Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

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Chick hits me up on okcupid, says she went to high school with me (she knew my name), but she is 3 yrs younger then me (she is straight beautiful). Dont recognize her at all, we exchange messages. She use to be in the military now she works in IT working for this company that contracts with the military. Somehow she mentions this concert that is coming up for this old school group that I would have never imagined her being into. I told her how I love the group, and then she tells me she has an extra ticket because all her friends think she is an old lady for wanting to go and she cant get anyway to go with her . She invites me, I said sure. She gives me her number, we exchange messages for a couple days and then I didnt hit her up for like 2 days. She sends me a text at like 730 am saying good morning and how she hopes I have a great day. I reply a few hours later, and we havent talked since. Dont know whats up with her, but shyt what the hell do I have to lose, Im going to send her a text and try to set something up, find out what her schedule looks like this coming week. Plus the concert is next week, are we riding together or taking seperate cars

My text is going to say: "So whats up, Am I going to have to wait until the concert to see you?". I will be able to tell from her response if she just wants me as some simp friend
 

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my godson was sent to live his dad who sees him like once a month becasue her dumb azz didn't want to pay daycare :snoop:

the point of me wasting my time to get a job for this demon was so my godson would have a roof over his head and she does this :snoop:,
you can't help someone that doesnt want to be help. some people you gotta let life teach them. she needs someone to show her proper guidance and structure. Unless you're down to be her man, she won't follow your advice and won't respect you. I,m sure you love your godson but at the end of the day, it's not your kid...let her be the type of parent she wants to be and if she asks for your help, always set the terms underwhich you will help her and she can either bow down or step.
 

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Yo fellas...be aggressive...so I just hit up that chick I was just talking about saying "so do I have to wait until the concert to see you?"...she responds no, what does your schedule look like. I tell her and then she says I would say today, but I already have plans with family (which I already have a date later anyway) so she says what about tomorrow. I tell her sure, I give her the time and tell her I will text her with the spot later today or tomorrow.
 

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What's so sad is that you have so many of these women actually admitting they used their 20s to do their thing and now want 'commitment' in their 30s. It's like these women were literally reading from the same feminist script.
 

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you can't help someone that doesnt want to be help. some people you gotta let life teach them. she needs someone to show her proper guidance and structure. Unless you're down to be her man, she won't follow your advice and won't respect you. I,m sure you love your godson but at the end of the day, it's not your kid...let her be the type of parent she wants to be and if she asks for your help, always set the terms underwhich you will help her and she can either bow down or step.

i already got hit with the "youll never see me or my son again"

:manny:
 

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Yo fellas...be aggressive...so I just hit up that chick I was just talking about saying "so do I have to wait until the concert to see you?"...she responds no, what does your schedule look like. I tell her and then she says I would say today, but I already have plans with family (which I already have a date later anyway) so she says what about tomorrow. I tell her sure, I give her the time and tell her I will text her with the spot later today or tomorrow.

Well......

the chance your taking is if you dont walk the fine line correctly, you'll be looked at as clingy...
 

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how will I look as clingy, I got her number on monday, Ive hit her up twice....thats not clingy

{lets say}If you agree to a date sunday,and your trying to see her wednesday,she will already start thinking subconsciously that your thirst and you have no other options..

which will give her fuel to think your clingy just because...

Can it work for you???Yes if that plays to who you are
 

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{lets say}If you agree to a date sunday,and your trying to see her wednesday,she will already start thinking subconsciously that your thirst and you have no other options..

which will give her fuel to think your clingy just because...

Can it work for you???Yes if that plays to who you are


ok, im confused, I asked her did I have to wait until the concert to see her. She replied no, whats your schedule this week. I tell her mines...she tells me hers. She then says well I would do today with you but i already have plans, which I replied yeah today wouldnt work either for me. She says what about tomorrow. I said sure then i give her the time and then tell her I will text her later with the spot. I dont see how I come off clingy
 

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ok, im confused, I asked her did I have to wait until the concert to see her. She replied no, whats your schedule this week. I tell her mines...she tells me hers. She then says well I would do today with you but i already have plans, which I replied yeah today wouldnt work either for me. She says what about tomorrow. I said sure then i give her the time and then tell her I will text her later with the spot. I dont see how I come off clingy

Me personally,I would have waited....

Simply because if the the verbal game is tight,she would have been making the move to see you first anyway...

The point im making is to create situations where she initiates interest first
 

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Me personally,I would have waited....

Simply because if the the verbal game is tight,she would have been making the move to see you first anyway...

The point im making is to create situations where she initiates interest first


i understand that but she had already given me her number w/o me asking and had already invited to go to a concert, plus Im not into that whole BS games, all of my relationships there were no games played. Anytime ive played games or vice versa either I got fed up or the chick did
 
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