Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

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personally i couldnt be with a girl who had that type of tension with my boy. even if she aint cheating she still feeling my boy while im dating er. maybe you should demote her to jump off status and slowly move on
More than likey this will happen.

But hypothetically, say it was a long term relationship or we had kids together or was even married. How would I approach this.?

Cause my last relationship lasted a few years and I can count on my hands how many times my ex saw my friends.
 

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More than likey this will happen.

But hypothetically, say it was a long term relationship or we had kids together or was even married. How would I approach this.?

Cause my last relationship lasted a few years and I can count on my hands how many times my ex saw my friends.

The main thing for me is that she would still have feelings for someone else. i dont like playing 2nd fiddle so id bounce or just keep smashing. whether its marriage or a long-term relationship if her heart is someone else then we dont need to be together. might be immature or whatever but i rather move on.its up to you though bruh...through my experience with women so far i know what i accept and what i dont and thats one of the things i dont. you should come up with your own list of things you'd accept and wont accept. what might be a big deal for me wont be one for you
 

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More than likey this will happen.

But hypothetically, say it was a long term relationship or we had kids together or was even married. How would I approach this.?

Cause my last relationship lasted a few years and I can count on my hands how many times my ex saw my friends.

if she feeling your friend period u drop her or divorce her shyt won't end well in the long run. sure she may not have slept with him but eventually it does happen

what if it happens at your own crib when u come home and u see it that shyt is traumatizing. if your boy is a good friend he won't let it happen regardless but hey most guys live by the motto aint nothing better than new p*ssy no matter who the female is

just gonna have too chalk this one up as a L and keep it moving too be honest.
 

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this is a good thread for guys too read up on and learn from other dudes on what they been thru.
i even started my own personal blog too clear up any of my own personal thoughts on whats going on with my personal life

i have no shame on dropping personal info here even though it exposes me too some fukked up situations but if it helps one of you guys its well worth it

everything that i have been thru with females i dont want no dude too go thru

@His_Excellence_Reincar he has been thru a lot of shyt sure u aint gotta like what he post or agree but u be stupid not too take some advice from him at times he drops damn good knowledge and i respect him for that

@kevm3 drops good gems as well that can get u on the right track also

and so do many other posters

i :salute: them for their guidance and help they give everybody
 

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So I came to the library today and was returning an overdue book...

Gave it in...then I asked for a laptop....

Let me just say that as usual most librarians are females and it was four of them behind the desk...

after returning back the laptop that would not turn on....in order to get another one...

this librarian wrings her hands and says "my hands are killing me"

another one says_______her name you need to stop hitting your husband

laughter follows from each of them....

this is not to stereotype or anything but the Muslim lady laughed/smiled the most...

:beli: :beli: :beli: :beli: :beli:

man these women and their double standards.
 

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Fellas we not sayng dont enjoy women's company or not talk to them.Just guard your heart.Brothas fallin in love quick and waiting for a woman to call. US men dont do that,Enjoy a womans company but dont sweat her.Even if she is your wife.Remembe you cant control nobody.A woman is gonna do or be with who she wants.
 

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personally i couldnt be with a girl who had that type of tension with my boy. even if she aint cheating she still feeling my boy while im dating er. maybe you should demote her to jump off status and slowly move on

Pretty much. These types of women are highly disrespectful. They're the type that will wear booty shorts when she knows you will be hanging around your boys and she suddenly wants to tag along. That's the type that will be laughing extra hard at your boy's jokes and always asking, "What's up with such and such? How is he doing?"
 

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The less you care the more attention you get, the more loyal they will be become if you act like they are disposable. Which they are. If you act like, "At anytime I can replace you" they will find ways to become irreplaceable. Never argue with a woman. If she wants to talk about something, you make it on your terms. Don't entertain the bullshyt or the crying. Your time is always more important than hers. But make sure if she has put in the time to make her feel special only on certain holidays and her birthday. Always tell her the truth. If you don't love her, tell her. If you are cheating on her, tell her. Be upfront about it. Never shy or cower from speaking on what you are doing. "Why are you so quiet?" "I just don't feel like talking to you right now". And end that with, it's not personal, I'll tell you why later.

Oh and if you really want to know how to deal with a woman....get a cat.
 
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Those like neil straus put real psychology into their adcopys on their websites and not into the product you paid for
 

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many women have unrealistic dreams about men they will date or marry.

Women will never admit this. In their 20s they control courtship/dating/sex to a large degree, and nobody ever forced them to pick the men they choose to be with. They waste their youth, their beauty, their prime years on losers, then in their 30s and 40s when they become single moms and their looks fade or have faded, only then do they want the quality guy. Well guess what? Men of quality and with dating options never have to “settle” for single moms, or washed up women. Successful and physically fit men, single with no kids over the age of 30 has the world is his oyster.
 

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many women have unrealistic dreams about men they will date or marry.

Women will never admit this. In their 20s they control courtship/dating/sex to a large degree, and nobody ever forced them to pick the men they choose to be with. They waste their youth, their beauty, their prime years on losers, then in their 30s and 40s when they become single moms and their looks fade or have faded, only then do they want the quality guy. Well guess what? Men of quality and with dating options never have to “settle” for single moms, or washed up women. Successful and physically fit men, single with no kids over the age of 30 has the world is his oyster.


Cosign, my gf close friend is 28, great job, has a house, no kids, but has been with a loser for like 6 years, all he does is smoke weed, doesnt have his own car, has like 2 kids from other women that he doesnt support, and is always inbetween jobs
 

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Lately it seems like I'm attracting women that I have no interest in. These women aren't ugly but they have too many red flags or character flaws for me to even consider dating them.
 

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Hey guys you have to once in awhile just blow up in your gal's face. Get right in her shyt. I remember I had to do this a few times and a SUREFIRE sign that you have her submitting to you is that she leans back a bit and puts her hands on her hips. It's something she has no control over doing, showing this sign of submission. Things to remember, yell deeply using your diaphragm, lunge at her like you're going to hit her and do it when she is talking so she can submit to your thunderous outburst. Here is a great example. Watch when he blows up in her face she shuts up and puts her hands on her hips and leans back.





Listen from 29 sec. to the end.....
 
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