“ Protect all black women. Not just the ones you’re attracted to”

[JQ Legend]

“A nikka better be at least 6ft, make six figures, have a long stroke game, drive a nice car, have straight white teeth, a six pack before he comes and holla at me, but none of you nikkas better be shallow when it comes to women. We’re all beautiful in all shapes, size and color and shouldn’t be judged superficially.”

One of the best posts ever made

 

[Originalman]

I have no idea. But he was a Wm, and that was a ww he could have helped but he chose not to.

I’m not understanding this shytting on bm collectively, considering that again I’ve seen bm do more to help bw in public spaces than I’ve seen among other groups. These days a lot of people be looking out for themselves and minding their own business.

But the majority of bm I know do speak up for the bw that they personally know, and I’ve had men in my life that have gotten on their cousins and friends, having talks and given them guidance in cases where they may have treated a woman wrong, etc—the thing is it’s done behind closed doors.

I think the first step is looking out for the women in your family and in your life and doing what you can to protect them and speak up on their behalf. Show respect and try to be kind, even to those you aren’t attracted to if they are kind and respectful to you... but that’s it.

Because when it comes to strangers—I don’t know if I can encourage Brehs to go out of their way to offer protection because sometimes it can be dangerous.

As a side note For brehs who are more likely to help a woman if she’s attractive he may be looking at it on some well if I’m about to put my life on the line or step out and go out of my way to help she gotta be worth the trouble (not even saying it’s right but I’ve seen similar arguments made from women in the reverse—well if I’m going to have to deal with bullshyt anyway I’d rather deal with it from an attractive man). As a society, attractive people across every race get treated better than their unattractive or average looking peers.

They even did a study on this years ago. They would have a avg looking white woman on the side if the road with a broken down car and compare it to an attractive white woman on the side of the road with a broken down car.

Guess what happened the people (mostly white)...men and women. Overwhelmingly pulled over to help the attractive white woman.

 

[⠝⠕⠏⠑]

I haven’t read any of the tweets but going from the title, the general premise is true. But the other side of the story is that lots of blk chicks do the same damn thing with blk dudes.

People in general care more about attractive individuals, babies, children, elderly.

There are lots of invisible people in our community that get no love or consideration. It needs to stop.

But she is being disingenuous.

Also if she gon tell it, there’s another side to this too.
It’s called, “Black people only care about the regard and protection of attractive blks.“

How many blk men and women do protect each other and go out on a limb for others, but get ignored or disregarded b:c the ones you want ain’t paying you the attention you want? Blk men and blk women do this, btw.

The solution is to acknowledge the ignorance but have a larger outpouring of appreciation for those who ARE in ur corner, instead of being drama driven and hyperfocused on the loud minority of hoe babblers and bitter Twitter nikkas.

But I guess that would be boring to some, so round and round we go.



(Fades out slowly.)

 

[Wild self]

I have no idea. But he was a Wm, and that was a ww he could have helped but he chose not to.

I’m not understanding this shytting on bm collectively, considering that again I’ve seen bm do more to help bw in public spaces than I’ve seen among other groups. These days a lot of people be looking out for themselves and minding their own business.

But the majority of bm I know do speak up for the bw that they personally know, and I’ve had men in my life that have gotten on their cousins and friends, having talks and given them guidance in cases where they may have treated a woman wrong, etc—the thing is it’s done behind closed doors.

I think the first step is looking out for the women in your family and in your life and doing what you can to protect them and speak up on their behalf. Show respect and try to be kind, even to those you aren’t attracted to if they are kind and respectful to you... but that’s it.

Because when it comes to strangers—I don’t know if I can encourage Brehs to go out of their way to offer protection because sometimes it can be dangerous.

As a side note For brehs who are more likely to help a woman if she’s attractive he may be looking at it on some well if I’m about to put my life on the line or step out and go out of my way to help she gotta be worth the trouble (not even saying it’s right but I’ve seen similar arguments made from women in the reverse—well if I’m going to have to deal with bullshyt anyway I’d rather deal with it from an attractive man). As a society, attractive people across every race get treated better than their unattractive or average looking peers.

Exactly...at least you see through the propaganda. Them black women that bash black men and throw shade, are not pro-black. They are agents of the COINTELPRO variety . I said this in another thread, but people use sex as a weapon of distraction.

 

[Astroslik]

Aint that against the oath of a medical professional?

Doubt that happened tbh.

 

[Bawon Samedi]

This shyts basically about colorism and dating for these lunatics.

 

[Wild self]

This shyts basically about colorism and dating for these lunatics.

War against the sensible black women vs the mental patients.

 

[Mister_DoItNice]

I’m a contractor that’s deployed right now and I have personally checked a few army dudes for talking crazy to the African women who work in the chow halls here. My immediate family is all women and they know there isn’t anything I wouldn’t do for them. I don’t have social media so all of this is mostly nonsense to me. You guys post this stuff and I have never met anyone in my life who speaks like these people. Granted, I’m over 30 so maybe it’s a generational thing.

 

[Busted_Toes]

This shyts basically about colorism and dating for these lunatics.

Colorism plus Celebrity worship. Trying to police famous Black men and they don't know the circumstances they met their wives. First thing they see is skin color. If she light skin, he's a colorist.

It's got so bad now... if she's dark skin he's pandering.

 

[Bawon Samedi]

War against the sensible black women vs the mental patients.

They now tryna call this chick a "Hispanic."


They really DESPISE light skin women.

 

[Wild self]

They now tryna call this chick a "Hispanic."


They really DESPISE light skin women.

The hatred....I wonder what they say about me, a light skinned Jamaican breh,

But those light skinned women outright admit that they black and fight for black people rights, as a whole. These Delusional broads do be getting funding from the government

 

[MMA]

I am a shamed; men continue to answer them

 

[Balla]

More of these Black women have to speak up.

Pickmeika

 

[Hoodoo Child]

They silent when a nikka die protecting them from their man

 

[jay83]

Remember the dude who died checking that old white guy in Florida? In the parking lot of a 711? White dude antagonized his lady in the car and he came out pushed him down and white dude shot him dead and used the stand your ground law as a excuse.

I was hearing black women saying “ well don’t start nothing with be nothing.” And “ he should’nt have pushed the white dude down, that’s why he got shot”, I’m still pushed when I see that video.