Nah the few times I've played online it's people constantly cursing or using racial slurs.
I just play videogames to relax
Thats the biggest factor for me too.
second biggest is that the type of games and how you play them when it comes to multiplayer
its usually a mortal kombat/ fighting game, or a fps game /squad based shooter. Or a sports game like 2k. Essentially they only use mulitplayer for matched based games these days. but I'm more retro than that when its comes to multiplayer
I preferred the way we did 2 to 4 player games back in the NES day before internet. Ninja Turtles for example you can play solo or with a partner
Like Imagine how Spiderman 2 would have been with this format, You and a friend could team up as peter and miles. and could actually progress a story driven game rather than just match based games all the time.