Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[George Gooney]

My cousin who got married last April does the same thing.. She is still taking multiple trips with her home-girls through out the year, she's in cancun as I type. Her husband (who I'm cool with) seems to not mind..which is strange to me, cause if I'm newly married, I'd be suspect of my girl still tryna travel to these exotic spots dolo or with her still single ass female friends

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[kevm3]

Honestly, it's not cool. Wives should not be taking trips 'with the homegirls' and the husband is not included. Men now are so accommodating that women come to expect it though.

 

[kevm3]

like i said at one point i used to be frustrated thought it was me, thought maybe I was to nice, not strong enough not man enough and all that bs

nah I was fine, no wonder why even after everything her mom still loved me and talked to me still i stopped replying. I just wasted time on poison the wrong woman. And never again will I

That's the importance of this thread. A lot of the times you start to think it's YOU until you realize a lot of dudes are going through the exact same thing and you realize that many of the current crop of women are simply damaged.

 

[Atlrocafella]

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Honestly, it's not cool. Wives should not be taking trips 'with the homegirls' and the husband is not included. Men now are so accommodating that women come to expect it though.

Honestly He really can't even do anything about, she makes more money than him, he moved into her house, and she pays for those trips herself. My cousin is a bird, and he KNEW before getting with her that she was stubborn like that. I even gave the breh hints when they got engaged to really think about wha he was doing on some shyt. He still married her so

 

[kevm3]

Yeah man it's screwed up but that's how it goes. The pool of high quality women is so low and the stock of super accommodating dudes is so high, that women can be utterly disrespectful and loony and men will accept it. You pretty much get from women what you are willing to accept.

 

[Jesus]

Yeah man it's screwed up but that's how it goes. The pool of high quality women is so low and the stock of super accommodating dudes is so high, that women can be utterly disrespectful and loony and men will accept it. You pretty much get from women what you are willing to accept.

Unfortunately my sister is this way...haven't really spent time with her much since we lived in the same house when I was 17...I'm 24 now...like she's a totally different person. So disrespectful and uncouth. She is willing to drop some gas money for her nikka, but couldn't spend a weekend on gas to come visit her brother. This chump she is dating...simp. His last GF got ran train on by the football team and was recorded. My oldest cousin...in a out with her baby daddy and is "engaged" to another nikka. Only one I hope for is my youngest cousin...she's 17 a year away from her bachelor's in Chemistry and wants to be a vet.

Black women in two parent households and still didn't do them any good...too weak minded and easily persuaded by the media and their chicken head friends.

I'm done ranting...I hope I have sons and if I have daughters I won't raise them in this country.

 

[Spliff]

To fukk a married women are not.

Idk man idk this is truly something i said i never do.
I'm stick by my code and not do it.

But now this chick txt my phone asking for dikk pics. We only sat in the car and had a chat after work. I was the one to bring up a sexual question first but that was just to keep the convo flowing and to make her laugh. Yeah I'm pleaser.

How did a lil on the job flirting and 30 min car convo make this wife with two kids ask for some side dikk.?

This the type of shyt I'm actively avoiding with engaged shorty at my job.

30min car convo? I'm settin up p*ssy.

 

[CASHAPP]

...
When i think about "Retrospect for Life", I think of another great woman: Ms. Lauryn Hill, one of the true geniuses of our time. I've had the privilege of calling her a friend for well over a decade now. The one and only time we recorded together, though, was on "Retrospect for Life." I had already chosen the track and written the lyrics, but I felt like the song needed something more. It needed a woman's voice. It needed Lauryn. So I called her up, explained the concept of the song to her, and asked if she'd be willing to collaborate. She was so enthusiastic about it that not only did she agree to sing the hook on the track but she also agreed to direct the music video.

Working with Lauryn, I got to see her genius up close. I also got to know a truly beautiful human being, inside and out. We'd spend hours in the studio laughing and listening to Stevie Wonder songs. (She eventually chose to interpolate "Never Dreamed You'd Leave in Summer" as the hook.) The song became so much more powerful once her voice was added into the mix. It's still one of my favorite songs that I've ever recorded.

The video was another experience entirely. It was my first attempt at acting, and, needles to say, I was work in progress. But even though I was obviously uncomfortable in front of the camera - worried I might forget my lines, glancing down at the ground to make sure I hit my spots - Lauryn never lost patience with me. I remember after one particularly poor line reading, she drew me aside.
"Rashid, where are you from?"
"I'm from Chicago."
"And what's your mother's name?"
"Her name is Mahalia Ann Hines."
"You hear how you answered those questions? How natural you sounded, how comfortable?" she said. "That's exactly how I want you to sound when you deliver your lines. I want you to be you."

Those words really reached me. And although there was only so much I could improve upon in my performance - my guys still clown me for it to this day - I would take that lesson with me into my first professional acting jobs. I still carry it with me today. That's the kind of wisdom that Ms. Hill has to offer.

In the years that followed, I'd keep up with her from time to time. Like the general public, I'd read about her hard times and longed for her to return to music. What I saw, though, wasn't a person in crisis but a person in pain. Every so often I'd call her up just to let her know that I was here for her if she needed me. I didn't ask her any questions; I didn't need for her to explain anything to me. I just needed her to know that I was here if she needed to talk to someone. That's how I understand friendship.

The same time period she was with her man? Why does Common do that simping shyt/??

Your gonna call up a woman from time to time who has a man and is not calling you herself and known to be a recluse for why exactly?

dudes are crazy..and he said that with a straight face

 

[MikelArteta]

Have boundaries and stand firm, who cares if you "lose" her in the process. Again she's not that special

 

[MikelArteta]

when it comes down to it, as men we have to start demanding more from women. Even these average brehettes offering nothing their only asset their vagina, won't mess with short men, chicks on welfare or making min wage renting a crummy apartment in a run down area think there all that and won't mess with a dude who works at walmart or lives at home.

But what are dudes demanding? the average man demands nothing, as long as the possibility of him getting sex, he's to scared to have boundaries or set down the law in case she leaves like she is something so valuable or special. Dudes allowing their chicks to travel to mexico or jamaica with the rest of her skanky friends , dudes allowing their girl to go clubbing or to the bar , you can't serve two masters. you can't be in a committed relationship yet still run with the hyenas. SET DOWN THE LAWS and don't waver. Yeah she may leave but who cares, principles>>>>>vagina that is so easy to procure in this generation.

 

[Auger]

Honestly, it's not cool. Wives should not be taking trips 'with the homegirls' and the husband is not included. Men now are so accommodating that women come to expect it though.

So taking trips alone = means she's promiscuous?

 

[MikelArteta]

I've been single for a while, but its not because its hard to date or even get in a relationship.

I just look at it like its not going to last. So why waste my time? Or my money? Or my emotions?

Why put in all this effort for a few months? Why let down my standards or boundaries nah screw that.

I know what I want and if I don't get it I'll wait. Just like I'm not taking that slice of pizza that's been sitting out there all day. I'll wait for a prime fresh batch.

 

[Rocket Scientist]

If your woman is taking more trips with her friends then YOU its a problem.

 

[MikelArteta]

Why would a woman take a trip alone?

More than likely she's meeting someone.

So taking trips alone = means she's promiscuous?

 

[Rocket Scientist]

Another thing I need to mention is married women using social media,I never understood how married women can have a lot of male friends.Yea I know not all women are the same,but I always tend to think that why would a married woman need to socialize with a single man?