“ Protect all black women. Not just the ones you’re attracted to”

[BaggerofTea]

I have no idea. But he was a Wm, and that was a ww he could have helped but he chose not to.

I’m not understanding this shytting on bm collectively, considering that again I’ve seen bm do more to help bw in public spaces than I’ve seen among other groups. These days a lot of people be looking out for themselves and minding their own business.

But the majority of bm I know do speak up for the bw that they personally know, and I’ve had men in my life that have gotten on their cousins and friends, having talks and given them guidance in cases where they may have treated a woman wrong, etc—the thing is it’s done behind closed doors.

I think the first step is looking out for the women in your family and in your life and doing what you can to protect them and speak up on their behalf. Show respect and try to be kind, even to those you aren’t attracted to if they are kind and respectful to you... but that’s it.

Because when it comes to strangers—I don’t know if I can encourage Brehs to go out of their way to offer protection because sometimes it can be dangerous.

As a side note For brehs who are more likely to help a woman if she’s attractive he may be looking at it on some well if I’m about to put my life on the line or step out and go out of my way to help she gotta be worth the trouble (not even saying it’s right but I’ve seen similar arguments made from women in the reverse—well if I’m going to have to deal with bullshyt anyway I’d rather deal with it from an attractive man). As a society, attractive people across every race get treated better than their unattractive or average looking peers.

Thank you for your perspective

 

[Crayola Coyote]

Aint that against the oath of a medical professional?

bill doesn’t want to get sued

 

[EA]

we’ve been leaving them alone. They are coming after us Average black men minding our business. These people start to create movements such as.. “MeToo” to get back at us men

It’s fukked up but there’s not much we as men can do in response to these attacks that won’t be heavily criticised. Unless it’s a woman in your actual circle of influence, trying to debate with women that feel this way is a lost cause so it’s best to just ignore them.

We need to stop feeding into this divide and start propping up the black men and women that are doing their part in moving us forward.

 

[old pig]

I think I’ve figured out the source of a lot of the femcel and anti-black male energy on social media. It all boils down to non-attractive women feeling like nobody cares about them.

where you think ugly dykes came from lol?

 

[-deleted-]

Let me just say this

men appreciate all women in some way shape or form literally

women do not register men they find unattractive. They do not even register their existence.

this tweet is projection.

 

[Crayola Coyote]

They now tryna call this chick a "Hispanic."


They really DESPISE light skin women.

and pretty black women too.

 

[Crayola Coyote]

It’s fukked up but there’s not much we as men can do in response to these attacks that won’t be heavily criticised. Unless it’s a woman in your actual circle of influence, trying to debate with women that feel this way is a lost cause so it’s best to just ignore them.

We need to stop feeding into this divide and start propping up the black men and women that are doing their part in moving us forward.

I’m all for that cause I see the bigger picture.

 

[MIKE SPLEAN]

All I know is I wouldn't protect that bytch. The internet got these hoes minds warped. Nobody is gonna protect a lesbian, bedwench or a c00n. They are the only ones that be on that "we don't get protection" nonsense. Most black women don't even fix they mouths to say that cause they got nikkas who would kill for them off top. These hoes ain't shyt and don't say shyt like this in public. Just online for other gays and cacs to like and retweet makin it look like black folks support they goofy ass talking points. In real life this ain't even a talking point. Never heard a black women say that before.

 

[Kinguno]

She would encompass all black women. I would say look after the women in your family and love life. And if most brothas did that than all bases would be covered I assume. Rather than trying to cape for every random sistas you see out. Some sistas don't even want a nikka to be on that extra shyt honestly. They be like I can protect myself.

This statement would get you called horrible names

I’m starting to look at everyone with disgust

 

[Kinguno]

Fixed.
to these broads doin all this crying...no matter the shade all these broads got it sweet in this society. Because quiet as kept , nobody's plight (if u will) is equivalent to the black mans, INCLUDING our women. And they know it thats why they employ alot of the tactics that they do.
And nikkas dont wanna speak on it cuz they afraid of women. But these hoes just as out of line as everybody....always running to the White man whenever they feel the need to exercise some sort of control over a nikka. Whether it be calling 12 for any lil dispute and feigning domestic abuse, or putting nikkas on papers who they kno taking care of they kids.....and im not even gne speak on how many abortions our women have committed over the past 60 years. That shyt is factually GENOCIDE man.

Yall keep deifying these broads never holding them accountable, enabling them, and it benefits nobody. Thats why our communities are like how they are, because they're basically a quasi Matriarchy .

So the black man, as a collective, are the biggest simps on the planet. Broads like the one in the op need to be taught that her role is as that as a wife and as a mother. She would get all the protection in the world if she understand that....but if yall nikkas aint teaching em that, or worse yet, are AFRAID to tell em that; all it leads to is these circular gender "debates" .

Tighten up black man. Aint shyt getting resolved til WE fix our communities, and it starts in the home

But black women get raped,killed,beat up, asked to shoulder loads, and get asked to have their hair touched

 

[ba'al]

I’m starting to look at everyone with disgust

It is what it is what do you have to offer that's different than looking after the women in your family and love life? You seem to have all the answers why not share them here rather than complain.

 

[Mr Hate Coffee]

More of these Black women have to speak up.

I followed all of them. I need my timeline to reflect more positive thinking

 

[Ya?]

I followed all of them. I need my timeline to reflect more positive thinking

Until they say something you dont like lol.

i hope you give the men the same energy that rip BW to shreds on social media.

 

[Mr Hate Coffee]

Men in our community have abdicated the leadership role wholesale. Especially the boomer/gen x generation

This was intentional by the govt. Nearly all masculine, powerful black male leaders from a generation ago were literally killed. There’s a lot more to get into here but you get the gist. There are systemic factors at play within and outside the black community that have gutted male leadership. And it’s by design.

 

[BaggerofTea]

This was intentional by the govt. Nearly all masculine, powerful black male leaders from a generation ago were literally killed. There’s a lot more to get into here but you get the gist. There are systemic factors at play within and outside the black community that have gutted male leadership. And it’s by design.

I agree, but we need to conscious of this now.

Self-awareness is how you overcome system pressures and mechanisms of destruction