything less would be compromising my self respect as a man.


But hey, keep setting yourself up multiple L's. YMMV

 

[ViShawn]

If chick comes back it's FWB. I feel you. I've had one girl come back but I ghosted her and she was nuts tho...like cussed me out over text etc.

fukk that

 

[Silkk]

My girl told me she never had sex with a dude raw
At 1st I was like worrd
Couple days ago we were bout to smash then i told her i want no rubber she hit me with the
But im confused she wanted raw sex that quick like she didn't even think that long
Was she lying this whole time?

Look, I understand you're a vegan from bumfukk Mississippi, but you've NEVER ate Chipotle? Or even know what they serve?

Some of the shyt this 30 year old woman says make her seem like an alien.

I never ate that shyt either

 

[Lord Bison]

I never ate that shyt either

Me neither

 

[Rice'N Beckford]

Why did I hit this chick I met on sunday up today. Now we meetin up at a bar at midnight tonight. I got work in the AM and tired from the gym

Whays the chance of me getting some cheeks tonight?

 

[ViShawn]

I'm sooooo tempted to go aggressive after this girl at work. She is so fine

She seems me always gives me a little smirk but we only talk a few times.

But I've dated a woman from work before years ago and it turned south. Plus I'm not trying to get #MeToo'd

 

[Shabazz]

Why did I hit this chick I met on sunday up today. Now we meetin up at a bar at midnight tonight. I got work in the AM and tired from the gym

Whays the chance of me getting some cheeks tonight?

Should have told her another time

 

[Rice'N Beckford]

Should have told her another time

Headin home now. At 3:30am

Things went pretty well. I forgot to mention she texted that wine make her horny
Made a move and started suckin on her nipples in my whip. Got a handjob but no cheeks. But ahe wanna fukk when she back in the US next week.

Shorty look like a young lauren hill with her faux dreads, hipster clothing and heavenly smell