Stay Seeking
Banned
Are you saying her experiences aren't valid?
I'm saying young girls like her and Tommy Sotomayor and brothers like myself get fed up with lack of community and very narrow insular scope of the black community.
I've witnessed it here on the Coli in the few weeks I've been here.
I've been called "CAC", and every name in the book, also been "negged" into oblivion for exchanging ideas, however users can post the most worthless threads and get praise and their ignorance excused because it looks or sounds "cool".
I've heard Tommy Sotomayor say "fukk the black community" before, and honestly I've been feeling the same way when I come to the Coli. I've been called "CAC", and everything else in the world, yet I'm one of the few members that OPENLY doesn't find white women attractive, or feel the need to go OUT OF MY WAY for white people. Yet these militants have Jergens and tissues on the side of their beds in "PAWG" threads, worshiping wrestlers, and white pornstars.
There's definitely something up with this place, I can't prove it, but I can just feel this forced agenda and frame of thinking, like someone just doesn't like me for being me and is going out of their way to convince themselves and "users" of the Coli that I'm a bad person.
It's truly disgusting because this forum was the only place that I actually invest time in day in and day out because I felt like blacks had an online voice here. But I'm seeing that's not exactly true, if someone is willing to go through these lengths to destroy my spirit simply because I choose to be an individual.
So I agree with Tommy Sotomayor, and the young girl...when you do stop being black and just enjoy being human? On your OWN terms?