i apologize for making a somewhat sexist comment earlier about debating war strategy with women, because you get it. this is strictly a @Canadadry issue.It's not about stopping their mentality. Who cares. A person can think whatever they want about me, but they should not and will not treat me any kind of way and I am not going to wait for them to change themselves. I should make it so regardless of how you feel, you will think twice about acting on it. That is the point they are making in here. You saying let them fix themselves and this post are contradictory. So let them fix themselves or it doesn't matter because it is ingrained and they will never change? If it is ingrained that is even more reason to fight against it and not forgive.