Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

VertigoKnight

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I had an ex that I was with over two years but it was tumultuous. Thing is I had the power because she was way more into me than vice versa.

Also regarding doc...like I said her profile says no hookups, looking for something serious. I thought chick was legit. She spoke on the local news and I saw the YouTube clip. Serious about her career.

I honestly don't think her lifestyle is even sustainable for something serious. Long hours, stress from work, sex drive, etc.

I think women are trained since birth to be less direct than men so that's part of it.

Every women who had "no hookups" in their profile. I've fukked on the first or second date. It's a lady doth protest too much red flag now when I see it.

The medical thing requires a mate who is extremely understanding you will be spending a lot of time apart.
 

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You know I was depressed reading this thread about black men never succeeding, but the funny thing is. How can black men not succeed, when everyone on here makes 50k+? I'm confused.

I was depressed because I feel since I'm trash at math, I don't know if I can succeed, but that's another story.

But yeah this site depresses me sometimes.

You’re good breh. You’ve got a lot of growing ahead of you. Don’t pay attention to the whoa is me cats. Believe in yourself and you can do whatever you feel.
 

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Every women who had "no hookups" in their profile. I've fukked on the first or second date. It's a lady doth protest too much red flag now when I see it.

The medical thing requires a mate who is extremely understanding you will be spending a lot of time apart.

Yeah can't do that. Prob gonna end up with some nikka in his late 40s or 50s at her trajectory so I see what y'all mean about just smashing.
 

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Every women who had "no hookups" in their profile. I've fukked on the first or second date. It's a lady doth protest too much red flag now when I see it.

The medical thing requires a mate who is extremely understanding you will be spending a lot of time apart.

All those “no hookups” chicks get knocked off when the right one comes along lol. That’s why I pay it absolutely no mind. I view it as a challenge.
 

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All those “no hookups” chicks get knocked off when the right one comes along lol. That’s why I pay it absolutely no mind. I view it as a challenge.

I just think it's silly to have it. I may have fukked another girl with no hookups within two dates. Can't remember. Usually if they are romantically interested in me it takes two dates.
 

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negro where's the story? :dahell:






Promise you it's coming breh.



Been so bizzy with work and shiit.



Since last week, shiit been thickening up.



Still think most of y'all will disapprove (and i would even eat my own words and advise if this was me before meeting her).




Sometimes life throws curveballs at you like that.




I'll get the story out today...




She's damaged goods in every sense of the word... yet, i'm going full swing.




Stay tuned.




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i hate to say this, but u gotta understand, the chances of you meeting a noble woman online are very slim. women already get hit on quite frequently in real life. in the world of online dating, they actually get bombarded with so, so many options. From guys who look good, to guys to look good and have money. Its very, very easy for a woman who has all these options to have zero patience for guys like u who make mistake after mistake.

but if there's any saving grace, personally, i feel this doctor girl will eventually hit u back. IF AND ONLY IF you drop off the face of the earth and DO NOT CONTACT HER. yeah, days may go by. even weeks. but since yall done fuccked more than once, u do have a upper hand. my worry for you is, when she does come back, u will act a complete and utter a fool and go back to ur idiotic ways of over pursuing.

my advice to you is to start dating as many women as possible. and have ur days filled with dates. so whenever she does call, and u go over to her place to fucck, after fuccking u LEAVE. dont hang around for pillow talk. tell her u got some business to attend to and dip. before u leave, make her feel wanted. like "babe, it was really nice seeing u. i missed ur punkass" -- playful sh1t like that. and leave and go on to your next date.

i must admit i got irritated reading ur post. we know u like this girl. but be a gadamn man and listen to the advice of brehs in here who have been through the exact same situation you're going through. constantly pestering a girl and pouring out ur heart to her wont make her magically wet for you. stop it!
 

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Thanks @TRUEST you a real one :ufdup:

Hmm and speak of the devil just texted me...

"*waves* I made it back in one piece :-) how was time with the family?"

I've set up a date with another girl on Thursday BTW.

And I appreciate you letting me bytch and moan instead of fukking someone up lol.
 

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Thanks @TRUEST you a real one :ufdup:

Hmm and speak of the devil just texted me...

"*waves* I made it back in one piece :-) how was time with the family?"

I've set up a date with another girl on Thursday BTW.

And I appreciate you letting me bytch and moan instead of fukking someone up lol.

She was on vacation and y'all not exclusive, why were you damn near stalking her? Lol. You seem needy. Let that chick breathe
 

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She was on vacation and y'all not exclusive, why were you damn near stalking her? Lol. You seem needy. Let that chick breathe

She has usually let me know her steps. When she went to a work conference she was telling me when she left for her flight, came back, etc. I was just basing it on her previous behavior.

Just going to recoil. Gonna respond later after work.
 

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Trash, I wish tinder had a race option
It's frustrating why I stopped using it k don't find any white women attractive at all anymore and then I keep swiping no then I'll see a black chick but my muscle memory is so used to swiping no it's too late

There's soulswipe but no one uses that.
 

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Trash, I wish tinder had a race option
It's frustrating why I stopped using it k don't find any white women attractive at all anymore and then I keep swiping no then I'll see a black chick but my muscle memory is so used to swiping no it's too late
Tinder Toronto looks like a movie man. I’m in San Antonio and tinder here is majority white chicks. The only black chicks are either at college or in the military. I really wish there were more sistas on there down here mayne:francis:
 
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