Im being honest
Question to the black men of the coli
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KravenMorehead™
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Well there's different ways to look at it.
On a global socioeconomic level,
Other races in society are allowed to get away with shyt that black people get overstigmatized for (due to the ongoing global wash of white supremacy).
You see a mob movie no one thinks "these guys are killers." But same dude watching goodfellas and rooting for the mob will watch the news and call trayvon a ****** cause he had a hoodie on or flipped the bird in his facebook picture. So this is a factor.
On a sociological level,
When you date outside of your normal social circle you become more lenient on standards, because of the idea that you're going outside the box in the first place. You can't say you're going outside the box, and then have all kinda parameters. For example a person who's been a vegetarian for 10 years might have a strict regimen, but someone who's been eating meat their whole life and decides to go vegetarian this week might eat anything vegan that someone suggests, or might romanticize things that make lifelong vegetarians look at them funny.
That's why for example when black people date white people their standards become weird, and some get thrown out the window. this plus the first point.
On an interpersonal level,
If someone were to call you a worthless c*nt in russian, you don't understand what they're saying, so the only thing being communicated is their anger, so certain parts of your consciousness are affected, and others aren't being reached, which would make you relatively slower to react. If that same dude says that shyt in english, you'll turn up quicker, cause the language/symbols are reaching more and larger areas of your consciousness. Same principle. Which means that if said spanish women were cussing said black men out in english all the time and never in spanish, Spanish women's contentiousness would get the same stigma as that of Black Women. So this plus the first two points.
Personally I don't fukk with attitudes either fukkin way, but that's what it is.
On a global socioeconomic level,
Other races in society are allowed to get away with shyt that black people get overstigmatized for (due to the ongoing global wash of white supremacy).
You see a mob movie no one thinks "these guys are killers." But same dude watching goodfellas and rooting for the mob will watch the news and call trayvon a ****** cause he had a hoodie on or flipped the bird in his facebook picture. So this is a factor.
On a sociological level,
When you date outside of your normal social circle you become more lenient on standards, because of the idea that you're going outside the box in the first place. You can't say you're going outside the box, and then have all kinda parameters. For example a person who's been a vegetarian for 10 years might have a strict regimen, but someone who's been eating meat their whole life and decides to go vegetarian this week might eat anything vegan that someone suggests, or might romanticize things that make lifelong vegetarians look at them funny.
That's why for example when black people date white people their standards become weird, and some get thrown out the window. this plus the first point.
On an interpersonal level,
If someone were to call you a worthless c*nt in russian, you don't understand what they're saying, so the only thing being communicated is their anger, so certain parts of your consciousness are affected, and others aren't being reached, which would make you relatively slower to react. If that same dude says that shyt in english, you'll turn up quicker, cause the language/symbols are reaching more and larger areas of your consciousness. Same principle. Which means that if said spanish women were cussing said black men out in english all the time and never in spanish, Spanish women's contentiousness would get the same stigma as that of Black Women. So this plus the first two points.
Personally I don't fukk with attitudes either fukkin way, but that's what it is.
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Lol look at this characterization of black women. Pathetic.Latinas and black girls both have funky ass attitudes
Just if you're pretty with long real hair and an accent more is tolerated than if you were for example....dark.....fat....and always complaining about how you can't get or keep a man on message boards
Snitchin Splatter
Working With The Feds
Black women in general or a direct example of someone in this thread? Think about it......and if the shoe fits.... wench it
@Marty Kaan how is ur day goin so far love, what u eat for breakfast?
A a$$hole is an a$$hole regardless of race, creed and gender. I tolerate none of that in my circle. I find it all equally unladylike and uncouth.
I dapped u b/c honesty is a rare commodity in this day and age. I know that not all brothas are like this but a sizable portion are. It really is all about looks in the end and the media has brainwashed a lot of blk men to automatically associate W. African features with masculinity. So with blk women we already have our femininity compromised in the heads of many blk dudes we meet, so any little reaction is viewed through that lens of masculinity that taints people's perception of us.I'll be honest here, for me latina hoodrats look better than black hoodrats hence i'm more likely to accept that the kind of behavior from them
This is fine. And it won't change. There are too many forces at work. However, I wish dudes would just be more honest about it instead of pretending that we're making stuff up. I would prefer a dude say that he didn't like the way I looked instead of pretending that any human display of emotion I have is because I'm a mean and nasty horrible chick.
I don't want people to think i don't like black women
im talking about the specific cohort of hoodrat
Flay Mayweather
Superstar
Because certain black dudes want to use any excuse to justify their hate for black women.
Emotions and feelins aren't limited to black women, all women have them.
A couple dudes on the coli is guilty of this and they dont see anything wrong because its like constructive criticism to them.
@Marty Kaan
Emotions and feelins aren't limited to black women, all women have them.
A couple dudes on the coli is guilty of this and they dont see anything wrong because its like constructive criticism to them.
@Marty Kaan