questions to the unmarried fathers

[villain]

so you basically asking nikkas on this board: "would you take care of your kids?"

 

[HelgaPataki]

so you basically asking nikkas on this board: "would you take care of your kids?"

i believe the question was asking about PRIMARY care of the kids. 5-7 days a week all year long. this can be a big shift for someone. i know i was a different kid on the weekends than i was on a weekday. i had different problems and personality

 

[MikelArteta]

like a mom is really going to give up that 500 dollar check and government subsidies

 

[⠀⠀⠀]

so you basically asking nikkas on this board: "would you take care of your kids?"

OP is a new father who is thinking about abandoning his newborn, he wanted to know what other fathers are like before he made his final decision. Thats why he made this thread

 

[HelgaPataki]

OP is a new father who is thinking about abandoning his newborn, he wanted to know what other fathers are like before he made his final decision. Thats why he made this thread

what'd op do to you?! Gerald?

 

[ThumpDaddy]

Well, in my opinion I would want my child to live with me anyway. I only have my daughter and her mother to tell you the truth ain't shyt. #1 If I was in that position I wouldn't think less of the mother depending on the reason. If she was trying to better herself by going to school and/or working then that's all good, but if it's because you "still trying to find yourself" and basically just shying away from responsibilty then yes I would think less of her. #2 I would do it since our child would be in a more stable enviroment. #3 And the last question, to me it doesn't matter if my child was male or female, I would do it regardless of gender.

 

[Rawtid]

Well, in my opinion I would want my child to live with me anyway. I only have my daughter and her mother to tell you the truth ain't shyt. #1 If I was in that position I wouldn't think less of the mother depending on the reason. If she was trying to better herself by going to school and/or working then that's all good, but if it's because you "still trying to find yourself" and basically just shying away from responsibilty then yes I would think less of her. #2 I would do it since our child would be in a more stable enviroment. #3 And the last question, to me it doesn't matter if my child was male or female, I would do it regardless of gender.

If you don't mind sharing, how is your baby mother "not shyt"?

I think it's funny to think a working mother is depending on Child support checks so much that her life will crumble without the payment. Most of the times it's money she's footing up front anyway.

 

[Mr Uncle Leroy]

yes - cause especially since she is going through money issues...
yes -
any child - yes.

 

[ThumpDaddy]

If you don't mind sharing, how is your baby mother "not shyt"?

I think it's funny to think a working mother is depending on Child support checks so much that her life will crumble without the payment. Most of the times it's money she's footing up front anyway.

Well, when I said my daughter's mother isn't shyt I meant that she doesn't take the time out to even see our daughter. She doesn't keep a job. Sometimes her fault, sometimes it's not. She lies and disappoints our daughter all the time. Plus she has a pill popping problem. I have said it before that my daughter feels like she has to call her mother or she won't call her because she doesn't take the time to call our daughter. I have story, after story, after story, after story about how she hasn't done right by our daughter. It's sad, but the truth. Like instead of picking up our daughter like she told her a week ago, she's going to the casino and had the fukking nerve to call me to lie to her to say that she's not coming because she's sick. So because of that I say my daughter's mother ain't shyt.

 

[Texas2step]

I got custody now n I wouldn't have it no other way. I'm doing it because I feel like I'm the best chance they got n I don't trust no one else to raise them (not even their mother). Tho I thought it would be easier. I feel single mother's pain sometimes

 

[twan83]

if the mom of your kid(s) asked you to be the primary caregiver over the kid(s) would you think less of her?

would you do it?

would you be more open to doing this for your son (for role model purposes)?

When i was a single father i already had custody
and even if i didn't have custody i would want custody regardless cuz i feel im the parent they should be with

Even though im married now she still ain't shyt and still ain't did anything for them when we went our separate ways and ive raised them without her help and it got to the point where my son flat out told her he don't want to talk to her and my daughter dnt even know her.

But my kids are extremely happy now without her cuz they got a father that will never walk out on them and always be their for them no matter what happens unlike their mother.

People need to realize not only guys walk out on their kids but so do mothers

And i do receive that child support and bout to increase that joker drastically too

 

[L&HH]

My folks were divorced all my life. my sister stayed with my pops and me and my brother stayed with our mom. Idk what to think about that tho

 

[Art Barr]

ol' girl, that bytch is not risking that eic check.


i already had her snatch my babygirl and run off to the burbs.

for that weak ass prostitute check called eic.

art barr

 

[BamdaDon]

I would take my son in a sec. My bm works but her personality fukking sucks had to take her to court just to see my son. This hoe really only wanted me to see the lil nig once a week and this chick is a social worker working on her masters.

 

[TRUEST]

i give credit to you folks with kids. the thought of them terrifies me