Disagree
Pregnant woman gets down on one knee to propose.
- Thread starter ThrobbingHood
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But do you really want to marry someone like that? How does a person know if the other person is ready or just waiting for a proposal from the other person?
I wonder how many men are married to women who feel like they had to say yes when he proposed.....
How many people are married just because they been together for a while?
GMB
Actually6Foot3
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you’d want your woman putting you on the spot like this?
Balls in your court you got 3 seconds to decide before shyt gets awkward.
No woman is doing this unless she's "tired of waiting" so to speak. she's taking over an aspect and a decision that is historically the man's because she wants marriage and she wants it now.
It doesnt change the dynamic you spoke on. Whether or not the man asks or the woman, he's still controlling the access to the relationship. its not like a woman can throw her proposing to you into your face. Thats an insecurity that SHE would have, not the man.
Who is it awkward for when a man proposes and the woman doesnt immediately say yes? Is it the man whos embarrassed or the woman? Her being forced to wait and being "tired" of waiting doesnt change the dynamic because even when she proposes, he had the power to make her wait AND ask. Her proposing doesnt shift any power because the act isnt where the power comes from, the power lies with the person who wants to married less. Thats just usually men.
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Actually6Foot3
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yeah you're completely off on this one. Agree to disagree.
The difference is it's only awkward after she says no. On the contrary forbwoman to propose to a man it's awkward as soon as she gets on her knee (especially if he's completely unaware) It's a train wreck if bruh says no (which he likely won't less he be villan #1 in front of everyone).
Besides, by her asking you she is controlling the if and when at that moment. IF and WHEN the relationship progresses to an engagement or not. There's no more waiting. She's taken control of that dynamic of the relationship, She's put you on the spot and she's getting her answer right then and there. Either you say yes and you're engaged or no and she knows where she stands. It is not an insecurity for a woman to propose. Most women, secure or not would ever do this. Even less so of the insecure. What it takes is a masculine woman to do some shyt like this. It's bold af.
KillerB88
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I never noticed how much Kim looks like Dijonay from The Proud Family.
Maybe marriage proposals shouldn’t be a thing and you just get ‘grandfathered’ in. Y’all been dating for 5 years ... in the court of law , y’all ‘ married or have marital rights’
I say this because I feel a lot of people (women) get put on the spot and don’t wanna say no even though they want to because of embarrassing their spouse or just doing what society deems normal...idk
I’m too busy to delve in further so maybe someone can piggyback off this for me while I handle thing 1 and 2.
KillerB88
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Doobie Doo
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For her to do a PAWGposal in front of her friends, breh got to be on the cusp of designing some revolutionary app.